{"id":18226,"date":"2020-07-03T06:34:49","date_gmt":"2020-07-03T06:34:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18226"},"modified":"2021-08-31T08:00:27","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T08:00:27","slug":"asi-es-como-se-quiere-a-un-pensador-exagerado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/asi-es-como-se-quiere-a-un-pensador-exagerado\/","title":{"rendered":"As\u00ed es como se quiere a un pensador empedernido"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cuando amas a una persona que piensa demasiado, amas a alguien que est\u00e1 confundido todo el tiempo.<\/p>\n

You love someone who can\u2019t turn off their mind, someone who is fighting millions of questions every day. You love someone whose mind is a complete mess.<\/p>\n

An overthinker can\u2019t control their thoughts. They can\u2019t store them in drawers inside their mind. They can only try to catch them as they float around in complete and utter disorder.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Su mente les enga\u00f1a. Un segundo est\u00e1n tranquilos y serenos, pero en cuanto ocurre algo, una situaci\u00f3n nueva o imprevisible, empiezan a pensar m\u00e1s de la cuenta.<\/p>\n

What if this, what if that, how will I do this or that. They can\u2019t stop asking questions and worrying about the outcome.<\/p>\n

Son personas que van de una en una. Procesar\u00e1n las decisiones hasta estar seguros al cien por cien de que han tomado la correcta.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

And after they are done with it, they start overthinking about something else. It\u2019s exhausting to live this way with a question mark hanging above your head all the time.<\/p>\n

Cuando quieres a alguien que piensa demasiado, tienes que ser paciente con \u00e9l. Hay que saber calmarle y evitar que se asuste a\u00fan m\u00e1s. Hay que saber comprenderle.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Tienes que demostrarles que est\u00e1s a su lado siempre que te necesiten.<\/strong> <\/em>Las palabras no significan nada para ellos. S\u00f3lo son frases vac\u00edas que salen de tu boca.<\/p>\n

They can only make them overthink even more. Do you really mean what you said? What if you\u2019re just saying that? What about when things get really serious, are you going to do what you said you would?<\/p>\n

Tienes que saber c\u00f3mo evitar que se ahoguen en un mar de preguntas cuando se enfrentan a una situaci\u00f3n dif\u00edcil. Hay que saber sacudirles y devolverles a la realidad.<\/p>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Tienes que saber demostrarles que siempre hay una soluci\u00f3n para cada problema y que vais a resolverlo juntos.<\/p>\n

Tienes que ser comprensivo.<\/strong> <\/em>Tienes que darte cuenta de que, aunque t\u00fa pienses que todo est\u00e1 bien, ellos piensan que todo es terrible.<\/p>\n

You need to understand why you\u2019ve been flooded with questions out of nowhere. You need to know that their mood swings are not intentional. You need to know that their fear is true and honest.<\/p>\n

They can\u2019t ignore their thoughts. They can\u2019t shut down and autopilot themself through life. They can\u2019t control their mind and just decide to get rid of all the thoughts that are poking around their brain and keeping them awake at night.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Tienes que demostrarles lo mucho que les quieres incluso en los momentos en que se odian a s\u00ed mismos y se pierden en su mente.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Necesita mu\u00e9streles empat\u00eda<\/a> and make them aware of the fact that you aren\u2019t going anywhere.<\/p>\n

Tienes que mostrarles que eres vulnerable<\/strong><\/em> too, that there are some things that scare you, too. You need to show them that they are not alone. You need to let them know that it\u2019s okay to tell you what they are scared of and worried about.<\/p>\n

You need to keep repeating to them that you love them, even if it\u2019s a hundred times a day. Your every \u2018I love you\u2019 makes them calmer and more relaxed. Maybe it doesn\u2019t mean that much to you but it means the world to them.<\/p>\n

Tienes que ser sincero.<\/strong> <\/em>You have to tell them how you feel. You have to know how to tell them what is going on inside your heart and mind, because if you don\u2019t they will think about it all the time, bringing their mind to the point of desmoron\u00e1ndose<\/a>.<\/p>\n

You need to always show your feelings and lay them out in the open, never hide them, because they will sense that and obsess themself with why you\u2019re hiding something from them.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Se les pasar\u00e1n por la cabeza millones de situaciones, desde las peores hasta las m\u00e1s llevaderas. Pero todas ellas les provocar\u00e1n ansiedad y miedo.<\/p>\n

Tienes que saber c\u00f3mo calmarles y ahuyentar su ansiedad. Hay que saber mostrarle lo buena persona que es. Hay que saber destacar sus cualidades y sus lados buenos. Hay que saber mostrarles la verdad y sacarles de su mente desordenada y ansiosa.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Tienes que saber que lo cuestionan todo, incluso a ti. Tienes que estar preparado para todas las situaciones.<\/p>\n

You could be having a nice, calm evening relaxing and all of a sudden they will bomb you with questions that have been going around their mind for some time and just can\u2019t stay in there anymore.<\/p>\n

I know, loving an overthinker is so hard. But aren\u2019t all relationships hard? Isn\u2019t love hard? The greater it is, the harder it gets. The more your feelings grow, the more is at stake. An overthinker can drive you crazy.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Sometimes you can\u2019t take it anymore but an overthinker<\/a> will never leave you. They will be loyal and their love is something you\u2019ll have never experienced before.<\/p>\n

They know how much you\u2019re doing for them. They know it\u2019s hard to keep someone on the ground.<\/p>\n

They know it\u2019s almost impossible to get them out of their head and calm them down when all the questions start wandering around inside their mind.<\/p>\n

They will love until the end, no matter how strange you are or how many flaws you have. They will love you no matter what you\u2019ve left behind in the past. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

They will love you because they know they are a handful and your love is so strong that every time you\u2019ve had enough, it gives you a push not to give up on them. Not to give up on you two.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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