{"id":18229,"date":"2020-08-03T06:58:48","date_gmt":"2020-08-03T06:58:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18229"},"modified":"2022-05-04T11:42:49","modified_gmt":"2022-05-04T11:42:49","slug":"los-hombres-de-verdad-protegen-a-sus-mujeres-no-abusan-de-ellas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/los-hombres-de-verdad-protegen-a-sus-mujeres-no-abusan-de-ellas\/","title":{"rendered":"Los hombres de verdad protegen a sus mujeres, no las maltratan"},"content":{"rendered":"

I have no idea what they told you while you were growing up but let\u2019s get one thing straight from the beginning\u2014el maltrato no es amor<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Pi\u00e9nsalo, \u00bfcu\u00e1ntas mujeres se librar\u00edan de la tortura si dej\u00e1ramos de idealizar los malos tratos?<\/p>\n

No, love shouldn\u2019t be hard. It does require a lot of effort but it should never require for you to bend over backward to receive it. <\/strong>No, love shouldn\u2019t hurt.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Longing for someone, missing them when they\u2019re away, aching for their embrace and touch are all normal things but this is all considered as sweet suffering.<\/p>\n

True love never questions your worth, never makes you wonder if you\u2019re good enough or makes you feel like your heart is being shattered into a million pieces day after day.<\/p>\n

See, we all need to stick one thing in our head\u2014real men don\u2019t make love feel hard, they make it feel like it\u2019s the easiest thing there is. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Real men don\u2019t hurt their women, they protect them. Everything else is just a lie we tell ourself in fear of letting go of our toxic partner.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

La verdad es que un hombre de verdad nunca har\u00eda nada para herir deliberadamente a la mujer que ama.<\/p>\n

He\u2019d never do anything to make his la mujer se siente insegura<\/a> ni amenazarla ni hacer nada que pudiera romperle el coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Existe una lista de cosas de hombres de verdad<\/a> y abusar de las mujeres nunca es una de ellas.<\/p>\n

Men who abuse women are nothing but cowards hiding behind their manhood. But they\u2019re not real men. <\/strong><\/p>\n

They\u2019re just the mere shape of men but there is nothing but rotten souls on the inside.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you told a kid to draw someone who abuses women either physically or emotionally, do you know what they\u2019d draw? A monster, and that\u2019s exactly what they are.<\/p>\n

Lo que pasa es que un hombre de verdad se respeta lo suficiente como para no decir nunca mentiras, para no jugar nunca, para no romper nunca a alguien que le dio su coraz\u00f3n. Tan simple como eso.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Los hombres de verdad quieren a sus mujeres.<\/strong> They know that whatever you give to a woman, she returns it double. If you give her your heart, she\u2019s gonna give you all of her love.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

If you give her a house, she\u2019s gonna give you a home. If you give her your love, she\u2019s gonna make you feel like the only man in this world. What more could you possibly ask for?<\/p>\n

Los hombres de verdad protegen a sus mujeres.<\/strong> But they don\u2019t just pretend to do it in public and then abuse them when they\u2019re home and nobody is watching.<\/p>\n

Protegen a sus mujeres incluso de s\u00ed mismos. Las hacen sentir seguras y nunca permiten que les pase nada malo.<\/p>\n

The catch is that real men are aware of women\u2019s strength, they don\u2019t consider them the weaker sex at all but they\u2019re there for them in the moments when life knocks them down.<\/p>\n

Los hombres de verdad odian ver a mujeres destrozadas de rodillas, suplicando amor o piedad.<\/strong><\/p>\n

That just makes their stomachs turn. That\u2019s just something a sadist is turned by on.<\/p>\n

Lo que excita a un hombre de verdad es ver a su mujer con la cabeza bien alta, feliz y segura de s\u00ed misma. No hay nada que excite m\u00e1s a los hombres de verdad que esto.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Una mujer feliz es la mayor fuerza de un hombre de verdad. Solo los cobardes disfrutan maltratando y hundiendo a las mujeres que decidieron entregarles su coraz\u00f3n.<\/strong><\/p>\n

A veces, por las circunstancias en las que nos podemos encontrar, o por la presi\u00f3n de la sociedad, nos conformamos. Y conformarse es uno de los mayores amigos del abuso.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Empiezas a dejarte llevar por la corriente. Empiezas a ignorar tus deseos y anhelos. Olvidas tu val\u00eda y crees que te mereces todo el dolor que recibes.<\/p>\n

But that\u2019s so wrong. So, please don\u2019t ever settle. Instead, love yourself to the point where solitude will be a better option than allowing someone to treat you with disrespect.<\/p>\n

El amor propio es la clave para esquivar la bala llamada abuso. Si lo piensas, tiene sentido.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

Porque si te quieres, sabes lo que te mereces.  <\/strong>Eres consciente de lo que vales y sabes c\u00f3mo mereces que te traten. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Cuando te quieres a ti mismo, abres las puertas para que los dem\u00e1s tambi\u00e9n te quieran.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So, whoever you are, whatever you stand for in this world, regardless of what you\u2019ve been through in your life or the amount of love you feel for a man, always know that real men protect their women, they don\u2019t abuse them.<\/strong> So, please, don\u2019t ever settle for an abuser.<\/p>\n

Know that the man who\u2019s worthy of you will make su amor se siente como en casa<\/a>.<\/p>\n

A real man will be there for you when times get ugly, he\u2019ll be your shoulder to lean on when things get tough and he\u2019ll do everything to protect you and to make you feel safe.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, por favor, don\u2019t ever allow someone to make you feel threatened and don\u2019t call it love.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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I have no idea what they told you while you were growing up but let\u2019s get one thing straight from the beginning\u2014abuse is not love. Just think about it, how many women would be spared of torture if only we stopped romanticizing abuse? No, love shouldn\u2019t be hard. It does require a lot of effort…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":97034,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18229","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Real-Men-Protect-Their-Women-They-Don\u2019t-Abuse-Them-1.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18229","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18229"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18229\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/97034"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18229"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18229"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18229"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}