{"id":18273,"date":"2018-05-03T12:05:42","date_gmt":"2018-05-03T12:05:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18273"},"modified":"2022-01-21T21:57:50","modified_gmt":"2022-01-21T21:57:50","slug":"esto-es-todo-lo-que-necesitas-saber-para-seguir-siendo-amigo-de-tu-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/esto-es-todo-lo-que-necesitas-saber-para-seguir-siendo-amigo-de-tu-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"Esto es todo lo que necesitas saber para seguir siendo amigo de tu ex"},"content":{"rendered":"

La posibilidad de seguir siendo amigo de tu ex se ha debatido desde siempre. <\/span>\u00bfEs posible la amistad despu\u00e9s de una relaci\u00f3n? \u00bfPodemos <\/b>\u00bfdebo seguir siendo amigo de mi ex?<\/b><\/a> Estas son las preguntas que todos nos hemos hecho a nosotros mismos y a la gente que nos rodea, pero la respuesta correcta parece imposible de encontrar.<\/span><\/p>\n

Bueno, puedo decirte una cosa y es que la amistad con tu ex puede ser la mejor o la peor idea de tu vida. Todo depende de diferentes factores, empezando por las razones por las que quieres que esta amistad suceda.<\/span><\/p>\n

Una amistad entre dos personas que tuvieron una relaci\u00f3n s\u00f3lo puede darse si t\u00fa y tu ex tuvisteis una ruptura civilizada. Si tu ruptura fue dolorosa o implic\u00f3 enga\u00f1os o mentiras, te lo dir\u00e9 sin rodeos: puedes olvidarte de volver a ser amigo de tu ex.<\/span><\/p>\n

Hay momentos en los que <\/span>it\u2019s OK to be friends with your ex<\/span><\/a>. Sometimes, people simply outgrow each other or they mutually conclude that they shouldn\u2019t stay together anymore. <\/span>A veces, a\u00fan quieres que tu ex forme parte de tu vida,<\/b> but you don\u2019t feel attracted to him in the same way you used to or you can\u2019t imagine being romantically involved with him anymore. Sometimes you two still care for each other deeply but you both are very well aware that you can\u2019t function as a couple. And that is more than all right. After all, this person has been a huge part of your life for a long period of time and it is perfectly normal that you are having a hard time cutting him off for good overnight. The two of you weren\u2019t just love partners<\/span>\u2014<\/span>you were also friends and you started seeing him as your family and as a part of you. But if you and your ex decide you will be friends after the break-up has happened, the most important thing is that both of you want the same thing. The worst thing that can happen is that you or your ex still have unresolved feelings for the other and that being friends is just a mask. Being friends with your ex requires that both of you expect the same things from this friendship. You both need to be clear about your feelings for each other and you need to be certain that you don\u2019t love each other romantically anymore.<\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: C\u00f3mo afrontar que tu mejor amiga sea amiga de tu ex<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de esto,<\/span> los dos necesit\u00e1is establecer algunos t\u00e9rminos de esta amistad.<\/b> You can\u2019t expect to be best friends with your ex, because that involves talking to each other about your love life and that is never a good idea. Do you two plan on hanging out on a regular basis or do you just want to stay in touch? Also, you need to understand that sooner or later one or both of you will have someone new in your life and that there is no place for jealousy in this case. Plus you need to think about the future. How will your new boyfriend react to this friendship? You need to understand that many people wouldn\u2019t be comfortable with the idea that their partner is  still close to their ex and you shouldn\u2019t allow your <\/span>ex para arruinar tu nueva relaci\u00f3n<\/span><\/a>. \u00bfQu\u00e9 har\u00edas si te pidiera que eligieras entre una relaci\u00f3n con \u00e9l y la amistad con tu ex? Estas son todas las preguntas que tanto t\u00fa como tu ex ten\u00e9is que responder y en las que ten\u00e9is que poneros de acuerdo si quer\u00e9is tener una amistad exitosa.<\/span><\/p>\n

Si planeas seguir siendo amigo de tu ex, tienes que entender que esta amistad rara vez puede funcionar justo despu\u00e9s de que la relaci\u00f3n haya terminado.<\/b> Es probable que ambos necesit\u00e9is un tiempo para olvidaros y poner en orden vuestras emociones. Es poco probable que pod\u00e1is ser amigos en este periodo de vuestras vidas posterior a la ruptura, porque al menos uno de los dos probablemente vea en esto una oportunidad para volver a estar juntos.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por otro lado, tambi\u00e9n tienes que ser consciente de que ser amigo de tu ex tambi\u00e9n puede ser malo para ti.<\/b> You need to make sure that his motives are clear as well. You don\u2019t want him to keep you around just so he could keep his options open or because he is not ready to accept the break-up.<\/span><\/p>\n

Staying friends with your ex can prevent you from moving on with your life and it can give you false hope of getting back together with him, even without you being aware of it. As long as you have him in your life, you are subconsciously holding on to him and it is possible that you haven\u2019t actually accepted the break-up and that is one of the worst things you can do to yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

En cualquier caso, la decisi\u00f3n es tuya. Y elijas lo que elijas, tienes que ser consciente de en qu\u00e9 te est\u00e1s metiendo y asegurarte de que la otra persona tambi\u00e9n es perfectamente consciente de ello.<\/b> <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

The possibility of staying friends with your ex has been debated forever. Is friendship possible after a relationship? Can I and should I stay friends with my ex? These are all the questions we have all asked ourself and the people around us but the right answer seems impossible to find. Well, I can tell…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":18274,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18273","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/allan-ferreira-553241-unsplash.jpg",800,532,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","parent":29627,"count":263,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29628,"category_count":263,"category_description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","cat_name":"dealing with breakup","category_nicename":"dealing-with-breakup","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18273","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18273"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18273\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18274"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18273"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18273"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18273"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}