{"id":18374,"date":"2020-11-07T07:08:16","date_gmt":"2020-11-07T07:08:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18374"},"modified":"2022-06-22T23:24:30","modified_gmt":"2022-06-22T23:24:30","slug":"5-senales-tortuosas-de-comportamiento-manipulador-en-una-relacion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-senales-tortuosas-de-comportamiento-manipulador-en-una-relacion\/","title":{"rendered":"5 se\u00f1ales tortuosas de comportamiento manipulador en una relaci\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"

Todos sabemos que la vida es muy dura y tener a alguien a tu lado que te ayude a sobrellevar el d\u00eda significa mucho. Tener a alguien que te cubra las espaldas y que te haga compa\u00f1\u00eda cuando todo va bien y cuando todo va mal.<\/p>\n

Pero algunas personas simplemente no est\u00e1n hechas para tener una relaci\u00f3n.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Algunas personas simplemente no est\u00e1n destinadas a formar parte de nuestra vida.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019m talking about manipuladores t\u00f3xicos<\/a>, of course. The thing with manipulations is that they tend to damage you for life if you don\u2019t see them in time. And, trust me, they are hard to notice.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve been manipulated before and while I justified it myself by being young, deep down I know that I never had a chance with them. They were just too good for me to notice their games.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, para ayudarte a ti, para ayudar a cualquiera que lea este art\u00edculo y para salvar al menos a una persona de ser manipulada como lo fui yo, te traigo las tortuosas se\u00f1ales de manipulaciones a las que debes estar atento en una relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Aunque algunos de ellos parecen inocentes, cr\u00e9eme, en combinaci\u00f3n con otros signos de esta lista, son bombas de relojer\u00eda a punto de estallar, y la \u00fanica v\u00edctima ser\u00e1s t\u00fa.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nunca se responsabiliza de sus errores<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Puede ser dif\u00edcil darse cuenta de esto al principio de una relaci\u00f3n, simplemente porque no hay tantas discusiones en la fase de luna de miel. Pero a\u00fan as\u00ed puede ocurrir, y la \u00fanica forma de verlo es detenerse y analizar realmente la relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPuedes recordar la \u00faltima vez que se disculp\u00f3 por algo que hizo (como cuando ignor\u00f3 tus mensajes<\/a>? \u00bfO te hizo un mont\u00f3n de promesas vac\u00edas que nunca cumpli\u00f3? \u00bfO intent\u00f3 culparte por algo que hizo, de modo que acabaste siendo t\u00fa quien tuvo que disculparse?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Esto me pas\u00f3 mucho, porque deseaba tanto que mi relaci\u00f3n tuviera \u00e9xito. Me enamor\u00e9 perdidamente de ese chico y todo lo que dec\u00eda o hac\u00eda me parec\u00eda tan distorsionado en un momento dado.<\/p>\n

Ahora, cuando miro atr\u00e1s, me dan ganas de darme una bofetada por idiota, pero era joven y estaba enamorada. Y tambi\u00e9n perd\u00ed gran parte de mi fe y de mi inocencia gracias a \u00e9l y a sus juegos.<\/p>\n

Celos<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Los celos en peque\u00f1as cantidades pueden considerarse saludables para una relaci\u00f3n. Te dice que se preocupa por ti y hay algo adorable en que sea un poco celoso.<\/p>\n

Pero si eso celos<\/a> is getting out of hand, such as him blaming you for being too available to others and making you stay at home because he feels safer that way\u2014you are being manipulated.<\/p>\n

A menudo, las personas celosas son realmente inseguras, por lo que proyectan esas inseguridades en ti. Ven infidelidad donde no la hay y temen constantemente que les enga\u00f1es porque sienten que no son lo suficientemente buenos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

When you feel that way, it\u2019s normal and healthy to talk about it with your partner to see if there is a way to deal with it.<\/p>\n

But manipulating your partner into staying at home with you and making them feel guilty all the time for having a life outside of the relationship\u2014that\u2019s just a sign of toxic manipulation.<\/p>\n

Relacionado: 20 se\u00f1ales reveladoras de una mujer manipuladora (+ c\u00f3mo afrontarlas)<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Nunca cumple su palabra<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

They say that empty words foster empty hearts. When you are constantly being promised amazing dates, a great life and so much love but you don\u2019t experience any of it, you start feeling like all the joy is being sucked out of you.<\/p>\n

Empiezas a dudar de tu val\u00eda y de tu relaci\u00f3n, pero no de la forma en que deber\u00edas dudar de ellas.<\/p>\n

Los manipuladores dir\u00e1n lo que tengan que decir para mantenerte a su lado y, cr\u00e9eme, conocen todas las palabras adecuadas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If your partner is making a bunch of empty promises but never follows through, you are being manipulated into staying with him. In love, words don\u2019t mean as much as actions do.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t tell me how much you love me, show me. Make me feel loved, instead of just promising it.<\/p>\n

Culpabilizaci\u00f3n y comportamiento pasivo-agresivo<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Guilt-tripping is basically the ultimate tool for manipulations. It\u2019s essentially using your past mistakes in order to get things from you, even if you made that mistake unknowingly or accidentally.<\/p>\n

Quiz\u00e1 heriste sus sentimientos una vez (o incluso se lo invent\u00f3) y ahora utiliza ese incidente cuando te pide un favor, para hacerte sentir culpable y m\u00e1s f\u00e1cilmente manipulable.<\/p>\n

You are doing something you don\u2019t want to do, all because you feel guilty for something you did in the past and something he allegedly forgave you for.<\/strong> Si lo notas, frena inmediatamente la relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Y en cuanto a comportamiento pasivo-agresivo<\/a> goes, it\u2019s the most immature technique that manipulators use to get something from you.<\/p>\n

No le interesa hablar abiertamente del tema y hacerte saber que est\u00e1 enfadado; en su lugar, hablar\u00e1 de ti a tus espaldas o dejar\u00e1 el fregadero lleno de platos para hacerte saber que est\u00e1 cabreado.<\/p>\n

Esto no s\u00f3lo es un signo de comportamiento pasivo-agresivo<\/a> sino tambi\u00e9n un signo de un hombre emocionalmente inmaduro y necesitas huir de \u00e9l \u00a1ASAP!<\/p>\n

Us\u00e1ndote para aumentar su ego<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

While people are fishing for compliments all the time, if they are manipulative while doing it, it\u2019s a HUGE, red flag.<\/p>\n

He will often say how he believes he will get fired, how he sucks at work or how he could lose some more weight because you will leave him for someone better looking, and he\u2019s doing it only to get compliments from you.<\/p>\n

You kind of feel obligated to make him feel better about himself but honestly, that\u2019s like fighting a windmill. Lo har\u00e1s una y otra vez hasta que empiece a volverte loco.<\/strong><\/p>\n

And forcing his insecurities on you is something he will surely do. It\u2019s like forbidding you to eat peanut butter because he is allergic to peanuts, or he will ask you to stop hanging out with male friends because he was once cheated on.<\/p>\n

It may seem crazy, but his games and manipulations will be so good that you won\u2019t notice them at first and you\u2019ll unknowingly obey them. Precisamente por eso los manipuladores son peligrosos. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Te despojan de tu confianza, de tus amigos y de tu cordura, hasta que no queda nada.<\/strong> Despu\u00e9s de eso, se van, buscando a su pr\u00f3xima v\u00edctima, porque su trabajo contigo ha terminado.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/strong>10 se\u00f1ales de que te est\u00e1 utilizando para aumentar su ego<\/a><\/p>\n

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