{"id":18383,"date":"2019-05-07T07:37:38","date_gmt":"2019-05-07T07:37:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18383"},"modified":"2022-02-06T16:35:09","modified_gmt":"2022-02-06T16:35:09","slug":"no-eras-mi-alma-gemela-solo-eras-mi-leccion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-eras-mi-alma-gemela-solo-eras-mi-leccion\/","title":{"rendered":"No eras mi alma gemela, s\u00f3lo eras mi lecci\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Desde que tengo uso de raz\u00f3n, <strong>He cre\u00eddo que en alg\u00fan lugar ah\u00ed fuera exist\u00eda mi otra mitad.<\/strong> La persona que est\u00e1 destinada a pasar su vida conmigo y alguien que est\u00e1 destinado a ser m\u00edo.<\/p>\r\n<p>A man who will save me and who will let me save him back. A man who will complete me and who will give me all the things I didn\u2019t even know I was missing.<\/p>\r\n<p>Un hombre que me ame pase lo que pase y que aprecie mi amor incondicional.<\/p>\r\n<p>I knew that somewhere out there existed my Mr. Perfect, my Prince Charming. And I didn\u2019t expect him to be flawless\u2014I wanted our love to be perfect and I wished the two of us would be perfectly imperfect for each other.<\/p>\r\n<p>Este hombre nunca se ir\u00eda de mi lado y me amar\u00eda, pasara lo que pasara. Al mismo tiempo, nunca cuestionar\u00eda mi amor por \u00e9l.<\/p>\r\n<p>And he wouldn\u2019t have any reason to. He\u2019d know I would love him at his worst and at his best, without exception.<\/p>\r\n<p>He\u2019d know that I\u2019d waited for him for my entire life and he\u2019d know how grateful I would be to have him in my life. We would both put the same amount of effort into our relationship and we would both try hard to make it work.<\/p>\r\n<p>Pens\u00e9 que esta persona ser\u00eda mi alma gemela y mi pareja hecha en el cielo y estaba segura de que este hombre llegar\u00eda a mi vida.<\/p>\r\n<p>And when I met you, I was sure you were this guy. When we first started seeing each other, you had all these qualities. It wasn\u2019t your looks or your money\u2014it was simply the way you treated me.<\/p>\r\n<p>I didn\u2019t expect you to treat me like a princess but that was how exactly how you made me feel. I felt appreciated, respected, loved and wanted and they were the things I wanted the most.<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>So I was positive that you were my soulmate, that you were the guy I\u2019d waited so long for.<\/strong> And I was so happy that you finally came into my life that I didn\u2019t see that you were changing with time.<\/p>\r\n<p>I didn\u2019t see that you were only pretending to be this perfect guy until you were sure you got under my skin.<\/p>\r\n<p>E incluso cuando empec\u00e9 a darme cuenta, me negu\u00e9 a ver tu verdadero yo. Incluso cuando vi que me dabas por sentado, que tu amor por m\u00ed se estaba desvaneciendo de forma evidente, intent\u00e9 justificarte y ponerte excusas.<\/p>\r\n<p>I wanted to believe in our fairy tale so much that I wasn\u2019t ready to allow anything or anyone to destroy this image of you that I had. Even if that someone was you.<\/p>\r\n<p>Y entonces un d\u00eda, me dejaste por otra mujer. <strong>Sin m\u00e1s, te fuiste de mi vida.<\/strong> Te alejaste de nuestras vidas, de todo lo que hab\u00edamos planeado y so\u00f1ado juntos.<\/p>\r\n<p>Te fuiste como si yo no significara nada para ti y como si nunca me hubieras amado.<\/p>\r\n<p>And I guess you never did. I guess you only pretended to be the man you weren\u2019t until you saw that you had me completely, until you were sure I loved you like I had never loved anyone else.<\/p>\r\n<p>Eso era todo lo que quer\u00edas de m\u00ed y una vez que lo consegu\u00edas, estabas listo para irte.<\/p>\r\n<p>Cuando te fuiste, me qued\u00e9 destrozada. T\u00fa <a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/lexi-herrick\/an-open-letter-to-the-man-who-broke-my-heart_b_5349587.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">me rompi\u00f3 el coraz\u00f3n<\/a> y destrozaste todas mis esperanzas y sue\u00f1os. Mataste a la ni\u00f1a inocente que cre\u00eda en el amor y en los cuentos de hadas y me hiciste enfrentarme a la vida real.<\/p>\r\n<p>You made me face pain and disappointment. I saw you as the man I wanted to spend the rest of my life with and it took me a long time before I realized that this wasn\u2019t going to happen.<\/p>\r\n<p>Me llev\u00f3 mucho tiempo recoger <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/nunca-dejo-moretones-cuerpo-corazon\/\">los pedazos de mi coraz\u00f3n roto<\/a> que te fuiste sin preguntarte nunca c\u00f3mo estaba y sin preguntarte nunca qu\u00e9 me hab\u00edas hecho.<\/p>\r\n<p>But I am not going to talk to you about everything I\u2019ve been through since you left. Because I am better now. Yes, you killed the person I was before you entered my life and for a while, I didn\u2019t like the woman you made me become.<\/p>\r\n<p>Pero poco a poco, estoy aprendiendo a amar a este nuevo yo. Porque ahora, soy m\u00e1s fuerte de lo que jam\u00e1s podr\u00eda imaginar ser.<\/p>\r\n<p>I don\u2019t believe in fairy tales anymore and I know that sometimes love is not enough but you didn\u2019t manage to kill my desire for life and that is the most important thing.<\/p>\r\n<p>S\u00f3lo te dir\u00e9 que te he perdonado. No s\u00f3lo eso, sino <strong>Te agradezco todo lo que me has hecho.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>Because if it wasn\u2019t for you, I would never have become the strong, powerful and independent woman I am now. I would never have realized that not everyone deserves my love and trust.<\/p>\r\n<p>I would never have understood that I don\u2019t need a man to complete me and that I am more than enough by myself. And I would never have realized that I need to respect and love myself before I respect and love someone else.<\/p>\r\n<p>S\u00ed, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/fuiste-mi-leccion-mas-dura\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">fuiste mi lecci\u00f3n m\u00e1s dura<\/a> pero <strong>Supongo que tuve que confundir un alma gemela con una lecci\u00f3n para entender algunas cosas.<\/strong> <!--codes_iframe--><!--\/codes_iframe--><\/p>\r\n\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-41236 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/herway.net-23.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/herway.net-23.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/herway.net-23-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/herway.net-23-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ever since I can remember, I have believed that somewhere out there existed my other half. The person who is meant to spend his life with me and someone who is destined to be mine. A man who will save me and who will let me save him back. 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