{"id":18406,"date":"2020-06-07T12:29:55","date_gmt":"2020-06-07T12:29:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18406"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:54:50","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:54:50","slug":"es-hora-de-que-aceptes-que-se-ha-ido-y-que-no-va-a-volver","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/es-hora-de-que-aceptes-que-se-ha-ido-y-que-no-va-a-volver\/","title":{"rendered":"Es hora de que aceptes que se ha ido y que no va a volver."},"content":{"rendered":"

S\u00e9 que hay un chico al que quieres pero que ya no forma parte de tu vida. T\u00fa y \u00e9l vivisteis momentos especiales e hicisteis bonitos recuerdos. <\/p>\n

Estabas convencida de que era el amor de tu vida, tu alma gemela y tu persona para siempre. Pensabas que vuestra relaci\u00f3n era especial y que merec\u00eda la pena luchar por ella. <\/p>\n

Y lo m\u00e1s importante, le quer\u00edas m\u00e1s que a nadie en este mundo. Y estabas segura de que \u00e9l sent\u00eda lo mismo.<\/p>\n

Actually, you still love him more than anything. But it appears that he doesn\u2019t feel the same way about you. Otherwise, he wouldn\u2019t have left you.<\/p>\n

Ever since he walked away from you, you\u2019ve been spending your days esper\u00e1ndole<\/a> para volver a ti, como si nada hubiera pasado. <\/p>\n

You\u2019ve spent all this time stuck in one spot, holding on to your past relationship like it is the only good thing in your life.<\/p>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

You simply can\u2019t face the reality and you refuse to accept that he has left you because you think that this realization would kill you spiritually.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que tu subconsciente ha desarrollado este mecanismo de defensa y, en el fondo, ni siquiera eres consciente de que se ha ido. <\/p>\n

En el fondo, ves su marcha s\u00f3lo como una ruptura en vuestra relaci\u00f3n y como algo temporal. <\/p>\n

You\u2019ve put your life on hold and you pressed pause, because you expect him to come back to you every second of the day.<\/p>\n

For your entire life, you\u2019ve been listening to people telling you that you have to think positively if you want good things to happen to you. <\/p>\n

As\u00ed que aqu\u00ed est\u00e1s, siendo m\u00e1s optimista que nunca. Aqu\u00ed est\u00e1s, seguro de que el amor de tu vida volver\u00e1 a ti.<\/p>\n

\"linda<\/p>\n

And with time, you lost touch with reality. You started living this parallel life in your dreams and in your head. You\u2019ve been pretending all along that this man is still yours and you feel like you are going crazy because that isn\u2019t happening. <\/p>\n

Y cada vez que piensas que podr\u00eda no volver contigo, recuerdas todos los bonitos recuerdos que compartisteis y te convences de que todav\u00eda te quiere <\/a>y que s\u00f3lo necesita tiempo para entenderlo. <\/p>\n

Recuerdas todas las veces que te jur\u00f3 amor eterno y vuelves a eso, esperando que tu situaci\u00f3n cambie.<\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you the last thing you want to hear. Let me tell you something that everyone around you kept telling you for months but you just wouldn\u2019t listen. <\/b><\/p>\n

Let me tell you something that will cause you more emotional pain than this guy\u2019s departure did.  <\/b>Let me tell you the truth, no matter how harsh it is and no matter how much you don\u2019t want to hear it.<\/b><\/p>\n

Let me break your heart, for your own good. This man is gone and he doesn\u2019t have any intention of coming back. And it\u2019s about time you accept this.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

It\u2019s time you finally face the harsh reality and admit to yourself that your hopes have been in vain.<\/b><\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que esto es algo de lo que has estado huyendo todo el tiempo y soy muy consciente de que esta toma de conciencia te romper\u00e1 en pedazos. <\/p>\n

Pero es algo que debes aceptar y comprender. Porque es la \u00fanica verdad.<\/p>\n

Porque es la \u00fanica manera de que puedas seguir viviendo tu vida y de que puedas pasar p\u00e1gina con este hombre que tanto da\u00f1o te ha hecho.<\/p>\n

You need to realize that you\u2019ve spent months waiting for something that will never happen. <\/b>You need to understand that you haven\u2019t been living your life all this time<\/b>\u2014<\/b>la vida te ha ido pasando de largo.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You need to understand that this guy will win if you continue doing this to yourself because he has continued being a part of you, even though he isn\u2019t physically by your side.<\/b><\/p>\n

I know that this is not an easy thing to admit and to accept. And I don\u2019t expect you to do it overnight. But you need to force yourself to at least begin with your progress.<\/p>\n

Cada vez que piensas en c\u00f3mo habr\u00eda sido si \u00e9l hab\u00eda vuelto arrastr\u00e1ndose<\/a> o qu\u00e9 habr\u00eda pasado si se hubiera quedado o cada vez que empieces a tener esperanzas de que a\u00fan te quiere, obl\u00edgate a pensar en otra cosa. <\/p>\n

Obl\u00edgate a pensar en todas las cosas malas que te ha hecho, si eso te ayuda. Solo necesitas reprogramar tu cerebro para que piense de otra manera. <\/p>\n

Y con el tiempo, cr\u00e9eme<\/b>\u2014<\/b>you\u2019ll succeed and you will leave this guy in the past, where he belongs.<\/b> <\/p>\n

\"Es<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I know that there is this guy you love but who isn\u2019t a part of your life any longer. You and he had special moments and made beautiful memories. You were convinced that he was the love of your life, your soulmate and your forever person. You thought that your relationship was special and something…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":94706,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18406","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Its-Time-You-Accept-He-Is-Gone-And-He-Isnt-Coming-Back.jpg",800,540,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","parent":29627,"count":263,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29628,"category_count":263,"category_description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","cat_name":"dealing with breakup","category_nicename":"dealing-with-breakup","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18406","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18406"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18406\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/94706"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18406"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18406"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18406"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}