{"id":18453,"date":"2020-10-08T11:12:13","date_gmt":"2020-10-08T11:12:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18453"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:59:49","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:59:49","slug":"si-haces-estas-5-cosas-lo-ahuyentaras","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-haces-estas-5-cosas-lo-ahuyentaras\/","title":{"rendered":"Si haces estas 5 cosas, lo ahuyentar\u00e1s"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The key to every relationship is understanding. You have to be aware of the fact that when you start a relationship, you\u2019re accepting your partner for who he is.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re accepting him with all his flaws and quirks.<\/p>\n<p>But usually, at the beginning of every relationship, we are all infatuated and we fail to see those \u2018negative\u2019 sides of our partner.<\/p>\n<p>And when the nice and fluffy period is over, we start noticing things that we maybe didn\u2019t notice before.<\/p>\n<p>And then it\u2019s only a matter of time when we reach our breaking point, when we have just had enough.<\/p>\n<p>Hay una salida a esta situaci\u00f3n. S\u00f3lo tienes que reaccionar a tiempo y ser sincero contigo mismo. Tienes que entender a tu pareja y las cosas que le molestan.<\/p>\n<p>Ten\u00e9is que encontrar alg\u00fan tipo de soluci\u00f3n mediante una conversaci\u00f3n sincera. Esa es la clave para salvar vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>So, read and find out which are the things you need to stop doing if you don\u2019t want to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/si-un-chico-hace-estas-5-cosas-quiere-que-le-persigas\/\">perseguirlo<\/a> y arruinar vuestra relaci\u00f3n:<\/p>\n<h2>1. You\u2019re jealous<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-118555\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/woman-on-the-balcony.jpg\" alt=\"mujer pensativa en el balc\u00f3n\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/woman-on-the-balcony.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/woman-on-the-balcony-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/woman-on-the-balcony-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/woman-on-the-balcony-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/woman-on-the-balcony-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/woman-on-the-balcony-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/woman-on-the-balcony-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/woman-on-the-balcony-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Jealousy is the silent killer of every relationship. Being a bit jealous is totally okay, it means that you care about your partner and you don\u2019t want to lose him.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que estos sentimientos pueden aparecer de vez en cuando.<\/p>\n<p>Pero si empiezas a obsesionarte con la idea de que podr\u00eda estar enga\u00f1\u00e1ndote con otra, o que quiere estar con cada chica que se le acerca para hablarle, entonces tienes un problema.<\/p>\n<p>Le asfixiar\u00e1 y le ahuyentar\u00e1.<\/p>\n<h2>2. You don\u2019t support him<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-118552\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/beautiful-sad-woman-sitting-in-the-car-in-rainy-weather.jpg\" alt=\"hermosa mujer triste sentada en el coche en tiempo de lluvia\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/beautiful-sad-woman-sitting-in-the-car-in-rainy-weather.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/beautiful-sad-woman-sitting-in-the-car-in-rainy-weather-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/beautiful-sad-woman-sitting-in-the-car-in-rainy-weather-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/beautiful-sad-woman-sitting-in-the-car-in-rainy-weather-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/beautiful-sad-woman-sitting-in-the-car-in-rainy-weather-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/beautiful-sad-woman-sitting-in-the-car-in-rainy-weather-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/beautiful-sad-woman-sitting-in-the-car-in-rainy-weather-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/beautiful-sad-woman-sitting-in-the-car-in-rainy-weather-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Of what use are you to him if you\u2019re not by his side when he needs you to be?<\/p>\n<p>If your partner is in trouble and he needs you and you\u2019re not there, and if this happens more than a couple of times, he won\u2019t count on you to be his support system anymore.<\/p>\n<p>Y cuando pierdas eso, tu relaci\u00f3n se ir\u00e1 desmoronando poco a poco, ya que os ir\u00e9is distanciando.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re not showing him support, he will find someone who will. Not everyone has friends and family to rely on.<\/p>\n<p>Algunos ponen todas sus esperanzas en su pareja y si \u00e9sta les falla, seguir\u00e1n adelante e intentar\u00e1n encontrar a alguien que est\u00e9 a su lado pase lo que pase.<\/p>\n<h2>3. You don\u2019t trust him<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-118557\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Woman-having-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"Mujer tomando caf\u00e9\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Woman-having-coffee.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Woman-having-coffee-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Woman-having-coffee-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Woman-having-coffee-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Woman-having-coffee-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Woman-having-coffee-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Woman-having-coffee-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Woman-having-coffee-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you don\u2019t trust him and go snooping through his phone every time he comes back from a guys\u2019 night out, it can really hurt your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>En primer lugar, te estresar\u00e1 y, en segundo lugar, le volver\u00e1 loco y le llevar\u00e1 a su punto de ruptura y entonces todo habr\u00e1 terminado.<\/p>\n<p>Si realmente est\u00e1 siendo sincero contigo, actuar de esta manera le ahuyentar\u00e1 definitivamente.<\/p>\n<h2>4. You don\u2019t give him enough affection<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-118561\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Upset-couple-ignoring-each-other-lying-back-to-back-in-bed.jpg\" alt=\"Pareja disgustada ignor\u00e1ndose mutuamente, tumbados espalda con espalda en la cama\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Upset-couple-ignoring-each-other-lying-back-to-back-in-bed.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Upset-couple-ignoring-each-other-lying-back-to-back-in-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Upset-couple-ignoring-each-other-lying-back-to-back-in-bed-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Upset-couple-ignoring-each-other-lying-back-to-back-in-bed-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Upset-couple-ignoring-each-other-lying-back-to-back-in-bed-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Upset-couple-ignoring-each-other-lying-back-to-back-in-bed-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Upset-couple-ignoring-each-other-lying-back-to-back-in-bed-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Upset-couple-ignoring-each-other-lying-back-to-back-in-bed-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Los chicos no son seres verbales como nosotras. Los chicos son seres m\u00e1s sensibles.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca te dir\u00e1 que le gustas a la cara pero en cambio te enviar\u00e1 un mont\u00f3n de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/los-hombres-tienden-sentimientos-misteriosos-16-signos-sutiles-gusta\/\">se\u00f1ales sutiles de que le gustas<\/a>, so it\u2019s the same with him saying he loves you.<\/p>\n<p>Siempre prefiere demostrar lo que siente en lugar de limitarse a dec\u00edrtelo.<\/p>\n<p>If you started your relationship with a lot of affection, hugs, and kisses and now all of a sudden you\u2019re not that into it, he\u2019ll probably suspect that something is going on, or you\u2019re distancing yourself and it will scare him away from you in the attempt that he doesn\u2019t get hurt.<\/p>\n<h2>5. You don\u2019t give him enough space<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-118560\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Upset-young-man-sitting-on-the-edge-of-the-bed.jpg\" alt=\"Joven inquieto sentado en el borde de la cama\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Upset-young-man-sitting-on-the-edge-of-the-bed.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Upset-young-man-sitting-on-the-edge-of-the-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Upset-young-man-sitting-on-the-edge-of-the-bed-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Upset-young-man-sitting-on-the-edge-of-the-bed-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Upset-young-man-sitting-on-the-edge-of-the-bed-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Upset-young-man-sitting-on-the-edge-of-the-bed-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Upset-young-man-sitting-on-the-edge-of-the-bed-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Upset-young-man-sitting-on-the-edge-of-the-bed-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Todos necesitamos algo de espacio y tiempo personal, estemos o no en una relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>If he\u2019s with you, it doesn\u2019t mean that you have to spend every second of every day together, or that you have to know where he is every time you\u2019re not together.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00e9jale en paz. Necesita su espacio. Necesita hablar con sus amigos, necesita pasar tiempo solo. Especialmente si tiene algunos problemas que resolver.<\/p>\n<p>Men don\u2019t usually talk about their problems.<\/p>\n<p>Se retiran a un lugar tranquilo, se ocupan de lo que les preocupa y, cuando acaban, te lo cuentan todo.<\/p>\n<p>Obligarle a pasar tiempo contigo y a contarte cosas que quieres saber le <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/5-cosas-por-las-que-eres-extremadamente-pegajoso\/\">te hacen parecer pegajosa y necesitada<\/a>. Y se cansar\u00e1 y se ir\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-118619\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/If-You-Do-These-5-Things-Youll-Chase-Him-Away-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Si haces estas 5 cosas, lo ahuyentar\u00e1s\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/If-You-Do-These-5-Things-Youll-Chase-Him-Away-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/If-You-Do-These-5-Things-Youll-Chase-Him-Away-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/If-You-Do-These-5-Things-Youll-Chase-Him-Away-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/If-You-Do-These-5-Things-Youll-Chase-Him-Away-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/If-You-Do-These-5-Things-Youll-Chase-Him-Away-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The key to every relationship is understanding. You have to be aware of the fact that when you start a relationship, you\u2019re accepting your partner for who he is. You\u2019re accepting him with all his flaws and quirks. But usually, at the beginning of every relationship, we are all infatuated and we fail to see&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":118554,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29647],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18453","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-seducing-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29647,"label":"seducing men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/If-You-Do-These-5-Things-Youll-Chase-Him-Away-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29647,"name":"seducing men","slug":"seducing-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29647,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Seducing men is much more than wearing a hot outfit. 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