{"id":18488,"date":"2019-11-09T10:40:31","date_gmt":"2019-11-09T10:40:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18488"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:55:12","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:55:12","slug":"mientras-tu-estabas-demasiado-ocupado-sin-importarle-una-mierda-ella-se-rindio-contigo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/mientras-tu-estabas-demasiado-ocupado-sin-importarle-una-mierda-ella-se-rindio-contigo\/","title":{"rendered":"Mientras t\u00fa estabas demasiado ocupado sin importarte una mierda, ella se rindi\u00f3 contigo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Su cuerpo y su mente gritaban que no pod\u00eda m\u00e1s, pero t\u00fa no lo o\u00edas porque sencillamente te importaba una mierda. <\/span><\/p>\n

You were just too busy being selfish and only looking out for your best interests. You didn\u2019t care one bit about her and her feelings\u2014what she really needed because ignoring isn\u2019t one of those things.  <\/span><\/p>\n

La descuidaste en todos los sentidos posibles.<\/span> La diste por sentada<\/span><\/a> y la perdiste en el proceso. <\/span><\/p>\n

She suffered silently in agony, hoping that you\u2019ll change and really see her, but you didn\u2019t. That\u2019s why she gave up on you.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Si te hubieras fijado en ella y en cu\u00e1nto te quer\u00eda, cu\u00e1nto se sacrificaba por ti y c\u00f3mo se desviv\u00eda por complacerte, se habr\u00eda quedado. <\/span><\/p>\n

But instead, you chose to ignore her and do whatever you wanted. You chose to choose yourself before her. That\u2019s why she gave up on you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Se rindi\u00f3 contigo<\/i><\/b> porque nunca ten\u00edas tiempo para ella. Incluso cuando necesitaba tu ayuda y te ped\u00eda que estuvieras a su lado, le dec\u00edas que s\u00ed y te olvidabas. <\/span><\/p>\n

Estabas demasiado ocupado con tus problemas, as\u00ed que la ignoraste por completo. Al cabo de un tiempo, se dio por vencida. <\/span><\/p>\n

She stopped asking for your help and frankly, she didn\u2019t expect you would either.<\/span><\/p>\n

Se rindi\u00f3 contigo<\/b> because she couldn\u2019t trust you anymore. She didn\u2019t feel safe in your arms because she knew that if the time comes, you wouldn\u2019t protect her. <\/span><\/p>\n

Te proteger\u00edas.<\/span><\/p>\n

Se rindi\u00f3 contigo<\/i><\/b> because you were not the same person she met and fell in love with. You\u2019ve changed, but for the worse. Or maybe you just showed your true face. <\/span><\/p>\n

Anyhow, you grew apart from her and she felt like she didn\u2019t know you anymore, like you were a complete stranger. <\/span><\/p>\n

Se rindi\u00f3 contigo<\/i><\/b> because she couldn\u2019t handle being alone anymore. She couldn\u2019t handle dealing with all of her shit all by herself. <\/span><\/p>\n

She couldn\u2019t handle seeing you smiling while she cried her eyes out. She couldn\u2019t handle any more quiet sobbing while you were lying next to her sound asleep. <\/span><\/p>\n

No ten\u00edas ni idea de lo triste que estaba. No ten\u00edas ni idea de que estaba llorando a tu lado. <\/span><\/p>\n

Se rindi\u00f3 contigo<\/i><\/b> porque era desgraciada. Olvid\u00f3 lo que es la felicidad y t\u00fa eres el culpable de ello.<\/span><\/p>\n

Se rindi\u00f3 contigo<\/i><\/b> because you never tried to make her a better person. She was falling apart by your side and you didn\u2019t even notice. <\/span><\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t challenge her to become the best version of herself but you expected her to do that for you. Well, darling, <\/span>el amor no es una calle de sentido \u00fanico<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Se rindi\u00f3 contigo<\/i><\/b> because you didn\u2019t love her anymore. Before, she was the only thing you saw. Before, she was the most beautiful girl to you wherever she walked in. <\/span><\/p>\n

She gave up on you because you didn\u2019t hold her hand anymore, you didn\u2019t kiss her as passionately as before. You discarded her, but there will be the time when you\u2019ll regret every wrong decision you made regarding her. <\/span><\/p>\n

Se rindi\u00f3 contigo <\/i><\/b>porque la hiciste rendirse. La cerraste por completo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Cuando quiso salvaros a los dos, cuando sopes\u00f3 si dar todas sus fuerzas para intentar llamar tu atenci\u00f3n o no, t\u00fa le facilitaste mucho la decisi\u00f3n. <\/span><\/p>\n

En realidad, <\/span>tu indecisi\u00f3n era una decisi\u00f3n.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

Todo lo que siempre quiso de ti fue que fueras honesto. Quer\u00eda que la amaras como ella te amaba. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Quer\u00eda que estuvieras a su lado como ella estaba a tu lado. Quer\u00eda que la abrazaras y la quisieras. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\u00bfEra mucho pedir? Pero lo que le diste no fue amor. As\u00ed que ella renunci\u00f3 a ti porque t\u00fa renunciaste a los dos primero.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Se rindi\u00f3 contigo <\/i><\/b>because you didn\u2019t respect her. You treated her like shit and she got used to those negative feelings around her. <\/span><\/p>\n

Se acostumbr\u00f3 a gritar, vociferar y desatender. Se acostumbr\u00f3 a ser menos importante. Lamentablemente, empez\u00f3 a cre\u00e9rselo de verdad. <\/span><\/p>\n

She really believed she wasn\u2019t worthy of anyone\u2019s love. She thought she was a terrible person and God gave her exactly what she deserved\u2014you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Se rindi\u00f3 contigo<\/i><\/b> because after hitting rock bottom, after facing her fears and feeling like total shit, she found the light\u2014she found hope. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mir\u00f3 en su interior y vio a la mujer asustada que sol\u00eda ser, acorralada, suplicando salir. <\/span><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que la dej\u00f3 marchar. Volvi\u00f3 a amarse a s\u00ed misma. Se hizo libre. Sab\u00eda que se lo merec\u00eda. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ella sab\u00eda que merec\u00eda un hombre mejor que t\u00fa.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"Mientras<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Her body and her mind were screaming that she can\u2019t take it anymore, but you didn\u2019t hear it because you simply didn\u2019t give a fuck. You were just too busy being selfish and only looking out for your best interests. You didn\u2019t care one bit about her and her feelings\u2014what she really needed because ignoring…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":39,"featured_media":18489,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29642],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18488","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-guy-talk"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29642,"label":"guy talk"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/brooke-winters-579062-unsplash-2.jpg",800,536,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Owen Scott","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/hase\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29642,"name":"guy talk","slug":"guy-talk","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29642,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Welcome to the land of juicy topics and lots of helpful tips on love and relationships. You can fully relax because fun and transparency are guaranteed. ","parent":29638,"count":69,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29642,"category_count":69,"category_description":"Welcome to the land of juicy topics and lots of helpful tips on love and relationships. You can fully relax because fun and transparency are guaranteed. ","cat_name":"guy talk","category_nicename":"guy-talk","category_parent":29638}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18488","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/39"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18488"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18488\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18489"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18488"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18488"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18488"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}