{"id":18519,"date":"2021-03-11T11:46:21","date_gmt":"2021-03-11T11:46:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18519"},"modified":"2022-06-16T13:25:41","modified_gmt":"2022-06-16T13:25:41","slug":"15-signos-reveladores-de-que-esta-luchando-contra-sus-sentimientos-por-ti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/15-signos-reveladores-de-que-esta-luchando-contra-sus-sentimientos-por-ti\/","title":{"rendered":"18 se\u00f1ales reveladoras de que est\u00e1 luchando contra lo que siente por ti"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfNo ser\u00eda maravilloso si pudieras saber la diferencia entre un chico que no est\u00e1 interesado en ti y el que huye de sus emociones? Pues adivina qu\u00e9: despu\u00e9s de leer estas se\u00f1ales de que est\u00e1 luchando contra sus sentimientos hacia ti<\/a>, you\u2019ll know exactly what you\u2019re dealing with.<\/p>\n

Para la mayor\u00eda de los hombres es f\u00e1cil mantener una actitud informal, jugar y tontear.<\/p>\n

What\u2019s not so easy is admitting to themselves and other people around them that they actually developed real feelings towards somebody. They are petrified.<\/p>\n

Lo admitan o no, la mera idea de mostrar sus sentimientos y arriesgarse a salir herido les asusta.<\/b><\/p>\n

PULSE AQU\u00cd<\/a> para descubrir el secreto mejor guardado sobre c\u00f3mo conseguir que un hombre se abra a ti por completo y para siempre.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que empiezan a luchar. Primero luchan contra s\u00ed mismos, porque para la mayor\u00eda, estar enamorado significa ser vulnerable.<\/p>\n

Luchan contra la otra persona enviando fr\u00edo y calor<\/a> se\u00f1ales hasta que se sientan seguros. Se tomar\u00e1n su tiempo y evaluar\u00e1n la situaci\u00f3n antes de actuar.<\/p>\n

When you find yourself in the middle of this mess, you have trouble decoding your guy’s behavior. Does he display se\u00f1ales de que est\u00e1 luchando contra sus sentimientos hacia ti<\/a> o signos que he doesn’t give a damn about you<\/a>?<\/p>\n

\u00bfEste hombre huye de ti porque es <\/b>miedo de lo mucho que te quiere<\/b><\/a> o porque quiere que te alejes?<\/b><\/p>\n

Even though the line appears thin, there are some tricks that can help you see what’s really going on.<\/p>\n

18 se\u00f1ales claras de que est\u00e1 luchando contra lo que siente por ti<\/h2>\n

Si tienes la sensaci\u00f3n de que le gustas pero hay algo que le frena, echa un vistazo a estas 18 se\u00f1ales est\u00e1 luchando contra sus sentimientos por ti<\/a>. Sin duda aclarar\u00e1n un poco las cosas:<\/p>\n

Es muy atento por un tiempo y luego se aleja.<\/h3>\n

\"\"<\/a>The first sign you should pay attention to is this man’s inconsistency. You know exactly what I’m talking about- about a guy who is super attentive one day and then, all of a sudden pulls away.<\/p>\n

This man will treat you like a Princess for some time. And the moment you think that finally, he came to his senses, he’ll change his behavior and become cold and distant.<\/p>\n

He won’t ghost you completely but you’ll feel that something is off. Whether he admits it or not, it’s like this man becomes someone else overnight.<\/b><\/p>\n

It will all happen without any reason in particular. Naturally, you can’t help but wonder if you’re dealing with two different guys or this one really has a split personality.<\/b><\/p>\n

This is usually one of the most common red flags you are dealing with a player, but in this case, his pulling away won\u2019t be so dramatic, long-term, or destructive. He will send random texts but not every day. There will be times when you won’t hear from him for days. When that happens, don’t text him and he will text you<\/a>. <\/p>\n

Even if he IS a player, there\u2019s always a way. Use El sistema de devoci\u00f3n<\/a> para estar siempre encima de \u00e9l y hacer que te persiga, no al rev\u00e9s.<\/p>\n

Probablemente querr\u00e1 ser buen amigo tuyo y mantener las cosas informales durante un tiempo hasta que te conozca mejor y hasta que tenga el valor suficiente para enfrentarse a sus sentimientos. S\u00f3lo entonces podr\u00e1 compartirlos contigo.<\/p>\n

However, be careful: this phase shouldn\u2019t last for too long. If you feel like he has had enough time to process his emotions and he is just stalling, it\u2019s not a sign he is fighting his feelings for you. It\u2019s a sign that te est\u00e1 tomando el pelo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Presta atenci\u00f3n cuando hablas y memoriza mucho sobre ti<\/h3>\n

\"pareja\u00bfEste hombre recuerda peque\u00f1as cosas sobre ti? \u00bfSabe cu\u00e1l es tu comida y tu color favoritos? \u00bfSe sabr\u00eda de memoria la letra de tu canci\u00f3n favorita si alguien le despertara en mitad de la noche?<\/p>\n

\u00bfSe esfuerza por descubrir todas las capas de tu personalidad? \u00bfNota el m\u00e1s m\u00ednimo cambio en tu comportamiento?<\/p>\n

Bien, what bigger “I love you” do you need<\/a>? Cr\u00e9eme, no hace falta que te diga la verdad sobre sus sentimientos, este tipo de comportamiento es un signo inequ\u00edvoco de que se est\u00e1 enamorando de ti.<\/p>\n

He soaks up your every word. He remembers something you said randomly a few weeks ago that you yourself can\u2019t recall. He will surprise you with some detail you randomly mentioned.<\/b><\/p>\n

Also, he probably made in-depth research of your social media accounts, and even if he doesn\u2019t hit the like button that often, he will surely keep track of your whereabouts.<\/p>\n

This man is head over heels for you- it’s more than natural that he wants to learn more about the woman he is into. Trust me: even if you recite him your favorite recipe, he’d be all ears.<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a><\/p>\n

Sus preguntas son demasiado personales<\/h3>\n

\"parejaWhen guys hit on you, they’ll probably use the same, corny pick-up lines. That also goes for the same, old questions most men ask when they want something more out of you.<\/p>\n

La mayor\u00eda de las veces, ser\u00e1 una conversaci\u00f3n ligera sin temas serios incluidos. Un chico podr\u00eda preguntarte m\u00e1s sobre tu vida amorosa, tu carrera y otra informaci\u00f3n b\u00e1sica.<\/p>\n

But when you’re dealing with a guy who is really interested in you but does his best to hide it, things will be a little different. This is the man who will try to <\/b>profundizar<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

No le interesa la cara que muestras al mundo, quiere conocerte de verdad.<\/b><\/p>\n

Quiere saberlo todo sobre ti. Adem\u00e1s de las preguntas aleatorias que se utilizan en las conversaciones triviales, te har\u00e1 algunas m\u00e1s profundas.<\/p>\n

Querr\u00e1 saber cu\u00e1l es tu posici\u00f3n respecto a ciertas cosas, lo que te gusta y lo que no, tu historial amoroso, etc\u00e9tera. Puede que no siempre sea agradable, pero quiere minimizar el riesgo de salir herido.<\/p>\n

He is trying to figure out whether you’re worthy of him opening up. He wants to find out what kind of a person you are because that tells him a lot about the kind of a GF you’d be.<\/p>\n

Se esfuerza por impresionarte<\/h3>\n

\"parejaTodos los expertos en relaciones coinciden en una cosa: cuando un el hombre siente algo por ti<\/a>har\u00e1 todo lo posible para impresionarte. Esto no es una manipulaci\u00f3n real, pero sin duda le dir\u00e1 cosas con el prop\u00f3sito de hacerse ver mejor.<\/p>\n

Quiere que veas s\u00f3lo lo mejor de \u00e9l, as\u00ed que se esforzar\u00e1 por conseguirlo.<\/b><\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t fail to notice if he changes his appearance a bit or starts using new perfume.<\/p>\n

He will also talk a lot about his strong points, his work success, and all the things he is proud of\u2014not because he wants to brag but because he consciously or unconsciously wants to impress you.<\/p>\n

Tiene esta (inexplicable) necesidad de justificarse ante ti.<\/h3>\n

\"parejaUstedes dos no est\u00e1n en una relaci\u00f3n, \u00bfverdad? De hecho, este hombre no es m\u00e1s que su compa\u00f1ero de trabajo<\/a> o s\u00f3lo sois amigos.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, a pesar de ello, tiene la extra\u00f1a necesidad de explicarte sus movimientos. Sobre todo cuando se trata de su vida sentimental.<\/p>\n

Even if you’re not asking any questions, he can’t stop justifying himself to you. That’s one of the biggest se\u00f1ales de que le gustas pero tiene miedo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

It won\u2019t be anything big but he wouldn\u2019t want you to get the wrong impression about certain things.<\/b><\/p>\n

For example, every time he talks about some other woman in his life, he will stress the fact that she is his friend, so you won\u2019t think that he is unavailable. Even if he’s dating a girl, he wants you to know she means nothing to him and presents it as nothing more but a fling.<\/p>\n

Sus ojos estar\u00e1n sobre ti<\/h3>\n

\"hombreLet’s not forget one thing: the eyes are the windows to the soul. Therefore, a guy doesn’t have to tell you a single word for you to understand his true feelings- you’ll know everything if you just look closely into his eyes.<\/p>\n

Probablemente sentir\u00e1s que te mira fijamente, pero en cuanto te des la vuelta, apartar\u00e1 la mirada.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t want to make it too obvious. Your friends will also notice his stars and inform you about them.<\/b><\/p>\n

Nevertheless, when you stare back at him, he’ll probably look away. <\/b>Lo s\u00e9.<\/b> you must think this man couldn’t care less about you.<\/b><\/p>\n

But according to all relationship advice, this is just a sign that you’re tratar con un chico t\u00edmido<\/a> who is terrified that you’ll read through his soul the moment your eyes lock.<\/p>\n

Por otro lado, cuando hables con \u00e9l, seguro que utilizar\u00e1 contacto visual prolongado<\/a> y tendr\u00e1s toda su atenci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Su lenguaje corporal hablar\u00e1 por \u00e9l<\/h3>\n

\"hombreIntentar\u00e1 hacerse el tranquilo, pero su signos del lenguaje corporal<\/a> estar\u00e1 fuera de sincron\u00eda con su mente.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s del ya mencionado contacto visual, los signos corporales m\u00e1s evidentes de que le est\u00e1s poniendo nervioso en el buen sentido ser\u00e1n sus palmas sudorosas y temblorosas. Tambi\u00e9n se pondr\u00e1 muy cerca de ti cuando hables.<\/p>\n

Mientras est\u00e9s en medio de una conversaci\u00f3n, \u00e9l se inclinar\u00e1 inconscientemente hacia ti.<\/b><\/p>\n

He also won\u2019t miss the chance to put his hands on your shoulder or subtly touch your arm.<\/b><\/p>\n

Si ya se ha armado de valor, se besarte en la mejilla<\/a> o abrazarte un poco m\u00e1s de lo necesario cada vez que os ve\u00e1is.<\/p>\n

Even though this man has the power to control his words, he can’t command his entire body. Trust me- he is doing all of this unknowingly.<\/p>\n

No es consciente de que sus actos le delatan.<\/p>\n

Le gusta ayudarte con las cosas<\/h3>\n

\"hombreSuele ofrecerse a ayudar en algo. Puede ir desde ayudarte a tranquilizarte escuch\u00e1ndote y aconsej\u00e1ndote hasta una cuesti\u00f3n de trabajo manual, como mover muebles de sitio y poner una nueva capa de pintura en las paredes.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t mind getting his hands dirty or sitting for hours and listening to what you have to say. He is letting you know that you can count on him to do whatever.<\/b><\/p>\n

Al principio, supones que s\u00f3lo est\u00e1 siendo amable<\/a> y educado. Probablemente se\u00e1is buenos amigos, as\u00ed que que te eche una mano no es nada extra\u00f1o.<\/p>\n

But if you look at things closely, you’ll see that he goes out of his way to help you. Let’s not forget that this man is not your boyfriend so it’s certainly not his job to take care of you.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, lo hace de todos modos. No te trata as\u00ed porque quiera meterse en tu pellejo o fingir que es un buen tipo.<\/p>\n

De hecho, disfruta ayud\u00e1ndote y haciendo cosas dulces por ti. Quiere que sepas que puedes confiar en \u00e9l, pase lo que pase.<\/p>\n

Te admira (aunque nunca lo dir\u00eda en voz alta)<\/h3>\n

\"parejaThis man is quite closed. He has a huge (but fragile) ego and he would probably never praise anyone. It’s like his insecurities would blow out of proportion the moment he gives someone a compliment.<\/p>\n

But even though he is not saying it out loud, this guy secretly admires you. He has huge respect for everything you do in life and that’s one of the reasons he’s so crazy over you.<\/p>\n

Cuando hablas, todo a su alrededor se detiene y te mira como si fueras la criatura m\u00e1s fascinante que existe.<\/b><\/p>\n

Se da cuenta de que has pasado por mucho y admira que hayas salido adelante a pesar de todo y de todos.<\/p>\n

Every small victory of yours is pretty big in his eyes even though he wouldn\u2019t say it straight up.<\/p>\n

\u00c9l escuchar\u00e1 y dar\u00e1 algunos cumplidos sutiles al azar y que ser\u00e1 un signo evidente de su afecto<\/a> hacia ti. Tambi\u00e9n empezar\u00e1 calling you ‘babe’<\/a>. <\/p>\n

Se pone en modo protector a tu alrededor<\/h3>\n

\"parejaAunque puede hacer bromas a tu costa, nunca son malas o groseras.<\/p>\n

But every time someone else does the same, he doesn\u2019t approve and always says something to defend you.<\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n se asegura de que llegas bien a casa y de que est\u00e1s a salvo. Tanto si quiere admitirlo como si no, se preocupa y estas peque\u00f1as <\/b>signos reveladores<\/b> s\u00f3lo confirman que est\u00e1 luchando contra sus sentimientos.<\/b><\/p>\n

It’s actually pretty clear: this guy considers it su deber de protegerte<\/a>. Even though you two are just friends, let’s not forget that he has some strong feelings for you.<\/p>\n

You know how most men are: when they love someone, they get the urge to keep them safe. It’s one of their primary instincts and most of the time, this man is completely unaware of his behavior.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, this man acts like your guardian angel. He’s there to get you out of trouble and to look after you.<\/p>\n

Even when he’s not doing it transparently, he’s always there to keep an eye on you from a safe distance. And what more proof do you need of his love for you?<\/p>\n

Muestra signos de celos discretos<\/h3>\n

\"hombreOnce again, let’s remember that this guy is not your boyfriend. In fact, he didn’t move an inch to become one.<\/p>\n

Therefore, he doesn’t have any right to protest against the fact that you have an active love life. And he’s pretty aware of that.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, that doesn’t mean he can’t control his emotions. He can’t help but be jealous, even though he might remain silent about it.<\/b><\/p>\n

The truth is that he’ll do everything in his power to hide his anger when it comes to other men in your life. He won’t tell you that it bothers him, even if it breaks his heart. But if you look closely, you’ll notice signos de sus celos secretos<\/a>.<\/p>\n

No es muy feliz cuando est\u00e1s en compa\u00f1\u00eda de otros hombres.<\/p>\n

Mostly because he hasn\u2019t acted upon his feelings and he is scared that somebody else will beat him to the punch.<\/p>\n

Debido a eso, ver\u00e1s como su cara se pone p\u00e1lida y su comportamiento se vuelve torpe. Est\u00e1 claramente inc\u00f3modo y celoso cada vez que otros hombres est\u00e1n cerca de ti.<\/p>\n

Por no mencionar que probablemente te har\u00e1 algunas preguntas despu\u00e9s para ver a qu\u00e9 atenerte con esos otros hombres.<\/p>\n

Of course, let’s not forget how he manages to find a fatal flaw in every guy in your surroundings. This way or another, it turns out that nobody is good enough for you.<\/p>\n

Why does he do it? Well, isn’t it obvious? He wants you to see that he’s way better than all of those men and that he should be your first and only choice.<\/p>\n

Es considerado<\/h3>\n

\"parejaLa reflexi\u00f3n es uno de los signos m\u00e1s comunes de que est\u00e1 luchando contra sus sentimientos hacia ti.<\/p>\n

Como ya he mencionado, querr\u00e1 que le veas de la mejor forma posible, as\u00ed que probablemente actuar\u00e1 como un <\/b>perfecto caballero<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

He will open doors for you. He will let you order first. He won\u2019t shower you with expensive gifts, but everything he gifts you will come from the heart.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t have to be anything major, but if he comes by with your favorite chocolate, that will be more than enough.<\/p>\n

Comparte detalles personales con usted<\/h3>\n

\"parejaM\u00e1s men don\u2019t open up<\/a> tan f\u00e1cilmente. Esto ocurre especialmente con hombres inseguros como \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

He is scared of giving his heart out to anyone who might break it. After all, that’s exactly why he keeps his feelings to himself. And that’s why he keeps most of his life private.<\/p>\n

But if a man like him started confiding in you, he looks at you as someone whom he can trust, and that\u2019s always a good sign. Actually, according to all relationship experts, that’s one of the common signs that he’s closer than ever to tell you how he feels and making the first move.<\/p>\n

If he can trust you enough to share his personal details with you, he\u2019ll trust you enough to tell you how he feels.<\/b><\/p>\n

Puedes mantener conversaciones triviales con cualquiera, pero todas las cosas personales las compartes con personas que significan m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Besides, he values your brains and he doesn’t only pay attention to your body. He will want your opinion on things that are happening currently or his plans for the future.<\/p>\n

En definitiva, tendr\u00e1 esa inexplicable necesidad de informarte de todo, cada vez que pueda.<\/p>\n

Tiene sus periodos fr\u00edos<\/h3>\n

\"vistaRemember how we talked about this guy’s inconsistent behavior in the beginning? Well, sadly, his cold phases are a part of this inconsistency.<\/p>\n

Cuando digo periodos fr\u00edos, pienso en todas esas veces que este el tipo dio un paso atr\u00e1s<\/a>. It’s not that he disappeared from your life for good but he did change his behavior out of the blue.<\/p>\n

You’re getting bonitos mensajes de buenos d\u00edas<\/a>...\u00e9l hace cosas dulces y ustedes dos pasan mucho tiempo juntos. Entonces, de repente, todo se ha ido.<\/p>\n

Nothing happened but you see that he became distant. It’s like he starts avoiding any kind of contact.<\/b><\/p>\n

If you two are friends, you’ll be hanging out only as a part of the group, and if you’re coworkers, there won’t be any communication in your free time.<\/p>\n

Of course, this doesn’t last for long. It’s more than obvious that he can’t stop being in touch with you.<\/p>\n

Esta es una de las se\u00f1ales m\u00e1s dolorosas de que est\u00e1 luchando contra sus sentimientos hacia ti. Puede que ni siquiera sea consciente de que est\u00e1 luchando contra ellos.<\/p>\n

Y mientras a \u00e9l le cuesta procesar las cosas y racionalizar entre lo que piensa y lo que siente, t\u00fa probablemente lo tendr\u00e1s m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil porque sentir\u00e1s que est\u00e1 jugando contigo.<\/p>\n

Conf\u00eda en tu intuici\u00f3n. Es algo que hace sin querer o est\u00e1 jugando con la mente?<\/p>\n

Compartir\u00e9is una qu\u00edmica y una tensi\u00f3n sexual innegables<\/h3>\n

\"encantadoraEyes don’t lie, right? Well, the same goes for vibe- you simply can’t hide it, as much as you try.<\/p>\n

That’s exactly what’s going on between you and this guy. It’s impossible not to notice the qu\u00edmica que compart\u00eds<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Every time you enter the room, he won\u2019t be able to keep a smile off his face.<\/p>\n

Te mirar\u00e1 de arriba abajo y siempre encontrar\u00e1 la forma de hacerte alg\u00fan cumplido indirecto sobre lo incre\u00edble o sexy que est\u00e1s.<\/b><\/p>\n

Incluso podr\u00eda intentar poner todo el tensi\u00f3n sexual<\/a> en algunas palabras sucias y comentarios sexuales.<\/p>\n

En definitiva, el magnetismo que os conecta es algo dif\u00edcil de describir, pero f\u00e1cil e inevitable de sentir.<\/p>\n

He won’t initiate one-on-one time…<\/h3>\n

\"unLet’s get one thing clear: don’t expect this guy to invite you on a first date. In fact, it’s unlikely that he’ll ever initiate one-on-one time with you.<\/p>\n

Even when he does it, he makes sure there is a valid excuse for you two to get together. He’ll never ask you just to hang out or something like that.<\/p>\n

Instead, he’ll always use some kind of justification to be near you.<\/b><\/p>\n

This man doesn’t have the courage to tell you: “I want to see you. I enjoy spending time with you”.<\/b><\/p>\n

Besides, he’s scared of being alone with you. He is perfectly aware of the intensity of his feelings and he’s certain that he won’t be able to resist you<\/a> si tiene la oportunidad de dar el primer paso.<\/p>\n

At the same time, his fears prevent him from following his heart. Basically, he’s trapped in an endless circle.<\/p>\n

… but he’ll never deny your invitation<\/h3>\n

\"unaOn the other hand, you two still get to spend a lot of time together, even though he doesn’t initiate it, don’t you? If you analyze the situation better, you’ll realize that he never turns you down, when you’re the one who calls him to hang out.<\/p>\n

Why is that so? Well, first of all, he doesn’t have the strength to tell you “no”. In this case, his desire to see you beats his fears.<\/b><\/p>\n

It’s one thing that he manages not to call you at all. But resisting the temptation is something else.<\/p>\n

If this man never denies your invitation, it’s one of the obvious signs he is fighting his feelings for you.<\/p>\n

Te tiene un enorme respeto<\/h3>\n

\"unaHave you noticed that this guy treats you differently than all other women in his life? It’s because he respects you, above all other things.<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, le gustas. Lo enciendes y <\/b>he’s madly attracted to you<\/b><\/a>. But he’d never do anything to give you an impression he’s treating you like a piece of meat.<\/b><\/p>\n

Cr\u00e9eme cuando te digo que quiere algo m\u00e1s que meterse en tus pantalones. Quiere el paquete completo y se asegura de que lo veas.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 los hombres luchan contra sus sentimientos?<\/h2>\n

 <\/p>\n

It’s no surprise that a man hides his feelings. But why do they do it? Let’s find out.<\/p>\n

He’s been hurt in the past<\/h3>\n

\"elThe first reason why this man can’t stop hiding his emotions is his painful past. It is likely that he’s been hurt and heartbroken in one of his previous relationships.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que ahora, he’s scared that history will repeat itself<\/a>. The last time he carried his heart on the sleeve, it didn’t end well.<\/p>\n

Naturalmente, espera que vuelva a ocurrir lo mismo. Decide que la \u00fanica forma de protegerse es fingir que no tiene coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Desempe\u00f1a el papel de hombre indiferente porque le aterroriza la idea de que salir con una mujer a la que ama podr\u00eda descubrir todas sus vulnerabilidades.<\/a> No s\u00f3lo eso: est\u00e1 seguro de que utilizar\u00edas sus sentimientos contra \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Le cuesta expresar sus emociones<\/h3>\n

\"unIt’s also possible that this guy is simply emocionalmente no disponible<\/a>. I don’t know how it happened and when it started but the fact is that he has trouble expressing his emotions.<\/p>\n

Maybe he is actually unaware of his feelings. It’s not that he only hides them from you- he also runs away from them.<\/p>\n

There is obviously a thick wall around his heart and he doesn’t play allowing just about anyone to crush it.<\/p>\n

There is a term for this condition and it’s called alexithymia. People who suffer from it have a hard time identifying their feelings and consequently, verbalizing and showing them to others.<\/p>\n

Interpreta el papel de un tipo duro<\/h3>\n

\"unNo matter what you might think, men don’t have it easy in today’s world either. All guys are expected to be alpha men who can’t be bothered as easily as girls.<\/p>\n

Si tu hombre interpreta el papel de tipo duro, significa que no est\u00e1 en contacto con sus sentimientos. Tiene mucho que ver con la masculinidad t\u00f3xica: la idea de que los hombres deben cumplir ciertos ideales para ser suficientemente masculinos.<\/p>\n

Uno de ellos rasgos masculinos t\u00f3xicos<\/a> includes the suppression of emotions. And that’s exactly what this guy has been doing.<\/p>\n

He can’t stand the fact that he is head over heels for a woman. It’s humiliating for him to admit that he can’t control his feelings whenever he’s around you, let alone that he’s losing sleep because of you.<\/p>\n

So, he chooses indifference over getting emotionally naked. He thinks he needs to keep on pretending he’s this badass who plays with women in order to get respect from the rest of society.<\/p>\n

Tiene miedo de lo mucho que te quiere<\/h3>\n

\"unThis man hasn’t loved anyone the way he loves you. And the la intensidad de sus emociones le asusta<\/a> a la muerte.<\/p>\n

Tienes que entender que esto es algo a lo que nunca se hab\u00eda enfrentado antes. Ten\u00eda poder sobre sus sentimientos hasta ahora.<\/p>\n

For the first time ever, his heart took control over his brain. He is led by his emotions and he is scared of where they’ll take him.<\/p>\n

Admitting that he’s crazy about someone means stepping out of his comfort zone. Telling you he loves you means taking a leap into the unknown.<\/p>\n

Vosotros dos habl\u00e1is diferentes lenguajes del amor<\/h3>\n

\"unaFinally, is it possible that this guy isn’t hiding his feelings at all? Is it possible that you’re just incapable of hearing what he has to say?<\/p>\n

Don’t get me wrong- this is not me accusing you of this situation. I’m just telling you that the cause of your problems is the fact that habl\u00e1is lenguajes del amor diferentes<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Esta situaci\u00f3n es m\u00e1s com\u00fan de lo que cree. Mientras esperas pacientemente a que verbalice sus emociones, quiz\u00e1 est\u00e9 expresando su amor de alguna otra forma.<\/p>\n

Let’s take this for an example: if his el lenguaje del amor es el contacto f\u00edsico<\/a>, he’ll express his emotions by accidentally touching you, hugging you, and using every chance he gets to be close to you.<\/p>\n

But on the other hand, maybe your love language is words of affirmation. Maybe you don’t see his efforts and expect him to praise you and give you compliments.<\/p>\n

The examples are endless but I’m sure you see where I’m going. Remember: there are five different love languages and maybe you just have yet to discover his.<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 hacer al respecto?<\/h2>\n

\"unI won’t lie to you: this is the situation no girl wants to find herself in. But if you play your cards right, you can get out of it as a winner. Here is exactly what to do about a guy who is in love with you but has a hard time admitting it.<\/p>\n

Haz que se sienta seguro<\/h3>\n

Whatever is the problem, you have to realize one thing: the core of this behavior is your man’s fear. He might be miedo al rechazo<\/a>...de ser herido de nuevo, o de perderse a s\u00ed mismo.<\/p>\n

Either way, it’s your job to make him feel safe. This man has to understand that he can trust you, otherwise, he’ll never open up to you completely.<\/p>\n

I won’t lie to you: lograr esto con hombres emocionalmente no disponibles<\/a> a veces parece una misi\u00f3n imposible. Pero cr\u00e9eme cuando te digo que puedes ganarte su confianza si te esfuerzas lo suficiente.<\/p>\n

The most important thing here is not to push things too hard. You can’t force anyone to trust you- you have to earn it.<\/p>\n

Dale tiempo a este hombre y prep\u00e1rate para esperar pacientemente hasta que empiece a sentirse seguro a tu lado.<\/p>\n

Por eso, lo mejor es hacerse su amigo. Pero ten cuidado de no quedarte atrapado en la zona de amigos.<\/p>\n

Start by revealing some of your secrets. Open up to him about some private things from your life that don’t necessarily have to do with your relationship.<\/p>\n

When he sees that you opened up to him- he’ll follow.<\/p>\n

…but put all the cards on the table<\/h3>\n

Nevertheless, this doesn’t mean that you should allow for this kind of relationship to keep going forever. Instead, be brave enough to put all the cards on the table.<\/p>\n

Don’t do it right away but after a while, once you see that you’ve reached some progress, be the first one to make a move.<\/p>\n

You don’t have to kiss him or ask him on a first date. You don’t have to say three magical words either.<\/p>\n

It will be enough to make it clear that you’re into him. But let him know that you’re aware of what’s going on in his head and heart, as well.<\/p>\n

If it’s necessary, tell him straightforwardly that his attempts to hide his feelings are in vain.<\/p>\n

Don’t be aggressive about it because que lo ahuyentar\u00e1<\/a>. Just let him know that you understand him and that you’re ready to help him overcome his fears.<\/p>\n

Reflexiones finales<\/h2>\n

\"unThe key thing to have in mind when trying to understand why he is fighting his feelings towards you is that men don\u2019t experience feelings the same way women do.<\/p>\n

That doesn\u2019t mean that they are incapable of feeling, it just means they are wired differently.<\/p>\n

Ellos conf\u00edan primero en su mente y racionalizan las cosas, dejando a un lado las emociones, mientras que las mujeres, por el contrario, tienden a seguir a su coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why more often than not men and women fail to understand one another. If he displays signs he is fighting his feelings, give him enough time to process them.<\/b><\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 librando una batalla consigo mismo y tiene que hacerlo solo. Tiene que superar sus miedos ocultos a ser rechazado y a salir herido.<\/b><\/p>\n

If he does that, he will very much earn a place in your life. If not, then you will have to leave him because you can\u2019t fight his battles for him.<\/p>\n

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