{"id":18584,"date":"2018-05-11T13:06:33","date_gmt":"2018-05-11T13:06:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18584"},"modified":"2022-01-24T16:11:05","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T16:11:05","slug":"si-le-importaras-una-mierda-no-estarias-confundido","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-le-importaras-una-mierda-no-estarias-confundido\/","title":{"rendered":"Si le importaras una mierda, no estar\u00edas confundido"},"content":{"rendered":"

Desde el momento en que conociste a este tipo, nunca supiste a qu\u00e9 atenerte con \u00e9l.<\/span>. Nunca quer\u00eda etiquetar las cosas y t\u00fa nunca estabas segura de lo que representabas para \u00e9l. Hab\u00eda momentos en los que te trataba como si fueras el amor de su vida, momentos en los que actuaba como si los dos no fuerais m\u00e1s que buenos amigos y a veces te trataba como si no significaras nada para \u00e9l.<\/b><\/p>\n

All of this time, you\u2019ve been trying to read him through and through. You\u2019ve been trying to make him take off his mask and you\u2019ve been trying to figure him out but you have never managed to do that. You keep wondering what is the meaning of all of the mixed signals he\u2019s been sending you but you simply feel like you can\u2019t get to him, like you can\u2019t reach him.<\/span><\/p>\n

Al principio pensaste que fing\u00eda ser un tipo duro sin emociones. Te preguntaste si le hab\u00edan hecho da\u00f1o en el pasado y si alguna mujer le hab\u00eda causado dolor y por eso se comportaba as\u00ed. Pensaste que era <\/span>miedo al compromiso<\/span><\/a> y que s\u00f3lo ten\u00edas que tener paciencia para que te mostrara su verdadero yo. Pensaste que ten\u00eda miedo de abrirse hasta que estuviera seguro de lo que sent\u00edas por \u00e9l. As\u00ed que hiciste todo lo que estuvo en tu mano para demostrarle tu amor. Hiciste todo lo que pudiste para demostrarle que eras alguien en quien pod\u00eda confiar y que eras digna de su confianza porque quer\u00edas que ese hombre escondido dentro de \u00e9l apareciera por fin.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pero nada de esto fue suficiente. <\/span>You could never get him to treat you the way you\u2019d been treating him and you could never make him put any effort into his relationship with you.<\/b><\/p>\n

There were times when you tried to walk away from him because you knew that was the only smart thing to do. But something always kept dragging you back to him. You would always hold on to the nice memories, to every moment when he acted like he loved you and to every time he behaved like he couldn\u2019t live without you. Each time you were ready to live with him, you would remember all of this and you would think it was worth giving him another chance. You kept convincing yourself that he really did love you but that he had some issues that prevented him from showing it to you in the right way.<\/span><\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you that these were all lies you kept telling yourself because you wanted them to be true. These were all excuses and now it\u2019s finally time you <\/span>deja de justificar a este hombre<\/span><\/a>. S\u00e9 que esto es lo \u00faltimo que quieres o\u00edr pero la \u00fanica verdad es que este hombre nunca se preocup\u00f3 por ti<\/a> lo suficiente como para hacerte su novia y demostrarte que eras su prioridad. Siento ser yo quien te lo diga, pero a este chico nunca le importaste una mierda y nunca le importar\u00e1s, a pesar de todas tus esperanzas y esfuerzos.<\/span><\/p>\n

And this is something you need to accept before it\u2019s too late. <\/span>I know you love him deeply and you want him to feel the same way about you but that isn\u2019t going to happen. And his behavior shows you this.<\/b><\/p>\n

Because he would never treat you this way if he loved you. He would never leave you hanging and he would never allow you to doubt his emotions or to doubt your relationship. If this guy really loved you, he would show it to you. He wouldn\u2019t have trouble expressing his feelings and he wouldn\u2019t have any problem demonstrating his love for you.<\/span><\/p>\n

No importa lo que intentara hacerte creer, cuando un hombre<\/b> te ama de verdad<\/b><\/a>, he\u2019ll make it clear. He won\u2019t send you mixed signals and you will always know where you stand with him.<\/b><\/p>\n

Todo lo dem\u00e1s son tonter\u00edas. Todo lo dem\u00e1s es su ego, su deseo de ser querido por alguien, su manipulaci\u00f3n emocional y el aprovecharse de que le quieres.<\/b><\/p>\n

It is anything but love and it\u2019s something you need to accept, no matter how hard it is.<\/span> <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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