{"id":18587,"date":"2020-07-10T12:32:00","date_gmt":"2020-07-10T12:32:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18587"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:48:35","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:48:35","slug":"si-tu-chico-hace-estas-8-cosas-es-un-psicopata-emocional","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-tu-chico-hace-estas-8-cosas-es-un-psicopata-emocional\/","title":{"rendered":"Si tu chico hace estas 8 cosas, es un psic\u00f3pata emocional"},"content":{"rendered":"

My husband was an emotional sneaky bastard\u2014un completo psic\u00f3pata<\/a>. Era f\u00edsica, sexual y, lo que es m\u00e1s importante, emocionalmente abusivo.<\/p>\r\n

Let me tell you just one thing\u2014\u00a1las malditas palabras duelen!<\/strong><\/em> \u00a1\u00c9l lo sab\u00eda y \u00e9sa era su arma m\u00e1s fuerte!<\/p>\r\n

When we split, after 12 years of marriage, it hit me\u2014a sudden realization, a summing up if you will, of those horrible 12 years of hell.<\/p>\r\n

Lentamente introdujo su yo psic\u00f3tico en mi vida. abus\u00f3 de m\u00ed emocionalmente<\/a> and I didn\u2019t even notice it. I knew that something was not right, but I didn\u2019t know what\u2014not until we split (and dear God, thank you for that).<\/p>\r\n

These psychotic people have a special skill\u2014you won\u2019t be aware you\u2019re being abused emotionally.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n

Lee las pistas y aprende de mi experiencia y quiz\u00e1s te salves (como finalmente hice yo).<\/p>\r\n

Te hace creer que eres responsable de todo<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

\"hombre<\/p>\r\n

Emotional psychopaths aren\u2019t always mean. They can charm you with their words until the cows come home. They have the power of convincing and they never get bored.<\/p>\r\n

 <\/p>\r\n

One minute you\u2019re fighting and the other he\u2019s telling you: \u201cIt is ok babe. It\u2019s not your fault you\u2019re emotional. You can\u2019t help yourself\u201d.<\/p>\r\n

En realidad acabas creyendo que eres t\u00fa el culpable de la pelea y que es \u00e9l quien est\u00e1 ah\u00ed para hacerte sentir mejor.<\/p>\r\n

He\u2019s gaslighting you<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

\"hombre<\/p>\r\n

El gaslighting es una forma de maltrato psicol\u00f3gico en la que el maltratador utiliza informaci\u00f3n falsa y se la presenta a la v\u00edctima, haciendo que la v\u00edctima<\/a> doubt his or her own sanity\u2014an emotional abuser\u2019s favorite tactic.<\/p>\r\n

Un d\u00eda vi por casualidad unos correos electr\u00f3nicos que mi marido hab\u00eda dejado abiertos por descuido y me di cuenta de que me estaba enga\u00f1ando. Cuando me enfrent\u00e9 a \u00e9l, empez\u00f3 a gritarme.<\/p>\r\n

He was saying he can\u2019t believe I can think of something like that, that I\u2019m insane, that I don\u2019t trust him\u2026this went on for a few days.<\/p>\r\n

Muy pronto, empec\u00e9 a dudar de m\u00ed misma. Empec\u00e9 a pensar que tal vez ten\u00eda raz\u00f3n. Tal vez soy yo el que est\u00e1 loco. Tal vez malinterpret\u00e9 todo el asunto.<\/p>\r\n

When your psychotic partner doesn\u2019t have an excuse, he\u2019ll create one and he will make you feel like you\u2019re the \u2018crazy one\u2019.<\/p>\r\n

Te culpa de todo<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

\"hombre<\/p>\r\n

This may look similar to the first one, but it\u2019s not. Every time he has a problem, he\u2019ll find a way to blame you for that.<\/p>\r\n

If he has problems at work, he will make you think you\u2019re the one to blame because you are stressing him out at home.<\/p>\r\n

If he gets a speeding ticket, it\u2019s your fault because you got him so angry he blew off steam by driving too fast.<\/p>\r\n

La conclusi\u00f3n es que, lo mires como lo mires, siempre es culpa tuya porque los psic\u00f3patas emocionales siempre tienen raz\u00f3n.<\/p>\r\n

Te destruye<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

\"mujer<\/p>\r\n

Emotional psychopaths are wusses who don\u2019t have anything better to do in their lives than to control you.<\/p>\r\n

They feed you with toxic thoughts to prevent you from thinking you\u2019re a smart, beautiful and strong person.<\/p>\r\n

Sus objetivos son hacerte creer que eres est\u00fapido e in\u00fatil y lo conseguir\u00e1n.<\/p>\r\n

Once you start believing in that crap, you cling on to him even closer because you\u2019re afraid he\u2019s the best you will ever have.<\/p>\r\n

Psic\u00f3patas emocionales<\/a> pueden hacerte creer lo que quieran.<\/p>\r\n

He \u2018wipes you out\u2019<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

\"hombre<\/p>\r\n

He simply isolates you from the rest of the world. He convinces you not to hang out with your friends because you don\u2019t really need them\u2014you have him.<\/p>\r\n

And what is really hiding behind this is\u2014he\u2019s afraid your friends might talk some sense into you and encourage you to leave him.<\/p>\r\n

He has spent so much time making you \u2018perfect\u2019 to let some friends of yours ruin you.<\/p>\r\n

Miente perfectamente<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

\"hombre<\/p>\r\n

Naci\u00f3 as\u00ed. Casi todo lo que dice es mentira.<\/p>\r\n

Miente tan perfectamente que nunca dudar\u00edas de \u00e9l y es coherente. Nunca se pierde en ese l\u00edo de mentiras que crea.<\/p>\r\n

Incluso si le pillas mintiendo, permanecer\u00e1 tranquilo y todo junto. Y tambi\u00e9n mentir\u00e1 para salir de esa situaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\r\n

You\u2019re fighting with anxiety and you don\u2019t know why<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

\"mujer<\/p>\r\n

You\u2019re anxious and you can\u2019t figure out why. Well, it\u2019s because toda tu relaci\u00f3n est\u00e1 mal<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n

He is wrong. It\u2019s because you don\u2019t feel good in your relationship and you feel he is being disrespectful and mean for no good reason.<\/p>\r\n

Crees que todo es culpa tuya, y te culpas porque \u00e9l te enga\u00f1a para que lo hagas.<\/p>\r\n

Piensas que vales menos y empiezas a creer que tienes suerte de tener alg\u00fan tipo de relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\r\n

You\u2019re anxious because you overanalyze things which are so simple, only you can\u2019t see them yet.<\/p>\r\n

Es extremadamente grosero con la gente que no le interesa<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

\"hombre<\/p>\r\n

S\u00f3lo fue amable contigo y s\u00f3lo se molest\u00f3 en impresionarte.<\/p>\r\n

He doesn\u2019t care about other people and is never kind to anyone.<\/p>\r\n

Al contrario, es extremadamente grosero y desagradable.<\/p>\r\n

That\u2019s because he doesn\u2019t need anything from those people, so he doesn\u2019t hide his real face and treats them like crap.<\/p>\r\n

When he actually needs someone\u2019s help, he turns on his full charm and of course gets what he wants.<\/p>\r\n

Afterwards, you\u2019re just another face in the crowd for him\u2014completely irrelevant and non-existent.<\/p>\r\n

\u00c9l TE CONVENCER\u00c1 de que es quien m\u00e1s te quiere y la \u00fanica persona en la que debes confiar.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n

\u00a1Qu\u00e9 cabr\u00f3n m\u00e1s escurridizo!<\/strong><\/p>\r\n

\"Si<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

My husband was an emotional sneaky bastard\u2014a complete psycho. He was physically, sexually and most importantly, emotionally abusive. Let me tell you just one thing\u2014words f**king HURT! He knew that and that was his strongest weapon! When we split, after 12 years of marriage, it hit me\u2014a sudden realization, a summing up if you will,…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":101580,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18587","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse & trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/If-Your-Guy-Does-These-8-Things-Hes-An-Emotional-PSYCHOPATH.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":1,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse & trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse & trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18587","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18587"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18587\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/101580"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18587"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18587"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18587"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}