{"id":18635,"date":"2018-05-14T07:09:34","date_gmt":"2018-05-14T07:09:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18635"},"modified":"2022-10-17T15:55:11","modified_gmt":"2022-10-17T15:55:11","slug":"como-dejar-a-un-narcisista-de-una-pieza","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-dejar-a-un-narcisista-de-una-pieza\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo dejar a un narcisista... de una pieza"},"content":{"rendered":"

Poner fin a una relaci\u00f3n con un compa\u00f1ero narcisista puede ser mucho m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil que simplemente darla por terminada y negarse a contestar el tel\u00e9fono. A los narcisistas no les gusta perder. Y no les gusta perder a sus parejas.<\/p>\n

To understand the difficulty, one must first understand how a narcissist\u2019s mind operates, and the best way to sum it up is \u2013 egocentrismo extensivo.<\/strong> Whereas it\u2019s human nature to consider our own needs first (whether we like to admit it or not), a narcissist takes this self-centeredness to the extreme. So much so, in fact, that other people are considered merely extensiones del yo<\/strong> que se utilizan para ayudar a este individuo a sentirse completo y facilitar sus planes.<\/p>\n

In other words, everyone in the narcissist\u2019s world lives only to serve the needs of the narcissist. If, at any time, these la gente se vuelve complaciente<\/a>, unwilling, or unable to do so, they will be quickly discarded. This means, an individual with this behavioral disorder may cheat, lie, steal, commit fraud, use substances \u2013 and will likely do all of the above \u2013 and it must be tolerated.<\/p>\n

So, what happens if it\u2019s not?<\/em><\/p>\n

Si no est\u00e1s seguro de si tu pareja que te est\u00e1 haciendo mal es un narcisista<\/a>intenta dejarlos. A ver qu\u00e9 pasa. R\u00e1pidamente te dar\u00e1s cuenta de que lo son, si es que de hecho lo son. Esto se debe a que los narcisistas no pueden simplemente dejar ir y seguir adelante. Perderte significa perder una parte utilizable de s\u00ed mismos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So, you can expect this partner to do a variety of underhanded things all meant for one ultimate purpose \u2013 to destroy you. If you try to leave, the narcissist will say and do anything and everything possible to convince you they are sorry for their faults and willing to change \u2013 just long enough for you to return. Then, they\u2019re able to descarte<\/strong> (en lugar de al rev\u00e9s) en un \u00faltimo gran acto final destinado a garantizar que te quedar\u00e1s sin nadie ni nada importante en tu vida.<\/p>\n

To accomplish this, the master-manipulator won\u2019t beg, cry, pout, and deliver flowers \u2013 at least, not for long. Instead, they will aspiradora<\/strong><\/em> \u2013 ever so subtly interjecting themselves time and again into your life, poking and prodding, so as not to be forgotten.<\/p>\n

Narcissists can\u2019t be alone. Therefore, they may \u201cgo away\u201d for a period of time to focus on new prey \u2013 or, rather, old prey, since this individual was likely there all along. Then, just when you think you\u2019re rid of them, they will return and try to get you to give in, so they can complete their juego s\u00e1dico.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n, mientras te desmayan y cortejan a otro, emplean un vicioso campa\u00f1a de difamaci\u00f3n<\/strong> a tus espaldas para dejarte sin nada. Esto significa que estar\u00e1n ocupados contactando en secreto con todos los de tu c\u00edrculo y convenci\u00e9ndoles de que se pongan de su parte. Dir\u00e1n y har\u00e1n cualquier cosa para conseguir que sus allegados les crean.<\/p>\n

Not only will the narcissist try to make all of your friends and family turn against you, but this person will try to get you to lose your job, your home, your finances, and any thread of stability you have left. This won\u2019t be too difficult, actually, since chances are, your partner began stripping these things away from you long ago. Narcissists work tirelessly toward having their mates be entirely dependent on their support right from the beginning.<\/p>\n

Mind you, this is all happening while your former partner is also trying to convince you, straight-faced, you are the best thing that\u2019s ever happened to them and they absolutely can\u2019t live without you. If you give in to the lies and return, te descartar\u00e1n.<\/strong> Y, como en realidad era lo \u00fanico que te quedaba, te quedar\u00e1s sin absolutamente nada. Se acab\u00f3 el juego.<\/p>\n

Entonces, \u00bfc\u00f3mo dejar a un narcisista<\/a>? Quietly, quickly, and without even saying goodbye. There may be a million things you want to call this person out on, but it\u2019s simply not worth it. The best thing you can do for your own sanity and well-being is to leave and go entirely no contact to the best of your ability. Refuse any further advances, cut ties with all the mutual acquaintances you can, mantente fuerte y nunca mires atr\u00e1s.<\/strong><\/p>\n

The sobering reality is, once you have entered into a partnership with a narcissist, you will forever be in this partnership whether you want to be or not. But, you can minimize this pain by taking the steps to distance yourself as much as possible \u2013 pase lo que pase.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00bfEl infierno no tiene m\u00e1s furia que una mujer despreciada? El infierno no ha visto ira como un narcisista herido.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ending a relationship with a narcissistic mate can be much more challenging than just calling it quits and refusing to answer your phone. Narcissists don\u2019t like to lose. And, they don\u2019t like to lose partners. To understand the difficulty, one must first understand how a narcissist\u2019s mind operates, and the best way to sum it…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":18636,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18635","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/warren-wong-261814-unsplash.jpg",800,557,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":232,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":232,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18635","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18635"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18635\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18636"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18635"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18635"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18635"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}