{"id":18656,"date":"2020-08-14T09:58:49","date_gmt":"2020-08-14T09:58:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18656"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:34:12","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:34:12","slug":"5-juegos-mentales-que-los-hombres-hacen-a-las-mujeres-antes-de-una-ruptura-y-como-afrontarlos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-juegos-mentales-que-los-hombres-hacen-a-las-mujeres-antes-de-una-ruptura-y-como-afrontarlos\/","title":{"rendered":"5 juegos mentales que los t\u00edos hacen a las mujeres antes de romper (y c\u00f3mo afrontarlos)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cuando un hombre te deja, todo tu mundo se desmorona. Te sientes rechazada y sola.<\/p>\n

We\u2019ve all experienced that dreadful feeling and the healing process that comes after it.<\/p>\n

Pero, \u00bfqu\u00e9 pasar\u00eda si pudieras ir un paso por delante del chico que est\u00e1 a punto de romperte el coraz\u00f3n?<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 pasar\u00eda si pudieras anticipar que te va a dejar?<\/p>\n

No habr\u00eda angustia, ni siquiera si le quisieras de verdad. Porque, en alg\u00fan momento, te dar\u00edas cuenta de que est\u00e1 jugando contigo para encontrar una excusa para la ruptura.<\/p>\n

Probablemente sea un cobarde d\u00e9bil que no es lo suficientemente hombre como para aguantarse y decirte a la cara que quiere salir de la relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

So, he reaches out for the most disgusting and the most cowardly means of getting out of the \u2018mess\u2019 he found himself in\u2014he plays games with your mind, trying to convince you that you were the problem all along, so he can walk out clean-handed and not guilty.<\/p>\n

What happens is that most women don\u2019t even realize they were being abused in their relationship until it\u2019s all over.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Entonces rebobinan todo lo que ha pasado y se dan cuenta de que nunca fue culpa suya ninguna de las cosas que estaban sucediendo.<\/p>\n

They were so in love with the man who used and abused them that they failed to see something wasn\u2019t quite right. They failed to see that things shouldn\u2019t have been the way they were.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Even if they noticed something was wrong, they wouldn\u2019t admit it to themselves because the perfect bubble they were living in would burst.<\/p>\n

Sometimes it\u2019s easier just to ignore the truth than to face it and receive all the blows that were to come.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why it\u2019s important to look at your love life objectively. Set aside that you\u2019re in love because love will blind you and you won\u2019t be able to see things for what they are.<\/p>\n

Maybe because you don\u2019t want to, or you just can\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Hay muchas maneras diferentes en que los hombres juegan juegos mentales con las mujeres. Como todos somos diferentes, tambi\u00e9n lo son nuestras acciones. Nos afectan cosas diferentes, nos hacen da\u00f1o cosas diferentes.<\/p>\n

Psic\u00f3patas emocionales<\/a> y los hombres que juegan todo tipo de juegos con todas las personas como si fueran objetos y no seres humanos son lo suficientemente inteligentes como para saber la manera exacta de llegar a nosotras, de golpear donde m\u00e1s duele.<\/p>\n

These men do it because they want to break up with you and they want to stage it like it\u2019s all your fault.<\/p>\n

\u00c9stos son algunos de los juegos mentales que utilizan para conseguir lo que quieren y dejar la relaci\u00f3n con las manos vac\u00edas.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 flirteando con otras mujeres<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

There could be a lot of reasons why he is doing this. But, the most common ones are that he just wants your attention and wants you to be jealous\u2014which is also not that healthy.<\/p>\n

Yet there is even one bigger reason why he\u2019s doing that.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 tratando de enviarte una sutil pista de que pronto abandonar\u00e1 a ti y a vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

But the thing is if you ask him why he\u2019s doing that, he won\u2019t tell you straight up of course. He will probably lie and make himself the victim, so you feel sorry for him and leave him alone.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll tell you that you don\u2019t care for him, that he is feeling lonely, when the truth is, he\u2019s had enough and will leave you any time soon.<\/p>\n

And when he leaves you, you will feel like shit because you\u2019ll think it was all your fault, that you should have loved him more.<\/p>\n

Te hace sentir culpable<\/h2>\n

\"el<\/p>\n

Te har\u00e1 sentir completamente in\u00fatil. Por mucho que intentes que vuestra relaci\u00f3n funcione, \u00e9l encontrar\u00e1 la manera de poner objeciones a tu comportamiento.<\/p>\n

Te har\u00e1 sentir culpable de todo lo que vaya mal.<\/p>\n

Incluso cuando no est\u00e1s de buen humor pero intentas mantener la compostura por su bien, te pinchar\u00e1 y provocar\u00e1 s\u00f3lo para volverte loca, as\u00ed que una vez m\u00e1s \u00e9l podr\u00eda ser la v\u00edctima y t\u00fa el malo.<\/p>\n

He will do this every day because either he wants to break up with you or he wants you to break up with him, so he doesn\u2019t have to be the one who pulls the plug on your relationship.<\/p>\n

Lo mejor que puede hacer en esta situaci\u00f3n es ir ning\u00fan contacto<\/a> con \u00e9l y dejarlo.<\/p>\n

Even if it gives him the satisfaction of not breaking up with you but getting rid of you, it\u2019s not worthy of your emotional breakdown.<\/p>\n

Te mentir\u00e1 todo el tiempo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

He\u2019s probably even having an affair which is so see-through. You simply know that he\u2019s cheating on you and that it is intentional.<\/p>\n

He wants you to know because he\u2019s preparing you for a breakup.<\/p>\n

But, the screwed up part is that although he wants you to know that he no longer loves you, he will lie to justify his actions because once again, he doesn\u2019t want to be the bad guy.<\/p>\n

He will lie about where he\u2019s been and with whom he\u2019s been\u2014even if you sense another woman\u2019s scent on him. He will deny everything.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t stick around to see what happens. Don\u2019t give him another chance because he doesn\u2019t deserve it and probably doesn\u2019t want it either.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let him abuse you with his lying and making a complete fool out of you.<\/p>\n

Nunca le demuestres que esas mentiras transparentes te est\u00e1n afectando y termina con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

And if he asks the reason, which a mind playing psychopath like he will, just say, \u201cbecause\u201d. Don\u2019t give him the satisfaction of seeing you hurt.<\/p>\n

\u00c9l le gaslight<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

This is the gold mine of manipulations. It\u2019s the meanest and most effective mind playing there is.<\/p>\n

Luz de gas<\/a> is a form of emotional abuse in which the abuser manipulates situations repeatedly to make you think you\u2019re going crazy.<\/p>\n

Escoger\u00e1 una situaci\u00f3n y dir\u00e1 una cosa y har\u00e1 completamente otra.<\/p>\n

And afterward, he\u2019ll convince you that you\u2019ve got all of it wrong and that he never said what you think he said (or did what you think he did).<\/p>\n

Puedes salir de esa situaci\u00f3n escribiendo las cosas.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t be able to write everything that happens in your life, but after some time, some situations are going to repeat themselves and when they do, write down what he said or promised and what he did in the end.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll see that the problem is not you but him.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 jugando con tu mente para que, despu\u00e9s de romper contigo, tenga la excusa de que est\u00e1s completamente loca y no tuvo m\u00e1s remedio que dejarte.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s provoking you<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Te presionar\u00e1 para que te enfades y luego usar\u00e1 ese enfado contra ti.<\/p>\n

No importa lo paciente que seas, despu\u00e9s de constantes empujones verbales y emocionales, te romper\u00e1s bajo la presi\u00f3n y estallar\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Eso es lo que quiere desde el principio. Como llev\u00e1is bastante tiempo en esta relaci\u00f3n, sabe exactamente lo que te enfada y lo utilizar\u00e1 en tu contra.<\/p>\n

Una vez que te vuelvas loca, \u00e9l se har\u00e1 la v\u00edctima y le dar\u00e1 la vuelta a las cosas.<\/p>\n

Ver\u00e1s, esta manipulaci\u00f3n es la tapadera perfecta para una ruptura porque eres t\u00fa el que es imposible de tener cerca.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re mad all the time and you scream constantly.<\/p>\n

When you look at it just from the surface, that\u2019s true, but when you dig in more deeply, you\u2019ll see that he planted that seed of mess and staged the whole situation to happen.<\/p>\n

And all that just because he didn\u2019t have enough courage to let you go like a man. He did it like an emotionally immature mama\u2019s boy<\/a>...un viejo cobarde.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t deserve a coward, you deserve a real man.<\/p>\n

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