{"id":1874,"date":"2020-06-08T11:31:02","date_gmt":"2020-06-08T11:31:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=1874"},"modified":"2021-08-31T07:34:28","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T07:34:28","slug":"8-cosas-que-pasan-conocer-chico-bueno-relacion-toxica","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/8-cosas-que-pasan-conocer-chico-bueno-relacion-toxica\/","title":{"rendered":"8 cosas que pasan cuando conoces a un buen chico despu\u00e9s de una relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica"},"content":{"rendered":"

The biggest problem in a toxic relationship is that you aren\u2019t necessarily aware you are in one. You get used to mistreatment because it gradually becomes a part of your life.<\/p>\n

There can be happy moments (when your abuser is in the \u2018mood\u2019) which make you forget those bad ones that happened and are about to happen.<\/p>\n

Las relaciones t\u00f3xicas crean adicci\u00f3n<\/i><\/b> . You can\u2019t burn that bridge because you have some kind of security. You have someone who supposedly cares for you\u2014someone who should care for you.<\/p>\n

But, you don\u2019t know any better, so you stick to him.<\/p>\n

Las relaciones t\u00f3xicas son un reto<\/i><\/b> . You think it\u2019s up to you to make your own happiness in this kind of a relationship.<\/p>\n

You think things don\u2019t fall from the sky and you think it\u2019s your obligation to make your relationship work.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s no harm in trying to make things work out, but bear in mind\u2014you have to fight for someone who is worth fighting for.<\/p>\n

Abusers don\u2019t deserve to be fought for.<\/p>\n

Las relaciones t\u00f3xicas tienen que ver con el miedo<\/i><\/b> . Most women keep thinking that being in a dysfunctional relationship is better than being single. They don\u2019t have the courage to break free from their abusers.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n:<\/strong> 10 se\u00f1ales de que est\u00e1s en una relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica<\/a><\/p>\n

Pero, algunos de ellos do <\/i> encuentran el valor para romper las cadenas de su relaci\u00f3n abusiva s\u00f3lo para tropezar con otro obst\u00e1culo.<\/p>\n

Conocen a alguien nuevo y todo lo que se supone que es normal en una relaci\u00f3n se sale de su zona de confort. Est\u00e1n acostumbrados a que se les trate mal.<\/p>\n

Estas son algunas cosas que te pueden pasar cuando conoces a un buen chico despu\u00e9s del que te hizo sentir como una mierda:<\/p>\n

Tendr\u00e1s espacio y apoyo para aprender a quererte a ti mismo<\/h2>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

Lo primero que tienes que hacer es aprende a quererte a ti mismo<\/a>. Tienes que confiar en ti mismo porque nadie puede saber lo que es bueno para ti.<\/p>\n

T\u00fa eres la \u00fanica persona que conoce y controla esa parte de tu vida.<\/p>\n

Estar con un buen chico te dar\u00e1 las condiciones adecuadas para crecer y convertirte en la mujer que sabes que necesitas ser.<\/p>\n

Una vez que lo haya conseguido, estar\u00e1 listo para pasar al siguiente paso.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll experience unknown \u2018strange\u2019 feelings<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve suffered enough and now when you\u2019ve met a good guy, grab the bull by the horns and don\u2019t let go.<\/p>\n

En lugar de tener miedo a los nuevos sentimientos, abraza tu relaci\u00f3n positiva y saludable.<\/p>\n

All of them are supposed to be like that and that is something you aren\u2019t ready to understand, yet.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be afraid to let yourself go because this guy will understand that you walked through hell and back.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll expect the same story all over again<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve lost faith in people. After being treated like s**t, you are afraid you\u2019ll be treated like that again.<\/p>\n

When you start a new relationship you can\u2019t shake off the feeling he is the same as the one before.<\/p>\n

For you, it\u2019s impossible to imagine there is someone there for you who won\u2019t treat you badly.<\/p>\n

You settled for a guy who doesn\u2019t deserve you and now that you\u2019ve experienced the opposite treatment (love that you deserve), you can\u2019t imagine what kept you going in your toxic relationship.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll overanalyze everything<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Te trata como te mereces pero hay algo que te molesta.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t accept the fact he is behaving like that because he cares about you. You are overanalyzing stuff, looking for hidden motives.<\/p>\n

However, there aren\u2019t any.<\/p>\n

Most probably, you will keep your distance and look at things from a different perspective just to reassure yourself he doesn\u2019t want to do you any harm.<\/p>\n

Hopefully, then, you will realize there aren\u2019t any hidden motives and his love for you is pure and long-term.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll think he\u2019s too good to be true<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t get rid of the feeling something will go wrong in your relationship any moment.<\/p>\n

You expect he will lose it. Maybe he will get rid of that \u2018goodie-goodie\u2019 mask and show his real face.<\/p>\n

But, he stays the same\u2014full of understanding, patience and ready to love you. There is absolutely no reason not to trust him, but your wounds haven\u2019t healed yet. It will take time and he is aware of that.<\/p>\n

You are waiting for the \u2018perfect storm\u2019<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

In toxic relationships, fights come out of nowhere. Even now, you can\u2019t relax because you have the constant feeling that fighting is about to begin.<\/p>\n

Las peleas y los malos tratos formaban parte de tu vida cotidiana, y est\u00e1s tan acostumbrado a ellos que esperas que ocurran.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t understand he is not like that. He is different and you are confused because you are used to a completely different scenario.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll apologize a lot<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Debido a los constantes conflictos en tu relaci\u00f3n anterior, estabas acostumbrado a pedir disculpas a la gente todo el tiempo.<\/p>\n

You used to apologize to your partner just to calm him down and avoid conflict. You apologized for the things you did and didn\u2019t do wrong.<\/p>\n

Aprender\u00e1s a confiar en \u00e9l<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Over time, you will get used to good treatment\u2014the treatment you deserve\u2014and you will start to trust your guy completely.<\/p>\n

You will realize he doesn\u2019t want to hurt you and he never will.<\/p>\n

Slowly, you will start showing him your vulnerable side because you\u2019ve finally made sure he will never hurt you.<\/p>\n

Aprender\u00e1s qu\u00e9 es el verdadero amor<\/a>. Tu experiencia t\u00f3xica te har\u00e1 m\u00e1s fuerte pero despu\u00e9s vuelve a confiar en las personas.<\/p>\n

Por fin ver\u00e1s lo que significa amar a alguien que te corresponde, que te merece y te respeta.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t give up!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

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