{"id":18786,"date":"2020-08-16T06:33:07","date_gmt":"2020-08-16T06:33:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18786"},"modified":"2022-02-27T02:46:12","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T02:46:12","slug":"una-carta-a-la-chica-que-no-para-de-desmoronarse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/una-carta-a-la-chica-que-no-para-de-desmoronarse\/","title":{"rendered":"Carta a la chica que no para de desmoronarse"},"content":{"rendered":"

Hola preciosa,<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo has estado \u00faltimamente?<\/strong><\/em> Aunque finjas que est\u00e1s bien, s\u00e9 que tu mundo se desmorona<\/a> y tambi\u00e9n s\u00e9 que ocurre por diferentes problemas que llegan sin invitaci\u00f3n a tu vida.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que est\u00e1s intentando quedar bien delante de la gente, pero cuando miro un poco m\u00e1s profundamente en tus ojos, puedo ver toda la pena que te ha estado persiguiendo todo este tiempo.<\/p>\n

I am not near enough to give you the warmest hug and kiss but that doesn’t mean I can’t comfort you with my words because even if we are miles apart, we are close in our pain.<\/strong><\/em> S\u00f3lo quiero que sepas que pasar\u00e1 y que tienes que aguantar.<\/p>\n

You don’t need to do that because others can see how strong you are. You need to do that for yourself only. You need to accept that life is full of shit and that things like this will happen. And it doesn\u2019t get better when time passes. You just learn how to deal with it.<\/p>\n

Habr\u00e1 momentos en los que sentir\u00e1s que eres menos de lo que realmente eres.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n

Habr\u00e1 momentos en que los amigos te traicionar\u00e1n y en que tu ser querido resultar\u00e1 no ser el correcto<\/a> in the end. And that is more than okay because how else could we learn to be strong if we don\u2019t go through various problems?<\/p>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Things like this need to happen to make you stronger, to show you that you are so strong and that you will fight for yourself when you feel danger coming. So, don\u2019t be desperate.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t cry and ask God why He is doing all that to you. Just remember that the teacher always remains silent during the test.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n

Consid\u00e9ralo una prueba m\u00e1s, una experiencia por la que tienes que pasar para completarte.<\/p>\n

Porque nadie est\u00e1 completo s\u00f3lo por haber pasado por algunas cosas buenas. Est\u00e1s completo una vez que experimentas cosas buenas y malas y sigues firme sobre tus pies.<\/p>\n

Te sientes completo cuando te niegas a dejarte llevar por la corriente y luchas por tus derechos, diciendo a la gente todo lo que piensas sin importar si lo aceptan o no.<\/p>\n

Te sientes completo cuando eres fiel a ti mismo, a tus sentimientos y a tus emociones.<\/strong><\/em> Y eso es por lo que tienes que esforzarte.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, la pr\u00f3xima vez que te haga da\u00f1o, d\u00e9jale ir porque es mejor ver a tiempo que no es el adecuado.<\/p>\n

When your friends betray you, don\u2019t fight with them, telling them that you are desperate and broken, but go outside into the world and find a new, real friend.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Cuando la gente te decepciona, sup\u00e9ralo, porque guardar rencor no es lo tuyo.<\/p>\n

Eres mucho m\u00e1s que eso. Est\u00e1s por encima de tus problemas y s\u00f3lo tienes que creer en ello.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

You just need to believe in yourself. So, I want you to do one things right now: Just put your hand on your heart\u2014what do you feel? Is it still beating?<\/p>\n

Hell yeah! Because that heart won\u2019t be broken simply like that. Your heart can endure so much more than un novio de mierda<\/a> y deshonestos a tu alrededor.<\/p>\n

So, baby, please don\u2019t fall apart because of someone who doesn\u2019t deserve that. And the one who deserves it will never do any harm to you.<\/p>\n

And when you feel that you can\u2019t take it anymore, do anything to release the stress. Scream. Cry. Get drunk. Destroy things. But let all the pain and anger go out.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n

If you just keep your mouth shut to all the mocking and insulting, you will explode one day. You won\u2019t be able to take all that shit anymore and you will just break.<\/p>\n

So, please don\u2019t let that happen to you. Don\u2019t let be broken into pieces so small that they couldn\u2019t be glued together anymore. You have a choice, so choose smart. This is your life and you can affect most of the things that come to your life.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, nunca, nunca te rindas ni te vengas abajo por algo que se puede solucionar con un poco de esfuerzo.<\/strong> <\/em>Don\u2019t give up on all the good things that life gives you just because you have been sad about those bad ones.<\/p>\n

Cuanto antes aceptes una vida as\u00ed, m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil te resultar\u00e1. As\u00ed que levanta la cabeza, pon una sonrisa en tu cara y camina con orgullo por este mundo. Porque cari\u00f1o, te lo mereces. \u00a1Y nada menos que eso!<\/p>\n

El amor,<\/p>\n

El que ha estado all\u00ed.<\/p>\n

\"Carta<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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