{"id":18850,"date":"2020-04-17T09:30:57","date_gmt":"2020-04-17T09:30:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18850"},"modified":"2022-02-22T16:25:17","modified_gmt":"2022-02-22T16:25:17","slug":"5-maneras-de-lidiar-con-hombres-emocionalmente-inaccesibles","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-maneras-de-lidiar-con-hombres-emocionalmente-inaccesibles\/","title":{"rendered":"5 maneras de lidiar con hombres emocionalmente no disponibles"},"content":{"rendered":"

Enamorarse de un hombre emocionalmente no disponible<\/a> sometimes seems like you\u2019re dating a wall.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re doing your best, trying so hard and giving all of yourself to your relationship and it seems like it\u2019s all in vain.<\/p>\n

It seems like you\u2019re screaming at a wall and all you hear is your own echo.<\/p>\n

Y hay tantos caracter\u00edsticas de los hombres emocionalmente inasequibles<\/a> que a veces parece imposible comprender si nuestra pareja realmente no est\u00e1 disponible emocionalmente. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Algunas de las principales son que sea un mal comunicador, que siempre est\u00e9 lleno de excusas, que sea arrogante y no haga m\u00e1s que hablar, que busque la perfecci\u00f3n y que sea un mentiroso.<\/p>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

But sometimes, emotionally unavailable man can overcome whatever it is that\u2019s bothering them because there are two types of unavailability\u2014chronic and temporary.<\/p>\n

La indisponibilidad cr\u00f3nica est\u00e1 causada por una enfermedad mental, una adicci\u00f3n o una infancia problem\u00e1tica, mientras que la temporal procede de hacer de algo una prioridad mayor que la relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Algunas personas simplemente tienen miedo de enamorarse y que les vuelvan a hacer da\u00f1o, por lo que se vuelven emocionalmente inaccesibles. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Sometimes it\u2019s almost impossible to tell if it\u2019s something temporary that can be solved with time or if it\u2019s chronic.<\/p>\n

Si tu hombre vale la pena y crees firmemente que lo hace, aqu\u00ed est\u00e1n todas las maneras en que puedes lidiar con los hombres emocionalmente no disponibles.<\/p>\n

1. Escuchar lo que tiene que decir<\/h2>\n

\"foto<\/p>\n

So many women out there fall in love with someone and when it\u2019s already too late, they realize that he is not who they believed he was.<\/p>\n

And chances are great that he was telling her the truth all the time, but because of the love and honeymoon phase that strikes in the early beginning of a relationship, they just didn\u2019t see it coming.<\/p>\n

Si ya tienes dudas sobre \u00e9l, presta atenci\u00f3n a su forma de comunicarse contigo y con otras personas.<\/p>\n

Esc\u00fachale cuando hable de sus ex o del pasado porque ah\u00ed hay muchas pistas.<\/p>\n

If he never takes the blame for his actions, he could be chronically emotionally unavailable and there\u2019s just no point in trying to save him.<\/p>\n

But, if he admits that there were certain things he could\u2019ve done differently or that his ex broke him and he never believed he\u2019ll enamorarse de nuevo<\/a>podr\u00eda tratarse de una indisponibilidad temporal. En ese caso, \u00e1rmate de paciencia y amor.<\/p>\n

2. Don\u2019t push him \u2013 he needs to heal on his own<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Tanto como quieres arreglarlo<\/a> y ayudarle a superarlo, necesita hacerlo por s\u00ed mismo. Tiene que tomar esa decisi\u00f3n por s\u00ed mismo y hacerlo por s\u00ed mismo.<\/p>\n

Lo \u00fanico que puedes hacer ahora es darle apoyo y demostrarle que no eres t\u00fa quien le ha roto, que no eres t\u00fa quien le ha hecho levantar sus muros.<\/p>\n

And with time, he\u2019ll come around. But if you keep pushing him, his walls will only grow thicker.<\/p>\n

Por eso el n\u00famero cuatro de esta lista es realmente importante cuando se trata de un hombre emocionalmente inaccesible.<\/p>\n

3. Don\u2019t apologize for your feelings and wishes<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Your feelings are yours to feel and your wishes are yours to wish. Don\u2019t ever apologize for them\u2014not to him, not to yourself and not to anyone else out there.<\/p>\n

Literalmente, no hay nadie que haya estado en tu pellejo y no hay nadie que pueda so\u00f1ar como t\u00fa y amar como t\u00fa.<\/p>\n

Por eso tus emociones, tus sue\u00f1os y tus deseos forman parte de ti. Son lo que te hace tan \u00fanico.<\/p>\n

And don\u2019t be ashamed if you are dreaming about having a huge family and a bunch of children running around. Don\u2019t be ashamed if you are not dreaming about children at all.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s your choice to do so and if you are respecting his choices (like building walls and staying behind them), he needs to respect yours.<\/p>\n

If by any chance he is making you feel less worthy because of your dreams or he\u2019s making fun of them, same like your feelings, he is not worth it.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s one thing to be emotionally unavailable, but it\u2019s a completely different one to be an asshole.<\/p>\n

4. Mant\u00e9n tu independencia y felicidad como prioridad<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

When you are dealing with such men, it\u2019s important that you keep your independence a priority.<\/p>\n

I know that you love him, you wouldn\u2019t be with him if you didn\u2019t in the first place.<\/p>\n

I know that you want to make him your life, but it\u2019s incredibly important that you don\u2019t do it.<\/p>\n

Hazle part\u00edcipe en su lugar, pero sigue persiguiendo tus sue\u00f1os, tu felicidad y tu futuro.<\/p>\n

Al hacerlo, le dar\u00e1s espacio para crecer y trabajar sobre s\u00ed mismo.<\/p>\n

You will show him that you are not trying to change him and that that\u2019s something he needs to do on his own.<\/p>\n

Esto es importante porque ver\u00e1 que no eres como nadie que haya conocido, que eres tu propia mujer con sus propios sue\u00f1os y su propia vida.<\/p>\n

With time, he will want to be part of it because there is something about you that attracted him in the beginning\u2014your independence and your will to live.<\/p>\n

And another reason why this is important is that you don\u2019t want to give him too much power over you.<\/p>\n

Sometimes these things simply don\u2019t work out and this is a perfect way for you to have that safety net, to have something to hold onto when you lose him.<\/p>\n

5. Aseg\u00farate de que es lo que realmente quieres<\/h2>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

Above all, be sure that this is something you want to do. Be sure that you are ready to scream at the wall, that you are ready to give your love to someone who doesn\u2019t know how to give his love to you.<\/p>\n

Aseg\u00farese de que est\u00e1 dispuesto a poner su vida amorosa en suspenso por algo que al final podr\u00eda no funcionar.<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, tiene una pinta terror\u00edfica y s\u00ed, existe la posibilidad de que duela mucho.<\/p>\n

But if you\u2019re up for it, if you are sure, keep in mind that there is nothing you can\u2019t do when you set your mind to it. And if he is not the one for you, you can be the one for yourself.<\/p>\n

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