{"id":18865,"date":"2020-04-01T10:51:49","date_gmt":"2020-04-01T10:51:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18865"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:12:16","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:12:16","slug":"amarte-no-fue-mas-que-una-perdida-de-tiempo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/amarte-no-fue-mas-que-una-perdida-de-tiempo\/","title":{"rendered":"Amarte No Fue M\u00e1s Que Una P\u00e9rdida De Tiempo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Cuando t\u00fa y yo nos conocimos y empezamos nuestra relaci\u00f3n, ten\u00edamos muchos planes para el futuro. Esper\u00e1bamos conseguir muchas cosas y quer\u00edamos hacerlo todo juntos.<\/p>\n<p>We were certain we would grow old together and that our love didn\u2019t have an expiration date.<\/p>\n<p>Est\u00e1bamos seguros de que nada ni nadie podr\u00eda separarnos y de que \u00e9ramos m\u00e1s fuertes que cualquier obst\u00e1culo que la vida pudiera ponernos por delante.<\/p>\n<p>We thought that we were meant to be and that our love was something that couldn\u2019t go away.<\/p>\n<p>Y entonces, despu\u00e9s de a\u00f1os juntos <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/al-hombre-que-me-dejo-sin-decir-una-palabra\/\"> se march\u00f3 sin decir una palabra <\/a> .<\/p>\n<p>Me dejaste como si nunca hubi\u00e9ramos existido y como si nunca me hubieras amado.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-76565 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/sad-woman-crying-e1590434677107.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"799\" height=\"532\"><\/p>\n<p>Te alejaste de m\u00ed como si nuestra relaci\u00f3n nunca hubiera significado nada para ti y como si nunca hubiera sido importante para ti.<\/p>\n<p>When you left, I felt the kind of pain I had never felt before. And I literally thought I wouldn\u2019t survive without you.<\/p>\n<p>Estaba convencida de que mi vida no ten\u00eda sentido ni prop\u00f3sito y estaba dispuesta a hacer lo que fuera para tenerte de vuelta.<\/p>\n<p>No dejaba de cuestionarme cada d\u00eda de nuestra relaci\u00f3n, intentando encontrar respuestas. Me preguntaba si hab\u00eda hecho algo que te ahuyentara, algo que hiciera que me dejaras.<\/p>\n<p>I asked myself why I wasn\u2019t enough and if there was something I could\u2019ve done to keep you by my side.<\/p>\n<p>But after months of tears and the worst kind of emotional suffering I\u2019ve ever experienced, one day I smiled and you weren\u2019t the reason why.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-76566 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/sad-woman-writing-diary-e1590434725812.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/sad-woman-writing-diary-e1590434725812.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/sad-woman-writing-diary-e1590434725812-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/sad-woman-writing-diary-e1590434725812-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Y ese fue el d\u00eda en que supe que acabar\u00eda super\u00e1ndote. Ese fue el d\u00eda en que supe que mi recuperaci\u00f3n hab\u00eda comenzado y el d\u00eda en que empec\u00e9 a olvidarte.<\/p>\n<p>Y al final, lo hice <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/this-is-what-moving-on-is-really-all-about\/\"> seguir adelante <\/a> en cierto modo. Con el tiempo, super\u00e9 el amor que sent\u00eda por ti y el hecho de que te hubieras alejado de m\u00ed como si nunca te hubiera importado.<\/p>\n<p>Super\u00e9 el hecho de que todos nuestros sue\u00f1os y esperanzas fueran en vano y segu\u00ed adelante con todos nuestros planes y objetivos.<\/p>\n<p><b>But what I can\u2019t get over was the fact that I spent years with you and that those years were only significant to me.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>What I can\u2019t get over is the fact that everything we went through meant a lot only to me. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>What I can\u2019t get over is the fact that all the years I spent with you were in vain and that they are all gone with the wind.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-76567 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/tired-woman-drinking-coffee-e1590434775206.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>What I can\u2019t get over is the fact that I wasted years of my life on someone who never loved me and with someone who could walk away from me and never look back, like I was just a stop along the way.<\/p>\n<p><b>What I can\u2019t get over is the fact that loving you was obviously just a waste of time.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Porque no me llev\u00f3 a ninguna parte y no me aport\u00f3 nada bueno ni positivo.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo me trajo l\u00e1grimas y sufrimiento.<\/p>\n<p>It has brought me to the point where I\u2019ve now lost trust in everyone around me, where I question everyone\u2019s intentions and where I don\u2019t let anyone in.<\/p>\n<p>It has brought me to the point where I hate the person you\u2019ve made me become.<\/p>\n<p><b>Amarte fue un desperdicio de energ\u00eda, un desperdicio de mi paciencia, un desperdicio de mis sacrificios y esfuerzos.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-76568 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/woman-laying-down-e1590434789883.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p><b>Estar contigo fue un desperdicio de amor porque me desperdici\u00e9 completamente contigo. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfY para qu\u00e9? \u00bfQu\u00e9 tengo ahora de ello aparte de la decepci\u00f3n y la humillaci\u00f3n? \u00bfAdem\u00e1s de esta amargura en el fondo de mi garganta cada vez que alguien menciona tu nombre?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfAdem\u00e1s de esta negatividad y pesimismo que me consume por completo? \u00bfAdem\u00e1s de esta duda de mi propia val\u00eda y adem\u00e1s de este miedo al futuro?<\/p>\n<p>Te di mis mejores a\u00f1os y todo lo mejor de m\u00ed y nunca recib\u00ed el agradecimiento que merec\u00eda. Nunca recib\u00ed el aprecio y el respeto que merec\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p>I never got the confirmation that I existed in your life and that I\u2019d made a difference inside of you.<\/p>\n<p>Y eso era lo menos que deber\u00edas haberme dado.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-76569 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Loving-You-Was-Nothing-But-A-Waste-Of-Time-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Amarte No Fue M\u00e1s Que Una P\u00e9rdida De Tiempo\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Loving-You-Was-Nothing-But-A-Waste-Of-Time-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Loving-You-Was-Nothing-But-A-Waste-Of-Time-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Loving-You-Was-Nothing-But-A-Waste-Of-Time-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you and I met and when we started our relationship, we had numerous plans for the future. We hoped to accomplish a lot and we wanted to do it all together. We were certain we would grow old together and that our love didn\u2019t have an expiration date. We were certain that nothing and&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":76564,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18865","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Loving-You-Was-Nothing-But-A-Waste-Of-Time.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. 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