{"id":18887,"date":"2020-05-18T06:59:02","date_gmt":"2020-05-18T06:59:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18887"},"modified":"2022-02-23T00:42:29","modified_gmt":"2022-02-23T00:42:29","slug":"gracias-por-romperla","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/gracias-por-romperla\/","title":{"rendered":"Gracias por romperla"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Tengo un deseo imperecedero un poco inusual, de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/me-gustaria-darte-las-gracias-por-romperme-el-corazon\/\">gracias por romperla<\/a> y envi\u00e1ndola directamente a mis brazos.<\/p>\r\n<p>She is the best thing that ever happened to me and I would never have had the opportunity to have her in my life if you had known to appreciate her and treat her right. I guess one man&#8217;s loss is another one\u2019s gain.<\/p>\r\n<p>You probably don&#8217;t know a lot about me. But you surely know the most important thing\u2014I am the one who knew how to appreciate what <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/7-senales-de-alarma\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">que diste por sentado<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n<p>Yo soy quien vio que ella era el sol detr\u00e1s de esas nubes que t\u00fa creaste. Yo soy quien supo darle el amor que se merec\u00eda.<\/p>\r\n<p>Unfortunately, I know a lot about you. Probably more than I should, being her new boyfriend. But it couldn&#8217;t be any other way.<\/p>\r\n<p>Necesitaba a alguien que la escuchara. Necesitaba a alguien que la entendiera.<\/p>\r\n<p>Necesitaba a alguien en quien pudiera confiar.<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Gracias a ti, es m\u00e1s feliz conmigo.<\/strong> I can&#8217;t take all the credit for that though.<\/p>\r\n<p>S\u00f3lo estuve a su lado mientras se recompon\u00eda.<\/p>\r\n<p>S\u00f3lo la bes\u00e9 para que no sintiera dolor. Solo le ofrec\u00ed mis hombros para que llorara y enjugu\u00e9 sus l\u00e1grimas.<\/p>\r\n<p>S\u00f3lo disfrut\u00e9 de su sonrisa e hice todo lo posible para que durara. Me qued\u00e9 pasara lo que pasara.<\/p>\r\n<p>I really couldn&#8217;t believe that somebody would ever think of hurting her and causing her so much pain. But you had no problem doing it.<\/p>\r\n<p>No importa cu\u00e1ntas veces me haya contado historias sobre ti y c\u00f3mo la maltratabas, nunca he sido capaz de comprender qu\u00e9 clase de hombre es capaz de eso.<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>El da\u00f1o que le causaste le dej\u00f3 profundas cicatrices, soy consciente de ello. Pero tambi\u00e9n la convirti\u00f3 en la persona que es ahora.<\/strong> Est\u00e1 m\u00e1s fuerte que nunca.<\/p>\r\n<p>Tiene el mundo a sus pies y est\u00e1 prosperando en todo. Solo necesitaba que alguien creyera en ella para poder empezar a creer en s\u00ed misma.<\/p>\r\n<p>La bajaste <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/50-frases-inspiradoras-sobre-la-autoestima-que-aumentaran-la-confianza-en-uno-mismo-cada-dia\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">autoestima<\/a>. No ten\u00eda fe en s\u00ed misma.<\/p>\r\n<p>You made her think that she was unlovable, that she wasn\u2019t enough.<\/p>\r\n<p>Le hiciste sentir que no merec\u00eda tu tiempo ni tu atenci\u00f3n. Le transmitiste tus inseguridades, le mentiste y la manipulaste.<\/p>\r\n<p>No eras m\u00e1s que una pat\u00e9tica excusa de ser humano.<\/p>\r\n<p>La drenaste emocionalmente. Estaba tan cansada de todo.<\/p>\r\n<p>Pensaba que las cosas nunca dejar\u00edan de ir cuesta abajo porque llevaban as\u00ed demasiado tiempo. Estaba tan acostumbrada a que las cosas fueran mal que, en cierto modo, se convirti\u00f3 en algo normal.<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Estaba muy asustada cuando la conoc\u00ed.<\/strong> Ten\u00eda miedo de que yo fuera como t\u00fa y le cost\u00f3 mucho dejarme entrar.<\/p>\r\n<p>Tem\u00eda que si bajaba la guardia, si volv\u00eda a abrirse, s\u00f3lo acabar\u00eda herida de nuevo.<\/p>\r\n<p>Tem\u00eda que me mostrara dulce y so\u00f1adora al principio, como t\u00fa, y que mostrara mi verdadera cara cuando fuera demasiado tarde.<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Yo tambi\u00e9n ten\u00eda miedo.<\/strong> Asustada de no ser m\u00e1s que un rebote que inconscientemente utilizar\u00eda y del que se alejar\u00eda una vez curada.<\/p>\r\n<p>Por suerte, m\u00e1s tarde supe que es incapaz de utilizar a nadie.<\/p>\r\n<p>S\u00f3lo necesitaba que la aguantara, que le diera tiempo para que cicatrizaran sus heridas. Tiempo para volver a confiar.<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>I haven\u2019t done much, it was all her.<\/strong> Pero lo poco en lo que ayud\u00e9 se hizo todo sin esfuerzo.<\/p>\r\n<p>Sin siquiera pensarlo, la puse a ella primero.<\/p>\r\n<p>La apreciaba por lo que era y nunca se me ocurrir\u00eda cambiarla.<\/p>\r\n<p>Todo me parec\u00eda bien. Sab\u00eda que ten\u00eda que estar all\u00ed pasara lo que pasara.<\/p>\r\n<p>S\u00f3lo quer\u00eda que se sintiera segura, quer\u00eda ganarme su confianza. Mis deseos se hicieron realidad.<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Ahora me quiere como nunca te quiso a ti. Le mostr\u00e9 una vida que nunca habr\u00eda tenido contigo.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>A life filled with mutual respect and understanding. A life that gets dark at times but it\u2019s easier when you have someone to share your sorrows with.<\/p>\r\n<p>Una vida tan sencilla pero tan especial y asombrosa porque nos encontramos el uno al otro contra todo pron\u00f3stico. Una vida en la que todo amor es verdadero.<\/p>\r\n<p><em><strong>Suena inc\u00f3modo cuando digo gracias por romperla porque rota es lo \u00faltimo que quer\u00eda que estuviera. Pero en cierto modo, entiendo por qu\u00e9 tuvo que pasar. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\r\n<p><em><strong>Ten\u00edas que pasar s\u00f3lo para que ella me encontrara, y lo que es m\u00e1s importante, para que se encontrara a s\u00ed misma.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\r\n<p>If it wasn\u2019t for her awful past with you, our paths might have never crossed. We would probably be stuck with the <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/si-amaras-tanto-a-la-persona-equivocada-imagina-cuanto-amarias-a-la-correcta\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">personas equivocadas<\/a> en algunas relaciones medias.<\/p>\r\n<p>We wouldn\u2019t be able to appreciate us and what we have together. We wouldn\u2019t be able to build our amazing lives.<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>As\u00ed que gracias por romperla porque en mis brazos se encontr\u00f3 a s\u00ed misma. En mis brazos encontr\u00f3 su refugio seguro, encontr\u00f3 su hogar.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><strong>por Owen Scott&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-40719\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/herway.net-24.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/herway.net-24.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/herway.net-24-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/herway.net-24-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have a bit of an unusual undying wish, to thank you for breaking her and sending her right into my arms. She is the best thing that ever happened to me and I would never have had the opportunity to have her in my life if you had known to appreciate her and treat&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":33652,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18887","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/dallin-hassard-1254399-unsplash-1024x683.jpg",1024,683,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. 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