{"id":18896,"date":"2018-05-18T07:51:40","date_gmt":"2018-05-18T07:51:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18896"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:32:44","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:32:44","slug":"la-bondad-no-era-su-debilidad-era-su-fuerza","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-bondad-no-era-su-debilidad-era-su-fuerza\/","title":{"rendered":"La bondad no era su debilidad, era su fuerza"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>La elegiste porque ten\u00eda \u00e9xito, era gregaria y emp\u00e1tica por naturaleza. Ese mismo nivel de altruismo que mostraba hacia los dem\u00e1s era el mismo que ten\u00eda hacia ti. Sab\u00edas que era especial, sab\u00edas que era \u00fanica y, sin embargo, elegiste aprovecharte de su naturaleza cari\u00f1osa.<\/p>\n<p>Your perception of her compassion and kindness as some sort of personality flaw or deficit drove you to pass up on what could have been the \u2018real deal\u2019. Instead, you settled for much less.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando est\u00e9s en tu cama, solo, estar\u00e1s <strong>embrujada<\/strong> by the innumerable acts of kindness bestowed upon you. Those \u2018no-strings-attached\u2019 acts of kindness will <strong>echo<\/strong> en tu cerebro y atormentan tu mente.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember SHE was the kind of girl who gave of herself endlessly and who expected nothing in return.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/un-dia-te-daras-cuenta-de-que-uno-siempre\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">ELLA estaba all\u00ed para ti<\/a> cuando necesitabas un hombro sobre el que llorar.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember SHE was the girl who nursed you back to health when you were sick.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember SHE was the girl who gave you late-night back rubs because she knew you needed them.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember SHE was your number one cheerleader, who constantly motivated you with her fiery spirit.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember even after working long hours and after taking care of others, SHE always made sure dinner was ready for you when you walked in the door.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember the time SHE purchased Mother\u2019s Day flowers for your mother because you could not be bothered.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember those sweet letters SHE hid in your suitcase when you traveled on business.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember HER inspiring words and speeches she shared with you prior to your job interviews.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember how SHE listened to your every word and how she would try to understand your outlandish behavior\u2014never being judgmental but instead gracious and understanding.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember SHE knew her kindness was rare in this world of selfishness\u2014she was selfless.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember how SHE told you how handsome you were and you responded by telling her she wore too much make-up.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember the many nights SHE spent crying on the bathroom floor out of frustration for you. Frustration that you could not understand what it meant to be kind.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember SHE knew that in order to make relationships work, kindness, a simple act of humanity, should be practiced daily.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember SHE was kind because she loved you.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember how <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/te-arrepentiras-de-tomar-ventaja-chica-amada\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">te aprovechaste de ella<\/a> amabilidad y la trataste como tu felpudo.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember SHE encouraged you to show kindness to others.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember her face when she told you she loved you and you said nothing in return.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember what healing powers come from kindness.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember after a long day at work you were happy to see her face and hear those words of encouragement.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember SHE was never disrespectful when responding to your negativity.<\/p>\n<p>\u00b7 You will remember that you are so misguided for seeing <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/por-favor-no-te-tomes-la-amabilidad-como-debilidad\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">su amabilidad como debilidad<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Ocurrir\u00e1 cuando te la cruces por la calle y te sonr\u00eda. Recordar\u00e1s que no eres m\u00e1s que un lamentable desperdicio de espacio por encontrar placer en menospreciar a una persona genuina como ella. Ver\u00e1s que no eres m\u00e1s que una lamentable excusa de ser humano. Ella, en cambio, ser\u00e1 m\u00e1s comprensiva y te ver\u00e1 como alguien que a\u00fan tiene potencial para ser bueno.<\/p>\n<p>Recordar\u00e1s que nunca encontrar\u00e1s otra como ella. ELLA es una raza rara en este mundo ego\u00edsta en el que vivimos hoy en d\u00eda. La gente como ella exhibe fuerza, gracia y compasi\u00f3n. Las personas como ella merecen lo MEJOR en una sociedad igualitaria. Las personas como t\u00fa, que ven su bondad y compasi\u00f3n como debilidades, no tienen ning\u00fan derecho a formar parte de su vida.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cKindness is a language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see\u201d- Mark Twain.<\/p><\/blockquote>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You chose her because she was successful, gregarious and empathetic by nature. That same level of altruism she showed toward others was the same level she had for you. You knew she was special, you knew she was unique, yet you chose to take advantage of her nurturing nature. Your perception of her compassion and&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":18897,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18896","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/dan-7kidz-634317-unsplash.jpg",800,531,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18896","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18896"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18896\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18897"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18896"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18896"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18896"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}