{"id":18919,"date":"2020-05-18T11:05:22","date_gmt":"2020-05-18T11:05:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18919"},"modified":"2022-08-10T07:09:18","modified_gmt":"2022-08-10T07:09:18","slug":"la-verdad-es-que-puedes-echar-de-menos-a-alguien-con-quien-nunca-has-salido","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-verdad-es-que-puedes-echar-de-menos-a-alguien-con-quien-nunca-has-salido\/","title":{"rendered":"La verdad es que puedes echar de menos a alguien con quien nunca saliste"},"content":{"rendered":"

Mucha gente te dir\u00e1 que necesitas tener recuerdos reales con alguien para poder echarle de menos.<\/p>\n

They will tell you that you need to share a life with someone so you can feel their absence and so you can suffer for them. They will tell you can\u2019t lose someone you never had.<\/p>\n

Y aqu\u00ed est\u00e1s, sufriendo por el tipo con el que nunca tuviste una relaci\u00f3n. <\/b><\/p>\n

Whether this is just someone you were madly in love or someone you had some kind of almost relationship with, no strings attached, or someone you were friends with benefits with\u2014the point is that you two were never exclusive and you never labeled things. But despite that, you know you miss him like hell.<\/p>\n

You feel like someone has ripped a part of your chest out and you feel like your heart has literally been broken. You can\u2019t breathe knowing that you never had him and that you never will and you can\u2019t sleep knowing that the next day will give you the same pain all over again.<\/p>\n

Entonces te preguntas si est\u00e1s loco. \u00bfQu\u00e9 te pasa? \u00bfC\u00f3mo puedes echar de menos a alguien que nunca tuviste y a alguien que nunca fue tuyo?<\/b><\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

You keep telling yourself that you don\u2019t have any memories with this guy, you don\u2019t have anything to hold on to. You keep telling yourself that you are overreacting and that this pain is not something you should be feeling.<\/p>\n

Sigues dici\u00e9ndote a ti mismo que eres un mujer madura<\/a> y que \u00e9l es cualquier cosa menos merecedor de esta cantidad de sufrimiento. Incluso te sientes avergonzada por permitirte sentir tanto dolor por alguien con quien nunca has salido.<\/p>\n

Te averg\u00fcenza compartir tus pensamientos y sentimientos con cualquier persona de tu entorno e incluso intentas ocult\u00e1rtelos a ti mismo. Crees que este dolor desaparecer\u00e1 si huyes de \u00e9l el tiempo suficiente.<\/p>\n

But time has passed by and nothing has changed. You\u2019ve tried everything but it appears that this pain only gets stronger and stronger with every day that passes by.<\/p>\n

Y ninguna de estas cosas que te repites te ayuda. Aunque tu mente te diga todo esto, tu coraz\u00f3n tiene su propio camino.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

No matter how hard you try to fight it, you know that this pain is real and you simply don\u2019t know what to do about it.<\/p>\n

Pues d\u00e9jeme decirle que no hay nada de qu\u00e9 avergonzarse. Y d\u00e9jame decirte que no est\u00e1s loca. Porque puedes sufrir por alguien que nunca fue tuyo. <\/b><\/p>\n

Y puedes echar de menos a alguien que nunca tuviste.<\/b> Although there is no scale or measurement for the amount of pain someone is feeling, it is possible to miss someone you were never with more than someone you\u2019ve had.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that you only suffer for that person. You suffer for all the hopes and dreams you had about him that are now sadly shattered. You suffer for all the \u2018what ifs\u2019 and \u2018could have beens\u2019. <\/b><\/p>\n

You miss everything you guys didn\u2019t share<\/b>\u2014<\/b>every memory he wasn\u2019t a part of and your entire future he won\u2019t be in.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Relacionado: Si echas de menos a alguien, \u00bfpuede sentirlo? S\u00ed, y he aqu\u00ed por qu\u00e9<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

You suffer because you don\u2019t have any pictures of the two of you together, because there don\u2019t exist any songs that will remind him of you, because there don\u2019t exist any places in which you two were together.<\/b><\/p>\n

Pero sobre todo, sufres porque nunca tuvisteis una oportunidad juntos.<\/b> Habr\u00eda sido m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil para ti si \u00e9l te hubiera dado una oportunidad, si hubieras podido ver qu\u00e9 se sent\u00eda al tenerle en tu vida.<\/p>\n

It would have been easier for you to know that the two of you were not meant to be or to know that things simply couldn\u2019t work out between you two. It would have been easier for you if one of you guys grew tired of each other, if you could have seen each other\u2019s flaws and imperfections.<\/p>\n

Pero de esta manera, usted sabe que tiene que <\/b>seguir adelante sin el cierre<\/b><\/a> quieres tanto porque nunca tuviste el principio en primer lugar.<\/b> Y eso es lo que m\u00e1s te duele.<\/p>\n

\"La<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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