{"id":18931,"date":"2018-05-18T12:40:48","date_gmt":"2018-05-18T12:40:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18931"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:31:08","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:31:08","slug":"7-pequenas-cosas-que-destruiran-tu-relacion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-pequenas-cosas-que-destruiran-tu-relacion\/","title":{"rendered":"7 peque\u00f1as cosas que destruir\u00e1n tu relaci\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cuando piensas en las razones por las que la mayor\u00eda de las relaciones serias y buenas se desmoronan, lo primero que te viene a la cabeza son las grandes cosas, como el enga\u00f1o o alg\u00fan tipo de abuso. Pero, \u00a1pi\u00e9nselo otra vez! \u00bfCu\u00e1ntas parejas felices conoces que hayan roto sin motivo aparente? La verdad es que muchas relaciones se rompen por peque\u00f1as cosas que todo el mundo pasa por alto, incluidos los miembros de la pareja. \u00c9stas son 7 de las peque\u00f1as cosas m\u00e1s comunes que pueden destruir tu relaci\u00f3n a menos que act\u00faes sobre ellas inmediatamente.<\/p>\n

1. No asumir responsabilidades<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

Una de las primeras cosas que pueden arruinar cualquier relaci\u00f3n es no asumir la responsabilidad de tus actos, y esto vale tanto para ti como para tu pareja. Si quieres tener una relaci\u00f3n sana y relaci\u00f3n de \u00e9xito<\/a>, you need to stop putting all the blame for everything wrong in it on the other person. Instead, it\u2019s time to accept that most of the things in the relationship, including the bad ones, are actually both partners\u2019 responsibility.<\/p>\n

2. Barrer las discusiones no resueltas<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

Every couple, including the happiest ones, will have an argument once in a while. And there is nothing wrong with resolving different issues between partners. Actually, it is what you should be doing. But what is important is to have healthy and productive arguments, which means that all issues need to be resolved and taken care of in time. If you decide to sweep unresolved arguments under the carpet, trust me\u2014those things will come and get you sooner or later and can seriously harm your relationship. And the last thing you need is to fight over something that happened a year ago, for example.<\/p>\n

3. No expresar su verdadera opini\u00f3n<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

Another thing that you may think is not that serious but could actually bring your relationship to an end is not speaking your real opinion. I know there are times when you want to spare your partner and when you don\u2019t want to hurt his feelings but you always need to make sure you have the opportunity to express your opinions, attitudes and feelings loud and clear. Because if you don\u2019t, those things will pile up inside of you and they will bring mutual dissatisfaction.<\/p>\n

4. Dar por sentada su relaci\u00f3n<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

After you\u2019ve been with one person for years, it is not uncommon for you to start considering this person as a part of your life and that you start seeing them as someone who could never leave you, no matter what. But just because it is common, it doesn\u2019t make it right. Many people, especially married couples and those in long-term relationships, have a tendency to take their relationship and their partner for granted after a while, without realizing how much harm they are actually causing. So instead of doing this, try and keep the passion and love alive at all times.<\/p>\n

5. Coqueteo<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

Many people consider cheating only to be something physical. But trust me\u2014they are all wrong. Cheating is much more and sometimes emotional affairs are even more painful than physical ones. Therefore, flirting is also a form of cheating and this is something both you and your partner should avoid doing if you are in a serious relationship, especially in front of your partner. Flirting is only a sign of disrespect and a sign that you don\u2019t think much of your relationship and is definitely something that can affect it negatively.<\/p>\n

6. No hablar de verdad<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

After a while, many couples stop talking to each other. And when I say this, I\u2019m talking about real talking here. Yes, you will talk about everyday stuff and you will talk to each other about how your day has been or you\u2019ll make some small talk. But the moment you stop sharing your dreams, hopes, ambitions and fears with your partner, you have a problem and it can be one of the razones por las que se acaba una relaci\u00f3n<\/a>. Instead of doing this, make some time in your busy schedule for just the two of you, when you\u2019ll have a chance to have deep, meaningful conversations.<\/p>\n

7. Estar demasiado relajado<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

I know we all aspire to find a partner whom we can be our complete self in front of. And it is beautiful when you find someone with whom you don\u2019t have to pretend you are someone you are not. But that doesn\u2019t mean you are allowed to stop taking care of yourself completely and that you can be way too relaxed in front of him. No matter how long you are with someone and how close you are to your partner, keep some things like clipping your toenails or shaving your legs private. This way, you\u2019ll always keep a little bit of mystery and that is what every relationship needs. <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When you think about the reasons why most serious and good relationships fall apart, the first things that come to your mind are the big ones, such as cheating or some kind of abuse. But think again! How many happy couples do you know who have broken things off without any apparent reason? The real…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":18935,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18931","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/aziz-acharki-275516-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18931","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18931"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18931\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18935"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18931"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18931"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18931"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}