{"id":18937,"date":"2018-05-18T12:50:08","date_gmt":"2018-05-18T12:50:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18937"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:30:20","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:30:20","slug":"tus-senales-contradictorias-me-hacen-cuestionarme","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/tus-senales-contradictorias-me-hacen-cuestionarme\/","title":{"rendered":"Tus se\u00f1ales contradictorias hacen que me cuestione a m\u00ed mismo"},"content":{"rendered":"

When we first met, you showed way more interest in me than I did for you. It doesn\u2019t mean that I was <\/span>jugando duro<\/span><\/a>\u2014<\/span>Simplemente soy una de esas chicas que necesita tiempo para conocer a alguien y sentirse c\u00f3moda cerca de esa persona. Y te lo dej\u00e9 muy claro<\/span>\u2014<\/span>I told you how things were and that you shouldn\u2019t expect too much from me in the beginning. Instead of walking away from me that instant, you were caring, patient and full of understanding.<\/span><\/p>\n

But not for long. Soon, you just disappeared and when I tried to see if something was wrong, you kept telling me that everything was great but that you were just too busy. At first, I believed you but later on I saw that you were avoiding me. I assumed that you had got tired of me or that you\u2019d found someone else and soon enough, I forgot about you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pero entonces, volviste a mi vida, como si nada hubiera pasado. Una vez m\u00e1s, eras ese chico dulce y cari\u00f1oso del principio de nuestra historia. Y me enamor\u00e9 de ese chico. Y lo dej\u00e9 muy claro. Y ah\u00ed fue cuando empez\u00f3 todo el drama.<\/span><\/p>\n

Fue entonces cuando empezaste a desaparecer y a volver a mi vida a tu antojo. Y la tonta de m\u00ed te llevaba de vuelta cada vez, pensando que ser\u00eda diferente.<\/b><\/p>\n

That was when you started changing. There were days when you acted like we were nothing more than friends and days when you acted like I was the woman of your dreams and the love of your life. There were also weeks when you pretended you didn\u2019t know me, where you would ignore all of my texts and phone calls, when you would live your life as if I never existed. Then, you would come back and sweet-talk me into taking you back. And the never-ending circle would continue. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

For months, I\u2019ve been trying to figure you out. I\u2019ve been trying to read your mixed signals and I\u2019ve been trying to understand what it was that you really wanted from me.<\/b> \u00bfQuer\u00edas una relaci\u00f3n? \u00bfQuer\u00edas<\/span> s\u00f3lo quiero que seamos amigos<\/span><\/a>? \u00bfQuer\u00edas una aventura sin ataduras? \u00bfO simplemente disfrutaste enga\u00f1\u00e1ndome?<\/span><\/p>\n

But then I realized that all of this wasn\u2019t important. I assume that you yourself never knew what you wanted and that you don\u2019t know it now either. But what is important is the way it affects me.<\/span><\/p>\n

Your mixed signals have caused me more misery and self-doubt than you could imagine. They brought me more tears and pain than I would ever be ready to admit. The fact is that your behavior has ruined me completely, as much as I try to run away from it. But I hope that there will come a time when I\u2019ll get enough courage to walk away from you for good, to move on with my life and to get over you completely. Because I don\u2019t blame you for most of these things. I allowed you to treat me this way and I am the one who keeps letting you into my life, aren\u2019t I?<\/span><\/p>\n

But what I can\u2019t seem to overcome is the fact that you made me question myself and everything I always was.<\/span><\/p>\n

En primer lugar, <\/span>me hiciste cuestionar mi cordura.<\/b> Have you got any idea what it\u2019s like to spend one day being sure of someone\u2019s love for you and having all your hopes shattered the very next day? There were times when I was certain I was going crazy because I didn\u2019t know what to think anymore. <\/span>Hubo momentos en los que pens\u00e9 que me estaba imaginando todo lo que pasaba entre nosotros y que s\u00f3lo estaba malinterpretando tus se\u00f1ales.<\/b> Me convenc\u00eda a m\u00ed misma de que no me ve\u00edas m\u00e1s que como una amiga y entonces aparec\u00edas dici\u00e9ndome lo mucho que me quer\u00edas y lo mucho que sent\u00edas haberme descuidado. Y en el momento en que te cre\u00eda, volv\u00edas a las andadas y todo esto ha hecho un infierno en mi cabeza.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pero sobre todo, <\/span>you\u2019ve made me question my worth. How come I wasn\u2019t enough for you to actually date me? Why wasn\u2019t I enough for you to at least give our relationship a try? Will every guy I meet in the future treat me the same? Is my body the only quality I have? What is wrong with me and why could I never keep you around me? <\/b>Estas eran todas las preguntas que me rondaban por la cabeza hasta que un d\u00eda me di cuenta de que en realidad <\/span>Yo era lo suficientemente bueno<\/span><\/a> and that you were the one who wasn\u2019t enough. None of this was my fault because I really did give you my best and I really did try everything.<\/span><\/p>\n

Y aunque ahora s\u00e9 todo esto, es algo por lo que siempre te guardar\u00e9 rencor, por hacerme pensar y sentir.<\/span> <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When we first met, you showed way more interest in me than I did for you. It doesn\u2019t mean that I was playing hard to get\u2014I am simply one of those girls who needs time to get to know someone and to be comfortable around that person. And I made that very clear to you\u2014I…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":18938,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18937","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/aziz-acharki-275516-unsplash-1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18937","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18937"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18937\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18938"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18937"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18937"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18937"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}