{"id":18961,"date":"2020-05-21T07:46:07","date_gmt":"2020-05-21T07:46:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=18961"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:24:58","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:24:58","slug":"la-triste-verdad-es-que-hay-un-monton-de-dolor-oculto-detras-de-su-sonrisa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-triste-verdad-es-que-hay-un-monton-de-dolor-oculto-detras-de-su-sonrisa\/","title":{"rendered":"La triste verdad es que hay mucho dolor oculto tras su sonrisa"},"content":{"rendered":"

Para un espectador cualquiera, e incluso para algunas personas cercanas a ella, su sonrisa parece pura felicidad.<\/p>\r\n

Les hace pensar que es la mujer viva m\u00e1s afortunada, que lo tiene f\u00e1cil y que la vida la ha tratado bien. Pero a primera vista, enga\u00f1ar\u00eda a cualquiera.<\/p>\r\n

Detr\u00e1s de su sonrisa se esconde mucho m\u00e1s.<\/p>\r\n

Si se hubieran tomado un momento para mirarla profundamente a los ojos, habr\u00edan sabido que su sonrisa es s\u00f3lo un disfraz que se pone para que nadie se d\u00e9 cuenta de c\u00f3mo roto<\/a> lo es de verdad.<\/p>\r\n

Esa sonrisa no es falsa, pero tampoco del todo sincera. Pero lo m\u00e1s importante es que esa sonrisa es la fuente de su fuerza y su coraje.<\/p>\r\n

Su sonrisa es mucho m\u00e1s de lo que parece.<\/p>\r\n

Lleva su sonrisa como un escudo.<\/strong> Intenta protegerse de todo el dolor que siente. Le abrieron el coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\r\n

Sus sue\u00f1os fueron destruidos. Su confianza dej\u00f3 de existir. Y de alg\u00fan modo encuentra la fuerza interior para levantarse cada d\u00eda, respirar y avanzar paso a paso.<\/p>\r\n

Su sonrisa es un mecanismo de defensa.<\/strong> Le da cierta distancia de todo lo malo que le ha pasado. Le da distancia de la gente que la rodea.<\/p>\r\n

\"mujer<\/p>\r\n

She doesn\u2019t want to be pitied. She doesn\u2019t want people asking her what\u2019s wrong.<\/p>\r\n

Todo va mal y est\u00e1 harta de hablar de ello. Sabe que nadie puede ayudarla salvo ella misma y el tiempo.<\/p>\r\n

Su sonrisa asusta a los que desean hacerle da\u00f1o<\/a>.<\/strong> Ella los conoce bien. Han estado en su vida y la han destrozado de tal manera que a\u00fan est\u00e1 recogiendo los pedazos.<\/p>\r\n

But she doesn\u2019t want to give them the satisfaction of knowing how much pain they have inflicted.<\/p>\r\n

She doesn\u2019t want them to enjoy her tears, thinking they have power over her. With her smile, she chose to take that power away.<\/p>\r\n

Su sonrisa guarda sus secretos.<\/strong> Nadie puede leer todas las l\u00e1grimas que derram\u00f3 la noche anterior.<\/p>\r\n

Nadie sospecha siquiera que est\u00e1 atravesando los d\u00edas m\u00e1s duros de su vida.<\/p>\r\n

Everybody gets distracted by her laugh, so they fail to notice all the sadness. She prefers it that way\u2014it\u2019s easier.<\/p>\r\n

Su sonrisa impide que se desmorone.<\/strong> It keeps her together. She has those little moments where she doesn\u2019t think about the cause of her pain.<\/p>\r\n

\"joven<\/p>\r\n

Esos momentos impagables son sagrados para ella. Consigue dejarse llevar un rato, respirar m\u00e1s tranquila, recordarse a s\u00ed misma c\u00f3mo es la felicidad aunque s\u00f3lo sea por un momento.<\/p>\r\n

Su sonrisa le da poder para curar<\/a>.<\/strong> Por encima de todo, su sonrisa es su fuerza. Le da fe en s\u00ed misma.<\/p>\r\n

Sabe que un d\u00eda seguir\u00e1 adelante. Sabe que volver\u00e1 a sonre\u00edr de felicidad.<\/p>\r\n

Sabe que probablemente ser\u00e1 la \u00fanica que note la diferencia, pero lo celebrar\u00e1 como su mayor victoria.<\/p>\r\n

Su sonrisa es una promesa que se hizo a s\u00ed misma.<\/strong> La promesa de lucir un d\u00eda esa sonrisa de pura alegr\u00eda.<\/p>\r\n

She is working on it day by day by loving herself, by learning to stand on her own two feet, by trying to let go of everyone who isn\u2019t meant to stay in her life, by welcoming new and exciting things, by being persistent, by being proud of herself, by putting herself first for a change, by being her own hero.<\/p>\r\n

So, when you see a woman who often smiles, don\u2019t jump to conclusions. You never know what is hidden behind that smile.<\/p>\r\n

Puede que haya una historia que no todo el mundo pueda entender.<\/p>\r\n

A veces lo \u00fanico que puede hacer una mujer es sonre\u00edr, contener las l\u00e1grimas, seguir adelante y esperar que un d\u00eda pase la tormenta, lo peor quede atr\u00e1s y vuelva a salir el sol.<\/p>\r\n\r\n

\"La<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

To some random bystander and even to some people close to her, her smile looks like pure happiness. It makes them think that she is the most fortunate woman alive, that she has it easy and life has treated her well. But at first glance, she would fool anyone. There is so much more hidden…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":109949,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18961","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse & trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/The-Sad-Truth-Is-There-Is-A-Ton-Of-Pain-Hidden-Behind-Her-Smile-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse & trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse & trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18961","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18961"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18961\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/109949"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18961"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18961"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18961"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}