{"id":19001,"date":"2020-08-22T06:49:44","date_gmt":"2020-08-22T06:49:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19001"},"modified":"2022-03-01T23:56:20","modified_gmt":"2022-03-01T23:56:20","slug":"te-deje-pero-en-realidad-queria-que-lucharas-por-mi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/te-deje-pero-en-realidad-queria-que-lucharas-por-mi\/","title":{"rendered":"Te dej\u00e9, pero en realidad quer\u00eda que lucharas por m\u00ed."},"content":{"rendered":"

Es probable que el hecho de que te dejara te haya conmocionado m\u00e1s que cualquier otra cosa. Estoy casi seguro de que no sufriste por m\u00ed, pero sin duda te impact\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s face it\u2014I was always el que m\u00e1s te quiso<\/a> y siempre fui yo la que impuls\u00f3 nuestra relaci\u00f3n, la que luch\u00f3 para que todo esto funcionara.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que probablemente asumiste que siempre estar\u00eda contigo y que romper contigo era algo que nunca hab\u00edas so\u00f1ado que ocurriera. Pero eso fue exactamente lo que pas\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Although for years I kept telling you some things that were bothering me regarding your behavior and regarding our relationship, I know you\u2019ve probably been wondering why I left you.<\/p>\n

You may think that I\u2019ve stopped loving you or that I\u2019ve found someone else. And although I would love for this to be true, the truth is that I\u2019ve walked away from you for all the wrong reasons.<\/p>\n

La verdad es que te dej\u00e9 porque me hac\u00edas sentir insegura y porque necesitaba aprobaci\u00f3n.<\/strong> Necesitaba la confirmaci\u00f3n de que era lo bastante buena para ti y de que realmente quer\u00edas estar conmigo.<\/p>\n

I needed approval that I wasn\u2019t imagining things all this time, that this great love between us wasn\u2019t only in my head and that it was something real and did exist. Because I needed confirmation that you really wanted to be with me and that you hadn\u2019t spent years by my side just because I was convenient.<\/p>\n

Te dej\u00e9 porque Quer\u00eda que me persiguieras<\/a> por una vez.<\/strong> Lo hice porque me cans\u00e9 de perseguirte constantemente y de ser el \u00fanico que hac\u00eda avanzar nuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Crec\u00ed cansada de sentir que mendigaba tu atenci\u00f3n<\/a> y como si te estuviera obligando a estar conmigo. Y por una vez, quer\u00eda que fueras t\u00fa quien me llamara y me mandara mensajes y esperara mi respuesta.<\/p>\n

Por una vez, quer\u00eda que fueras t\u00fa quien iniciara las citas y quien quisiera resolver todos nuestros problemas.<\/p>\n

Te dej\u00e9 porque quer\u00eda que me demostraras tu amor.<\/strong> I don\u2019t know if you will ever be fully aware of this but the fact is that I never felt that I was loved by you.<\/p>\n

No completamente, al menos. Nunca intentaste demostrarme tu amor porque asum\u00edas que era algo impl\u00edcito por el hecho de estar conmigo. Pero para m\u00ed, nunca fue suficiente.<\/p>\n

Quer\u00eda que me demostraras que te preocupabas por m\u00ed y que me quer\u00edas con todo tu coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Te dej\u00e9 porque pens\u00e9 que ver\u00edas lo que estabas perdiendo.<\/strong> Porque en el fondo, esperaba que me quisieras y que s\u00f3lo me dieras por sentado.<\/p>\n

Yo, tan tonta, supuse que te espabilar\u00edas, que despertar\u00edas en cuanto vieras que realmente me alejaba de ti. Pens\u00e9 que ver\u00edas que realmente me estabas perdiendo y que har\u00edas todo lo posible para evitarlo.<\/p>\n

La verdad es que te dej\u00e9 porque quer\u00eda que lucharas por m\u00ed.<\/strong> Porque pens\u00e9 que me considerabas por la que merece la pena luchar<\/a>. Because I hoped you considered our relationship to be something valuable and because I hoped you wouldn\u2019t let me go just like that.<\/p>\n

Pero nunca hiciste ninguna de estas cosas.<\/p>\n

And at first, I was so disappointed and sad about the fact that you didn\u2019t lift a finger to keep me by your side. By doing this or actually by not doing anything, you have only proven that all of my doubts were true all along. You\u2019ve proven that you never loved me for real, that this was what you wanted all along.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve shown me that you were apparently just waiting for me to be the one to walk away so you wouldn\u2019t be the one to blame for the two of us falling apart.<\/p>\n

Pero now I am grateful that you didn\u2019t do a thing.<\/strong> I am thankful because now I finally know where I stand and I am happy I\u2019ve made the choice to leave behind the man who never deserved my love.<\/p>\n

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Me leaving you has probably come as a shock to you more than anything else. I am almost positive that you didn\u2019t suffer for me but you were definitely shocked. Let\u2019s face it\u2014I was always the one who loved you more and I was always the one who pushed our relationship forward, the one who…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":19002,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19001","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/marvin-meyer-521451-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19001","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19001"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19001\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19002"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19001"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19001"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19001"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}