{"id":19007,"date":"2020-09-22T07:08:42","date_gmt":"2020-09-22T07:08:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19007"},"modified":"2022-02-27T02:47:52","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T02:47:52","slug":"a-cada-chica-que-sigue-rompiendo-su-propio-corazon","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/a-cada-chica-que-sigue-rompiendo-su-propio-corazon\/","title":{"rendered":"A todas las chicas que siguen rompi\u00e9ndose el coraz\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"

When you look at your love life up to now from this point of view, all you can see is pain and disappointment. You\u2019ve been hurt more than once and many men have taken advantage of you and did nothing but cause you pain.<\/p>\n

When you come to think about it, you can\u2019t even count how many times you had your heart broken. Of course, not all of these heartbreaks left a permanent mark on your soul but some of them were devastating.<\/p>\n

And you keep wondering why that is so. How come you can\u2019t find a way to leave this never-ending circle of having your heart broken and of you always being the one who gets hurt?<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 todos estos hombres te eligen para causarte dolor y romperte el coraz\u00f3n? \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 todos acaban dej\u00e1ndote y por qu\u00e9 nadie puede amarte como mereces?<\/p>\n

Bueno, odio ser yo quien te lo diga, pero eres t\u00fa quien sigue rompi\u00e9ndose su propio coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Usted es quien se enamora de todos los hombres equivocados<\/a>, el que permiti\u00f3 que siguieran caus\u00e1ndote dolor despu\u00e9s de que lo hicieran por primera vez y el que sigui\u00f3 sufriendo por ellos.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que hacerte da\u00f1o era lo \u00faltimo que quer\u00edas hacer pero, de alguna manera, eso fue exactamente lo que acabaste haciendo.<\/p>\n

Rompiste tu propio coraz\u00f3n cada vez que dej\u00f3 entrar al tipo equivocado<\/a>.<\/strong> Lo hac\u00edas cada vez que conoc\u00edas a un jugador o a un tipo que en el fondo sab\u00edas que era problem\u00e1tico.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

You did it every time you didn\u2019t follow your intuition or every time you thought you could save or change a man. I know siempre pensaste que tu amor curar\u00eda a todos esos hombres emocionalmente inaccesibles<\/a> but sometimes this simply doesn\u2019t happen.<\/p>\n

Y t\u00fa eres el que acaba herido y da\u00f1ado emocionalmente, mientras ellos siguen viviendo su vida como si nada hubiera pasado.<\/p>\n

Te romp\u00edas el coraz\u00f3n cada vez que aceptabas a alguien que sab\u00edas que te har\u00eda da\u00f1o.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You did it every time you gave a guy a second chance, thinking that time would be different. You did it every time you went back to a man who you knew wasn\u2019t right for you.<\/p>\n

You did it every time you let your abuser back in, thinking he wouldn\u2019t continue hurting you.<\/p>\n

You broke your own heart every time you forgave someone for the things you shouldn\u2019t have.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You did it every time you forgave a guy for cheating on you, for abusing you in any way or for not treating you right. I know you did it because you loved them but the harsh truth is that you\u2019d just given them a heads-up.<\/p>\n

By forgiving them, you\u2019d just shown them that their behavior was acceptable and that\u2019s why they continued acting the way they did all along.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Rompiste tu propio coraz\u00f3n cada vez que persegu\u00edas a un hombre que era miedo al compromiso<\/a>.<\/strong> Because it was obvious that you two didn\u2019t want the same things from the start.<\/p>\n

And instead of walking away and instead of doing your best to try and find someone who would give you what you needed, you allowed these men to use you for their ego and you allowed yourself to become someone\u2019s booty call, when that was the last thing you wanted.<\/p>\n

Rompiste tu propio coraz\u00f3n cada vez que pensaste que un chico cambiar\u00eda por ti.<\/strong> What you obviously didn\u2019t know is that people never change for others. People change only when they feel the need to.<\/p>\n

Instead of looking for a guy who would be compatible with you, you kept getting yourself involved with men whom you wanted to change. But sadly that never happened and all of the pain that you\u2019ve been through caused you to be the only one who changed.<\/p>\n

You broke your own heart thinking you didn\u2019t deserve better than some guy who treated you like shit<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

You did it every time you were scared of stepping out of your comfort zone, every time you were afraid of leaving a guy you knew didn\u2019t deserve you.<\/p>\n

You did it every time you missed a chance to be with someone who would love and appreciate you just because you thought you weren\u2019t good enough for them.<\/p>\n

Rompiste tu propio coraz\u00f3n cada vez que te aferraste al pasado.<\/strong> Lo hac\u00edas cada vez que reviv\u00edas todos los recuerdos que ten\u00edas en la cabeza.<\/p>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

Lo hac\u00edas cada vez que le\u00edas todos los mensajes antiguos con tu ex y cada vez que llorabas hasta quedarte dormida pensando en lo felices que podr\u00edais haber sido los dos.<\/p>\n

Lo hac\u00edas cada vez que mirabas fotos antiguas de los dos sonriendo, cada vez que consultabas su perfil de Instagram o Facebook o cada vez que pasabas por su casa o ibas a alg\u00fan sitio, con la esperanza de encontr\u00e1rtelo.<\/p>\n

You broke your own heart whenever you didn\u2019t allow yourself to move on.<\/strong> You did it because you didn\u2019t know that you were the one impedir que seas realmente feliz<\/a>la que no te permite superar a los hombres que no te trajeron m\u00e1s que dolor.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, por favor, deja de hacerte todo esto y l\u00e1nzate por fin al futuro feliz que te mereces. Cuida tu coraz\u00f3n porque eres la \u00fanica que puede sanarlo.<\/strong> <\/p>\n

\"A<\/p>\n

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