{"id":19078,"date":"2019-11-23T06:43:17","date_gmt":"2019-11-23T06:43:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19078"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:25:19","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:25:19","slug":"date-tiempo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/date-tiempo\/","title":{"rendered":"Date tiempo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Roma no se construy\u00f3 de la noche a la ma\u00f1ana y tu coraz\u00f3n tampoco sanar\u00e1 de la noche a la ma\u00f1ana. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Pero lo que importa <\/strong>al final es que Roma se construy\u00f3 con el tiempo y t\u00fa tambi\u00e9n lo superar\u00e1s con el tiempo. S\u00f3lo date un poco de tiempo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I know all about the heartbreak you\u2019re going through. I know it way too well. I know how hopeless you feel now.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que s\u00f3lo quieres meterte en tu cama bajo las s\u00e1banas y quedarte ah\u00ed el resto de tu vida.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 c\u00f3mo tu mano sigue tecleando su n\u00famero inconscientemente y c\u00f3mo has estado a punto de marcarle una docena de veces.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que sigues mirando sus redes sociales para ver si ha seguido adelante. S\u00e9 que te preguntas qu\u00e9 podr\u00edas hacer para arreglar las cosas y si \u00e9l sigue pensando en ti tanto como t\u00fa en \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

I know all about this and I\u2019m here to tell you that it\u2019s okay. It\u2019s okay to feel heartbroken. It\u2019s okay to miss him.<\/p>\n

Pero it\u2019s not okay to get back to him<\/a>. It\u2019s not okay to constantly cry over spilled milk. It\u2019s not okay to beat yourself up for being stuck. \u2018Cause you\u2019re not stuck.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re moving on, you\u2019re healing. And all this what you\u2019re feeling? It\u2019s all part of getting over him.<\/p>\n

They say that the only thing more dangerous than war is love. You\u2019ve felt this on your own skin. It feels like you went through a warzone and not a relationship.<\/p>\n

Y parece que cada bala que se dispar\u00f3 de alguna manera encontr\u00f3 su camino hacia ti.<\/p>\n

Amaste y te rompieron. Te hiciste ilusiones s\u00f3lo para verlas desvanecerse en el polvo. Planeasteis vuestro futuro juntos s\u00f3lo para ver c\u00f3mo nunca se hac\u00eda realidad. <\/strong><\/p>\n

And it hurts. All of this hurts so much. But remember: it\u2019s always the darkest before the dawn.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You wanted to keep him. You planned your future with him. You actually wanted him to stay. But if he didn\u2019t stay, then it means he was never sent your way to stay.<\/p>\n

Fue enviado a tu camino para quedarse un tiempo, ense\u00f1arte una lecci\u00f3n y, una vez hecho su trabajo, marcharse.<\/p>\n

Hubo una raz\u00f3n por la que Dios movi\u00f3 tu coraz\u00f3n hacia \u00e9l y hubo una raz\u00f3n por la que te encari\u00f1aste m\u00e1s que con cualquier otra persona en tu vida.<\/p>\n

When you look back, you\u2019ll see he played a major role in your life, but he had to be in it only temporarily so he could fulfil his duty of showing you a different way of life and then set you free.<\/p>\n

Nothing\u2014or nobody\u2014ever goes away until it teaches us what we need to know.<\/p>\n

The reason he came into your life and the mission he had is known only to you, but you won\u2019t be able to grasp it until you let the pain go.<\/p>\n

So allow yourself to feel whatever you\u2019re feeling. Cry a river. Build a bridge. And then get over it.<\/p>\n

Consu\u00e9late pensando que probablemente sea mejor dejar tu historia como est\u00e1.<\/strong> Os disteis el uno al otro todo lo que ten\u00edais que ofrecer.<\/p>\n

One got love and other got sorrow. But either way, what\u2019s done is done. The time has come to admit to yourself that the chapter of your book in which he is playing the main role is over.<\/p>\n

Ahora puedes elegir entre seguir reley\u00e9ndolo o pasar a escribir un nuevo cap\u00edtulo, o incluso un libro completamente nuevo.<\/p>\n

El tiempo lo cura todo, as\u00ed que date tiempo para curarte<\/a>. But please don\u2019t build walls. You don\u2019t need all that armor. Because what lives inside can\u2019t be broken.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Un d\u00eda, ya no anhelar\u00e1s sus brazos. Un d\u00eda, ya no le amar\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

One day, you\u2019ll no longer wish that things had gone differently because you\u2019ll finally understand you needed him and everything you lived with him took you to a better place.<\/p>\n

Your heart will finally be whole again and you\u2019ll be able to love someone who\u2019s actually meant to stay.<\/p>\n

You will build your own Rome, your own empire with someone else who\u2019s not temporary. Just give yourself some time.<\/p>\n

If you were brave enough to love someone, then you\u2019re strong enough to get over him, too.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So stay strong, you\u2019ve got this.<\/p>\n

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Rome wasn\u2019t built overnight and neither will your heart heal overnight. But what matters in the end is that Rome was built eventually and you too will get over him eventually. Just give yourself some time. I know all about the heartbreak you\u2019re going through. I know it way too well. I know how hopeless…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":19079,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29636],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19078","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-help"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29636,"label":"self help"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/dan-7kidz-621635-unsplash.jpg",800,547,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29636,"name":"self help","slug":"self-help","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29636,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","parent":22911,"count":314,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29636,"category_count":314,"category_description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","cat_name":"self help","category_nicename":"self-help","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19078","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19078"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19078\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19079"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19078"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19078"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19078"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}