{"id":19096,"date":"2020-05-23T07:59:55","date_gmt":"2020-05-23T07:59:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19096"},"modified":"2021-08-31T07:04:51","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T07:04:51","slug":"vas-a-lamentar-perder-a-una-chica-que-se-esforzo-tanto-por-ti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/vas-a-lamentar-perder-a-una-chica-que-se-esforzo-tanto-por-ti\/","title":{"rendered":"Lamentar\u00e1s perder a una chica que se esforz\u00f3 tanto por ti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/amor-incondicional-solo-cuidar-a-alguien\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Amor incondicional<\/a>. Apoyo. Afecto. Comprensi\u00f3n. Protecci\u00f3n. Consuelo.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\r\n<p>That was everything she gave you without asking you to reciprocate in the same way. You see, she thought that things like that should be as normal as breathing, that she wasn\u2019t supposed to beg for love.<\/p>\r\n<p>Pero ella s\u00ed. Tuvo que mendigar tu amor y tu atenci\u00f3n como si fuera algo dif\u00edcil de dar. Tal vez fue dif\u00edcil para ti, ya que nunca la amaste como ella te am\u00f3.<\/p>\r\n<p>So, don\u2019t try to win her back now when she is happy with someone else.<\/p>\r\n<p>Don\u2019t you dare mess up her plans for real love. You know that she deserves a better man than you and that you can\u2019t give her what she craved all the time.<\/p>\r\n<p><em><strong>As\u00ed que, ahora que la has perdido, deja que sea feliz con alguien que la quiera como se merece.<\/strong><\/em> Let her be happy with a man who won\u2019t make her question if she is good enough or worthy enough.<\/p>\r\n<p>Don\u2019t you see that sparkle in her eyes when she looks at him?<\/p>\r\n<p>You know, she used to look at your eyes in the same way. And she would probably have continued doing that if you didn\u2019t blow up every chance to be happy with her.<\/p>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89970\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/worried-couple-looking-at-each-other-at-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"pareja preocupada mir\u00e1ndose en una cafeter\u00eda\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/worried-couple-looking-at-each-other-at-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/worried-couple-looking-at-each-other-at-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/worried-couple-looking-at-each-other-at-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>So, don\u2019t blame her for giving up on you because that doesn\u2019t make her weak. That just means she was too strong for too long. That just means she was feeling with all her heart but it got broken in the end.<\/p>\r\n<p>And if you see her in the street with someone else, don\u2019t ruin her day because only one look at you will make her feel sad. She will immediately remember all the things she had to put up with just to be with you.<\/p>\r\n<p>Y sus esperanzas de ser feliz en el amor se hundir\u00e1n como un barco viejo.<\/p>\r\n<p><em><strong>Se dar\u00e1 cuenta de que a\u00fan te quiere pero que alejarse era m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil que quedarse contigo y sufrir.<\/strong> <\/em>Sabe que eras s\u00f3lo una <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/4-firma-el-acuerdo-del-hombre-toxico\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">hombre t\u00f3xico<\/a> in her life who didn\u2019t give her the love she deserved.<\/p>\r\n<p>Heck, you didn\u2019t give her anything but tears and agony. That was all she knew about when she was with you. And she just wanted to love you.<\/p>\r\n<p>She wanted you to be the man with whom she will grow old, her soulmate, her human diary and her better half. She just wanted you to fight for her, but you couldn\u2019t even do that.<\/p>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89971\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-wearing-blue-shirt-hugging-smiling-young-blonde-woman-outside.jpg\" alt=\"hombre con camisa azul abrazando sonriente a una joven rubia en el exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-wearing-blue-shirt-hugging-smiling-young-blonde-woman-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-wearing-blue-shirt-hugging-smiling-young-blonde-woman-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-wearing-blue-shirt-hugging-smiling-young-blonde-woman-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>Y ser la \u00fanica en intentarlo durante tanto tiempo s\u00f3lo la ayud\u00f3 a renunciar a ti. Porque ella quer\u00eda que la eligieras cada d\u00eda o que te fueras.<\/p>\r\n<p>And we all know what you did. You gave up on her so easily; you didn\u2019t even want to fight for her.<\/p>\r\n<p>You didn\u2019t even want to do that to make her yours one more time. That was how little she meant to you.<\/p>\r\n<p>Y quer\u00eda que le demostraras que la quieres de la forma m\u00e1s sencilla que existe. S\u00f3lo quer\u00eda que le robaras un beso sin que nadie la viera.<\/p>\r\n<p>She wanted you to take her hand when she was afraid to do something she didn\u2019t like. She wanted you to tell her that she was strong enough and that she can do anything she plans.<\/p>\r\n<p><em><strong>Pero eso era mucho pedir para ella, \u00bfno?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\r\n<p>Porque a cada intento suyo de besarte, t\u00fa le ofrec\u00edas tu mejilla en lugar de tus labios.<\/p>\r\n<p>A cada intento suyo de coger tu mano porque ten\u00eda miedo, le dec\u00edas que deb\u00eda enfrentarse a sus miedos, apartando tu mano de ella.<\/p>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89972\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/sad-couple-sitting-on-sofa-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"pareja triste sentada en el sof\u00e1 de su casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/sad-couple-sitting-on-sofa-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/sad-couple-sitting-on-sofa-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/sad-couple-sitting-on-sofa-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>With every hope that she will get the comforting words from you that she needed so much, you just told her that she shouldn\u2019t even try to do something new because it will be a failure.<\/p>\r\n<p>That\u2019s how much you believed in her, in the woman who would move mountains for you, for the one who always put you first trying to satisfy your needs instead of hers.<\/p>\r\n<p>She admired you for such a long time but now she admires another man. You disappointed her and she doesn\u2019t think that you are as awesome as she thought before. Now, she just wants to be as far as she can from you.<\/p>\r\n<p><em><strong>Porque si te acercas, puede que no se resista.<\/strong><\/em> Puede que se entregue por completo como antes.<\/p>\r\n<p>And you know that you won\u2019t be able to reciprocate any of it. You know that you will never give her the love she gave you and that you will never be crazily in love with her.<\/p>\r\n<p><em><strong>As\u00ed que, esta vez, te ruego que renuncies a ella. D\u00e9jala ser feliz con alguien que sepa apreciarla. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\r\n<p><em><strong>Deja que experimente el verdadero amor que tanto ans\u00eda. Porque eso es lo que realmente se merece. Y nada menos que eso.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89967\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/You\u2019re-Going-To-Regret-Losing-A-Girl-Who-Tried-So-Hard-For-You-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Lamentar\u00e1s perder a una chica que se esforz\u00f3 tanto por ti\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/You\u2019re-Going-To-Regret-Losing-A-Girl-Who-Tried-So-Hard-For-You-Pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/You\u2019re-Going-To-Regret-Losing-A-Girl-Who-Tried-So-Hard-For-You-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/You\u2019re-Going-To-Regret-Losing-A-Girl-Who-Tried-So-Hard-For-You-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Unconditional love. Support. Affection. Understanding. Protection. Comfort. That was everything she gave you without asking you to reciprocate in the same way. You see, she thought that things like that should be as normal as breathing, that she wasn\u2019t supposed to beg for love. But she had. She had to beg for your love and&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":89968,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19096","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/You\u2019re-Going-To-Regret-Losing-A-Girl-Who-Tried-So-Hard-For-You-1.jpg",800,531,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19096","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19096"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19096\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/89968"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19096"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19096"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19096"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}