{"id":19128,"date":"2020-05-23T12:23:49","date_gmt":"2020-05-23T12:23:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19128"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:49:22","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:49:22","slug":"5-preguntas-que-debes-hacerte-antes-de-decirle-que-le-echas-de-menos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-preguntas-que-debes-hacerte-antes-de-decirle-que-le-echas-de-menos\/","title":{"rendered":"5 preguntas que debes hacerte antes de decirle que le echas de menos"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cuando echas de menos a tu ex novio, lo \u00fanico que te molesta es si te echa de menos<\/a> atr\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Pero aunque es importante saberlo, hay algunas cosas m\u00e1s cruciales que debes resolver contigo misma antes de confesarle tus sentimientos.<\/p>\n

Aqu\u00ed tienes 5 preguntas que debes hacerte antes de decirle a tu ex que le echas de menos.<\/p>\n

\u00bfEs esto amor o ego?<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Cuando perdemos a alguien que cre\u00edamos que nos pertenec\u00eda, tendemos a sentir una gama diferente de emociones.<\/p>\n

Por supuesto, el primero suele ser el shock, seguido de un enorme dolor emocional.<\/p>\n

But something not many of us are aware of is that this pain sometimes doesn\u2019t have a lot to do with love.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, we miss a person because we got used to having them in our life or we suffer for all the future plans we won\u2019t be able to accomplish with that someone, now that they are gone.<\/p>\n

But there are also times in which our heart is not the thing which is actually hurt, even though we don\u2019t know it.<\/p>\n

There are times when there is simply too much vanity in us which prevents us from accepting that we\u2019ve lost someone we thought would always be ours.<\/p>\n

We take this person\u2019s departure as a personal defeat and our ego makes us think we would do anything just to have this person back.<\/p>\n

So one of the first questions you need to ask yourself before you decide to tell your ex you miss him is, \u201cIs this love or just my ego talking?\u201d Are you just jealous of him for moving on with his life before you did or is it that you really can\u2019t imagine spending the rest of your life without this person by your side?<\/p>\n

\u00bfRealmente extra\u00f1o todo de \u00e9l?<\/h2>\n

\"morena<\/p>\n

After the break-up happens and some time passes by, one of your brain\u2019s defense mechanisms is there to make you forget most of the bad memories you shared with this person.<\/p>\n

De este modo, al cabo de un tiempo, acabas recordando s\u00f3lo las cosas bonitas de tu relaci\u00f3n pasada y es natural que sientas nostalgia al recordar esos momentos.<\/p>\n

Pero si piensas en volver a estar juntos<\/a> with your ex, you need to be aware that your relationship wasn\u2019t all that great because otherwise the two of you wouldn\u2019t have broken things off.<\/p>\n

Therefore, you need to ask yourself whether you miss this person completely and entirely or you just miss the parts of him you liked\u2014because he is still the whole package, despite your wishes.<\/p>\n

\u00bfMerece la pena luchar por esta relaci\u00f3n?<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Otra pregunta que debes hacerte antes de decirle a tu ex que le echas de menos es si merece la pena luchar por esa relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

\u00bfEs \u00e9sta una relaci\u00f3n en la que deseas pasar a\u00f1os e incluso el resto de tu vida?<\/p>\n

\u00bfO es algo de lo que puede olvidarse en unos meses?<\/p>\n

\u00bfEs esta relaci\u00f3n y este hombre dignos de tu energ\u00eda, tiempo y paciencia y, lo que es m\u00e1s importante, son ellos dignos de ti?<\/p>\n

Estas son todas las preguntas que debes responderte de forma realista y debes estar seguro de tus respuestas antes de actuar en funci\u00f3n de tus posibles sentimientos.<\/p>\n

\u00bfEstoy preparado para pasar por todo una vez m\u00e1s?<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Si le dices a tu novio que le echas de menos y \u00e9l te responde, lo m\u00e1s probable es que volv\u00e1is a estar juntos.<\/p>\n

But it doesn\u2019t mean all of your problems will magically go away and this is one of the most important lecciones que te ense\u00f1ar\u00e1 tu ruptura<\/a>si vuelves con tu ex.<\/p>\n

Debes ser consciente de que el mismo desenlace de tu relaci\u00f3n es muy posible.<\/p>\n

The two of you are still the same people you were before and the fact that you might miss one another doesn\u2019t change that fact.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que la pregunta que tienes que hacerte antes de hacer nada con tus sentimientos es si est\u00e1s preparada para pasar por una ruptura m\u00e1s y todo lo que conllevar\u00e1, porque eso es un posible riesgo de que vuelvas con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPodemos perdonarnos?<\/h2>\n

\"Joven<\/p>\n

El hecho es que algo tuvo que provocar vuestra ruptura para que se produjera.<\/p>\n

Pero una cosa es que hay\u00e1is tenido peque\u00f1os desacuerdos y otra muy distinta que os hay\u00e1is hecho da\u00f1o mutuamente.<\/p>\n

If this is the case, what you need to ask yourself is if you and your ex are ready to forgive one another for all the pain you\u2019ve caused.<\/p>\n

Porque no tiene sentido volver a estar juntos si los dos vais a volver constantemente a las mismas cosas que os hicisteis el uno al otro.<\/p>\n

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