{"id":19131,"date":"2020-08-16T12:45:57","date_gmt":"2020-08-16T12:45:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19131"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:03:37","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:03:37","slug":"9-razones-para-intentar-una-relacion-nsa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/9-razones-para-intentar-una-relacion-nsa\/","title":{"rendered":"Una relaci\u00f3n NSA: 9 razones para intentarlo"},"content":{"rendered":"

You have probably already heard of the NSA relationship (aka No Strings Attached) and I might assume that you don\u2019t think well about this sort of arrangement. You probably consider life to be too short for \u201cmeaningless\u201d relationships, those without depth or commitment.<\/p>\n

An NSA ( No Strings Attached Relationship) is an open type of relationship. If you\u2019re in this type of relationship, you can sleep with someone else and that won\u2019t mean that you were cheating. In fact, you can be involved in an NSA relationship and never transform it into anything similar to a romantic relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Pero d\u00e9jame decirte que hay reglas que puedes seguir en una relaci\u00f3n NSA que realmente pueden hacerte feliz. Que una relaci\u00f3n NSA puede convertirse en lo mejor que te haya pasado nunca, si juegas de forma inteligente y correcta, y que hoy en d\u00eda, es perfectamente normal involucrarse en relaciones de este tipo.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 it is perfectly acceptable if you don\u2019t consider yourself the NSA relationship type. You might get too attached too fast and you don\u2019t want to risk falling in love with someone who is only temporary. Or you simply can\u2019t separate sex from your emotions, which makes you\u2019re an todo o nada <\/i> tipo de persona.<\/p>\n

Either way, the type of a relationship you\u2019re looking for and feel comfortable in is your choice only and nobody has the right to judge you for respecting and appreciating your own personal boundaries.<\/p>\n

However, before you give up on NSA relationships without even giving it a real shot, think about it realistically \u2013 about its pros and cons and about its worst and best case scenario.<\/p>\n

Of course, an NSA relationship won\u2019t make you happy unless that is what you really want. Remember that this is not a type of relationship you should enter into just to please the other side \u2013 both partners should be aware of what they\u2019re getting themselves into and both should really want this type of relationship.<\/p>\n

Any other way of being a part of an NSA relationship is unfair and it puts you in an emotionally submissive position, because you\u2019re hoping for a change that won\u2019t come, while simultaneously settling for breadcrumbs of someone\u2019s attention.<\/p>\n

However, it is completely different if you consider yourself cut out for an NSA relationship, but you avoid it because you think it\u2019s not appropriate or right.<\/p>\n

If you put away all of your prejudices and fears about what others might think of you and your morals, you\u2019ll understand that you should definitely try an NSA relationship \u2013it might just change your view on love and relationships in general.<\/p>\n

Don’t think that I am going to leave it at that, though, as I’m going to give you a few good reasons for trying out an NSA relationship:<\/p>\n

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It’s something new<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Yes, my first argument is that it’s something new. We have been consumed by the idea that only one type of relationship actually works, but that is actually far from the truth.<\/p>\n

De hecho, personas de todo el mundo viven los momentos m\u00e1s felices de su vida en relaciones poco convencionales en las que la mayor\u00eda de nosotros nunca podr\u00edamos imaginarnos. Pero nunca nos paramos a preguntarnos por qu\u00e9 nos encadenamos a esas normas sociales imaginarias.<\/p>\n

Why can\u2019t we get out of the box and fuera de nuestra zona de confort <\/a> ? \u00bfVivir la vida seg\u00fan las normas es algo que te satisface de verdad? \u00bfO tiene miedo de ser juzgado?<\/p>\n

If you look at your life up to now honestly, the truth is that you haven’t had the chance to actually engage yourself in something new like this. You might not even know it, but deep down, you probably feel like you’re more than ready for a relationship that is all about fun and both-sided pleasure.<\/p>\n

It’s good to have a break from the dating scene<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Let’s face it \u2013 modern dating isn\u2019t always all fun and games. In fact, in most cases, it can get quite tiresome and exhausting.<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, todos queremos buscar nuestro combinaci\u00f3n perfecta <\/a> . However, there are times when this search drains you both emotionally and physically to the point that you need a break from the dating pool, otherwise you\u2019re going to snap. After so many heartbreaks and so many misunderstandings, you being confused with your emotions and so on, this is finally the right time to take a break and try out something that is out of your comfort zone. You have to let your heart heal properly and, for a change, let it breathe.<\/p>\n

I know that this is best achieved by taking care of yourself, but you will get to the point where you will crave human affection, even if you haven’t healed properly. For that same reason, an NSA relationship would be the best choice.<\/p>\n

Of course, being single has its awesome sides, but the truth is that in most cases, it can keep you happy and satisfied only up to a certain point. Sooner or later, your desire for someone\u2019s presence in your life, for physical touch and intimacy, grows.<\/p>\n

This is where most people usually make mistakes \u2013 when they think that this craving for human affection is actually a desire for a serious relationship and a sign that they\u2019re ready for it. However, I\u2019m positive that you\u2019ll know better \u2013 that you\u2019ll realize that your wounded soul is still not ready for commitment and that an NSA relationship is just the thing for you.<\/p>\n

Puedes ser completamente sincero sobre lo que quieres<\/h2>\n

\"el<\/p>\n

Una de las mayores ventajas de una relaci\u00f3n sin compromiso es que tienes la oportunidad de ser completamente sincero con tu pareja en todo momento. No hay necesidad de jugar juegos mentales <\/a> or walking on eggshells around them \u2013 you speak your mind, whether they like it or not.<\/p>\n

When it comes to real relationships, there is always a small fear creeping inside you when you have to face your partner and tell him that his behavior is bothering you and what you want him to do instead. In an NSA relationship, this isn’t the case.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that you don\u2019t care about the other person\u2019s feelings and that you\u2019ll intentionally want to hurt them, but the truth is that your needs are number one priority. You want to make this experience as enjoyable as possible for you and you\u2019ll do everything in your power to make it happen.<\/p>\n

In order for this to work, you have to communicate whatever it is that you want and need from this relationship and that’s exactly why it’s so easy to be upfront and honest about what is lacking, if anything. For example, if you want more sex, you come forward and say so. And if you need more space, come clean about it.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be afraid of appearing as too desperate for wanting to set some ground rules in this relationship or for looking for your own benefit. On the contrary, your partner will only see you as mature enough to communicate your way into getting what you want and that is nothing but a plus for you.<\/p>\n

Tienes m\u00e1s tiempo para ti<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Otra raz\u00f3n por la que al menos deber\u00edas pensar en probar una relaci\u00f3n NSA es el hecho de que te da la oportunidad de centrarte m\u00e1s en ti mismo. Ahora tienes la oportunidad de redirigir hacia ti toda la energ\u00eda y el tiempo que normalmente dedicar\u00edas a tu pareja.<\/p>\n

No, don\u2019t worry, there is nothing selfish about t\u00fa primero <\/a> . The truth is that we\u2019re extremely busy people and commitment just adds to our already-busy schedule.<\/p>\n

In an NSA relationship, you have the full liberty to adjust it to suit yourself and your own time. If you\u2019ve had a busy week, no one is going to get mad at you for canceling plans you made. Or if you both have a couple of hours free and you end up meeting up, then that’s totally fine, too.<\/p>\n

NSA relationships really are flexible and leave you much more time to work on your career, spend it with your friends and family, or just relax and take a nap \u2013 whatever makes you happy. The bottom line is that you\u2019re not obligated to rearrange your schedule according to someone else\u2019s, nor should you feel guilty when you can\u2019t make room in your life for your partner. That is the beauty of an NSA relationship.<\/p>\n

You don’t have to explain yourself to others if you end it<\/h2>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

En mi opini\u00f3n, lo peor de ruptura <\/a> is when everyone starts asking me why and how we broke up, making it only more painful and harder for me to deal with it. But when you end an NSA relationship, there shouldn’t be a problem with this. No strings were attached and whenever someone asks you why you split, you just say that it wasn’t anything serious or that you were just \u201csex buddies\u2019.\u201d<\/p>\n

Besides, in most cases, your friends and family won\u2019t even know about your NSA relationship. It\u2019s not that you should be ashamed of your choices, it\u2019s just that you\u2019re aware that this person won\u2019t stick around, so what\u2019s the point of introducing them to all of your loved ones?<\/p>\n

Acabar con \u00e9l es f\u00e1cil<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Or at least it should be easy. When you set the rule that you two won’t engage emotionally in your relationship and that you are going to break it off as soon as one of you starts feeling something more, then breaking up this relationship won’t be that hard at all.<\/p>\n

I know that you two will probably make a lot of wonderful memories, but that doesn’t mean that you should feel sorry for leaving them. NSA is there to make pleasure easy.<\/p>\n

When one of you decides to call it quits, there is no resentment or grudges. No heartbreaks, no need for closure, no emotional baggage\u2026 nothing more than a clean cut.<\/p>\n

Y lo mejor es que siempre puedes seguir t\u00e9rminos amistosos con su ex <\/a> despu\u00e9s de que decid\u00e1is poner fin a vuestra relaci\u00f3n NSA. Al fin y al cabo, ninguno de los dos se ha hecho da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n

Una relaci\u00f3n NSA es mucho m\u00e1s sostenible<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Por alguna raz\u00f3n, un Relaci\u00f3n NSA <\/a> lasts longer than a normal relationship with real emotions and attachment. It’s because you have a certain set of rules at the beginning of the relationship and you both agree on physical pleasure only.<\/p>\n

Besides, when there are no emotions in the mix, you can\u2019t be as easily insulted or hurt. You obviously like this person a lot, but their opinions, words, and actions can\u2019t bother or offend you to the point where you\u2019ll break things off with them.<\/p>\n

Isn’t it amazing? You two can literally be apart for months and still f*ck when you see each other, without asking any questions or making excuses. It’s that simple.<\/p>\n

Adquirir\u00e1s una valiosa experiencia en las relaciones<\/h2>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s de todas estas ventajas de una relaci\u00f3n NSA, lo mejor de todo es sin duda el hecho de que este tipo de relaciones realmente te ense\u00f1a mucho. Te proporciona una nueva experiencia en relaci\u00f3n con el sexo opuesto y el romance, y te da la oportunidad de aprender un mont\u00f3n de valiosas lecciones sobre las relaciones.<\/p>\n

Una relaci\u00f3n NSA puede ayudarte a darte cuenta de qu\u00e9 es lo que quieres de la vida. \u00bfEst\u00e1s preparado para el compromiso? \u00bfO prefieres permanecer soltero <\/a> ?<\/p>\n

What type of person can you picture beside you? What is it that you want and don\u2019t want from a relationship? These are all things you\u2019ll probably be clueless about in the beginning of a NSA relationship, but I assure you that, once you end it, you\u2019ll have all the answers figured out.<\/p>\n

Tendr\u00e1s todas las ventajas de una relaci\u00f3n sin ning\u00fan inconveniente.<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

What is especially great about an NSA relationship is that it\u2019s a romance and a relationship minus the hassle of problemas de pareja <\/a> . Sounds like a fairytale, right? Well, because it can be \u2013 if you just play your cards right.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re in an NSA relationship, you have someone to cuddle with, someone to go out on dates with, and someone to sleep with. However, you don\u2019t have someone nagging at you for not giving them enough attention or being jealous because you\u2019ve heard from your ex.<\/p>\n

B\u00e1sicamente, una relaci\u00f3n NSA es una situaci\u00f3n en la que todos ganan. S\u00f3lo tienes que ser lo suficientemente inteligente como para sacarle el m\u00e1ximo partido.<\/p>\n

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