{"id":19155,"date":"2020-08-28T11:01:26","date_gmt":"2020-08-28T11:01:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19155"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:35:18","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:35:18","slug":"5-maneras-eficaces-de-pasar-del-flirteo-a-las-citas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-maneras-eficaces-de-pasar-del-flirteo-a-las-citas\/","title":{"rendered":"5 maneras eficaces de pasar del flirteo a la cita"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>So you\u2019ve been playing <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/10-juegos-coquetos-jugar-crush\/\">juegos coquetos<\/a> with someone for a while now and in this process, you\u2019ve developed some deeper feelings for them.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t mean you love this person but you would definitely like to give it a try with them and here is exactly how to do it effectively.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Decide qu\u00e9 es lo que quieres<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-108506 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/beautiful-brunette-and-man-drinking-at-the-bar.jpg\" alt=\"hermosa morena y hombre bebiendo en el bar\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/beautiful-brunette-and-man-drinking-at-the-bar.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/beautiful-brunette-and-man-drinking-at-the-bar-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/beautiful-brunette-and-man-drinking-at-the-bar-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/beautiful-brunette-and-man-drinking-at-the-bar-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/beautiful-brunette-and-man-drinking-at-the-bar-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/beautiful-brunette-and-man-drinking-at-the-bar-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/beautiful-brunette-and-man-drinking-at-the-bar-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/beautiful-brunette-and-man-drinking-at-the-bar-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Cuando te encuentras en este tipo de situaci\u00f3n, lo primero que tienes que hacer es averiguar qu\u00e9 es lo que realmente quieres.<\/p>\n<p>Do you actually enjoy this flirting situation that won\u2019t move on to something else and is it possible that you are the one sabotaging this potential relationship because you are happy enough with the situation the way it is?<\/p>\n<p>Si esto es cierto, no hay nada malo en ello porque es posible que subconscientemente sepas que ahora no est\u00e1s preparado para una relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Pero si est\u00e1s seguro de que quieres que ese flirteo se convierta en algo m\u00e1s, tienes que decidir qu\u00e9 es eso m\u00e1s que quieres.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfQuieres una relaci\u00f3n de verdad o s\u00f3lo esperas que sea una aventura casual?<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Tenga confianza<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-108507 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/in-the-gym-a-beautiful-woman-and-a-handsome-young-man-are-flirting.jpg\" alt=\"en el gimnasio, una bella mujer y un joven apuesto coquetean\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/in-the-gym-a-beautiful-woman-and-a-handsome-young-man-are-flirting.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/in-the-gym-a-beautiful-woman-and-a-handsome-young-man-are-flirting-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/in-the-gym-a-beautiful-woman-and-a-handsome-young-man-are-flirting-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/in-the-gym-a-beautiful-woman-and-a-handsome-young-man-are-flirting-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/in-the-gym-a-beautiful-woman-and-a-handsome-young-man-are-flirting-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/in-the-gym-a-beautiful-woman-and-a-handsome-young-man-are-flirting-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/in-the-gym-a-beautiful-woman-and-a-handsome-young-man-are-flirting-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/in-the-gym-a-beautiful-woman-and-a-handsome-young-man-are-flirting-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>After you\u2019ve figured out what it is that you want, the next step is to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/50-frases-inspiradoras-sobre-la-autoestima-que-aumentaran-la-confianza-en-uno-mismo-cada-dia\/\">aumentar su propia confianza<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Tienes que demostrar que no tienes dudas sobre qu\u00e9 y a qui\u00e9n quieres y, lo que es a\u00fan m\u00e1s importante, tienes que demostrar que no tienes miedo de conseguirlo.<\/p>\n<p>But in order for this method to be completely effective, you can\u2019t just try to convince the other person of this\u2014you need to believe it yourself.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s time to stop comparing yourself to other people and to stop being afraid or ashamed of making the first move and of trying to take this, what is going on between you two, to the next level.<\/p>\n<p>I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014there is always the possibility that you\u2019ll be rejected and that you\u2019ll end up disappointed but you\u2019ll never know what might happen until you try, will you?<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Deja que tu lenguaje corporal haga el trabajo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-108508 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/the-young-couple-hugs-and-flirts-outside.jpg\" alt=\"la joven pareja se abraza y coquetea fuera\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/the-young-couple-hugs-and-flirts-outside.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/the-young-couple-hugs-and-flirts-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/the-young-couple-hugs-and-flirts-outside-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/the-young-couple-hugs-and-flirts-outside-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/the-young-couple-hugs-and-flirts-outside-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/the-young-couple-hugs-and-flirts-outside-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/the-young-couple-hugs-and-flirts-outside-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/the-young-couple-hugs-and-flirts-outside-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Lo que quiz\u00e1 no sepa es que nuestro <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/9-signos-de-lenguaje-corporal-chica-que\/\">signos del lenguaje corporal<\/a> a menudo dicen a los dem\u00e1s mucho m\u00e1s que nuestra propia comunicaci\u00f3n verbal. As\u00ed que es algo que sin duda debes aprovechar.<\/p>\n<p>That means that you can\u2019t just tell this person you like them\u2014you have to show it to them first.<\/p>\n<p>Make sure you are around them and use every opportunity to touch them. When you talk to this person, it\u2019s OK to touch their hand or to sit very close to them.<\/p>\n<p>Make sure to always have eye contact with them and don\u2019t be ashamed to look them deep in their eyes. And of course, never forget to smile.<\/p>\n<p>This doesn\u2019t mean that you should always be next to this person nor that you should suffocate them, because that will make you appear as too clingy and needy.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Tiempo a solas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-108509 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/the-attractive-couple-hugs-passionately-and-looks-at-each-other-in-the-house.jpg\" alt=\"la atractiva pareja se abraza apasionadamente y se mira en la casa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/the-attractive-couple-hugs-passionately-and-looks-at-each-other-in-the-house.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/the-attractive-couple-hugs-passionately-and-looks-at-each-other-in-the-house-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/the-attractive-couple-hugs-passionately-and-looks-at-each-other-in-the-house-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/the-attractive-couple-hugs-passionately-and-looks-at-each-other-in-the-house-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/the-attractive-couple-hugs-passionately-and-looks-at-each-other-in-the-house-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/the-attractive-couple-hugs-passionately-and-looks-at-each-other-in-the-house-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/the-attractive-couple-hugs-passionately-and-looks-at-each-other-in-the-house-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/the-attractive-couple-hugs-passionately-and-looks-at-each-other-in-the-house-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Cuando quieras que tu flirteo pase al siguiente nivel, nunca podr\u00e1s hacerlo cuando t\u00fa y el objeto de tu afecto est\u00e9is con mucha gente. Por lo tanto, lo que tienes que hacer es tener un poco de tiempo de uno-a-uno con esta persona.<\/p>\n<p>Puedes simplemente pedirles que queden, sin describirlo como una cita real. Si te da verg\u00fcenza hacerlo directamente, siempre puedes buscar una excusa para pasar un rato con esa persona.<\/p>\n<p>Si los dos sois compa\u00f1eros de trabajo, siempre puedes pedirles que te ayuden con alguna cosa del trabajo fuera del horario laboral o algo as\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Haz lo que sea necesario para pasar tiempo a solas con esa persona, porque s\u00f3lo as\u00ed tendr\u00e1s la oportunidad de empezar a salir con ella.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Sea directo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-108510 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-smiling-brunette-and-a-man-flirt.jpg\" alt=\"una morena sonriente y un hombre coquetean\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-smiling-brunette-and-a-man-flirt.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-smiling-brunette-and-a-man-flirt-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-smiling-brunette-and-a-man-flirt-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-smiling-brunette-and-a-man-flirt-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-smiling-brunette-and-a-man-flirt-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-smiling-brunette-and-a-man-flirt-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-smiling-brunette-and-a-man-flirt-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/a-smiling-brunette-and-a-man-flirt-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019ve accomplished everything above, it\u2019s time for the next and the most important step. It\u2019s time for you to be as direct as possible, without any mixed signals or messages.<\/p>\n<p>No estoy diciendo que tengas que decirle a esa persona que la quieres ni que tengas que darle mucha importancia, haciendo grandes gestos rom\u00e1nticos, porque eso s\u00f3lo conseguir\u00e1 ahuyentarla. Basta con decirle que te gusta o pedirle una cita.<\/p>\n<p>You can also try to kiss them when the moment is right\u2014whatever makes your intentions obvious and clear.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-108511 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/5-Effective-Ways-To-Go-From-Flirting-To-Dating-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"5 maneras eficaces de pasar del flirteo a la cita\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/5-Effective-Ways-To-Go-From-Flirting-To-Dating-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/5-Effective-Ways-To-Go-From-Flirting-To-Dating-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/5-Effective-Ways-To-Go-From-Flirting-To-Dating-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/5-Effective-Ways-To-Go-From-Flirting-To-Dating-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/5-Effective-Ways-To-Go-From-Flirting-To-Dating-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So you\u2019ve been playing flirty games with someone for a while now and in this process, you\u2019ve developed some deeper feelings for them. It doesn\u2019t mean you love this person but you would definitely like to give it a try with them and here is exactly how to do it effectively. Decide what it is&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":108505,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19155","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/5-Effective-Ways-To-Go-From-Flirting-To-Dating-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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