{"id":19163,"date":"2021-02-05T10:52:08","date_gmt":"2021-02-05T10:52:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19163"},"modified":"2022-02-28T02:10:59","modified_gmt":"2022-02-28T02:10:59","slug":"7-cosas-que-puedes-hacer-cuando-empieza-a-darte-por-sentada","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-cosas-que-puedes-hacer-cuando-empieza-a-darte-por-sentada\/","title":{"rendered":"Me da por sentada: 9 razones (y qu\u00e9 hacer al respecto)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><i>Me da por sentado.<\/i> Sin duda, \u00e9sta es una de las frases m\u00e1s populares que circulan desde hace tiempo.<\/p>\n<p>Is he seriously taking you for granted? That\u2019s a serious accusation to make, and you shouldn\u2019t make it without the solid proof he is really doing that.<\/p>\n<p>Lamentablemente, poner a alguien en el Plan B ocurre mucho m\u00e1s en las relaciones modernas. Quieras admitirlo o no, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/el-sindrome-de-la-hierba-mas-verde\/\">el s\u00edndrome de la hierba m\u00e1s verde<\/a> se ha convertido en el mayor destructor de relaciones.<\/p>\n<p>Esa es una de las razones por las que dar por sentado a alguien se cuela en una relaci\u00f3n que antes era feliz.<\/p>\n<p>Para ser realmente positiva en tus sospechas, primero, tienes que ser objetiva, y tratar de no involucrar demasiadas emociones en la evaluaci\u00f3n de si \u00e9l es <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/prioridad-no-opcion\/\">tratarte como una opci\u00f3n en lugar de como una prioridad<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Besides looking for signs he&#8217;s taking you for granted, you need to understand what exactly means when someone takes you for granted, why they are doing that, and what you can do about it. We&#8217;ll cover all that (and more) below.<\/p>\n<h2>Me da por sentado Significado<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-129135\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/unhappy-couple-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"pareja infeliz en casa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/unhappy-couple-at-home.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/unhappy-couple-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/unhappy-couple-at-home-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/unhappy-couple-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/unhappy-couple-at-home-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/unhappy-couple-at-home-320x214.jpg 320w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/unhappy-couple-at-home-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/unhappy-couple-at-home-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/unhappy-couple-at-home-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/unhappy-couple-at-home-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/unhappy-couple-at-home-800x534.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/unhappy-couple-at-home-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/unhappy-couple-at-home-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If he takes you for granted, it basically means that he doesn&#8217;t appreciate you enough. It implies a lack of gratitude where he&#8217;s taking advantage of you or undervalues you.<\/p>\n<p>You know he&#8217;s not appreciating you enough if he doesn&#8217;t reciprocate, doesn&#8217;t acknowledge the things you do for him, and <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/10-senales-de-que-no-se-esfuerza-lo-suficiente-en-vuestra-relacion\/\">isn&#8217;t putting enough effort<\/a> para estar a tu lado cuando lo necesites.<\/p>\n<p>You know he&#8217;s taking you for granted when you feel like you&#8217;re the only one going out of your way to make things work in a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Todas las peque\u00f1as y grandes cosas que haces por \u00e9l a menudo pasan desapercibidas y sientes que tu presencia est\u00e1 a la sombra de su ego\u00edsmo.<\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 los hombres te dan por sentada?<\/h2>\n<p>Una de las principales razones por las que los chicos te dan por sentada es cuando empiezan a ESPERAR que te comportes de una determinada manera. Se acostumbran a recibir un trato real sin dar nada a cambio.<\/p>\n<p>Estas son las razones m\u00e1s comunes por las que los chicos te dan por sentada:<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">You have troubles saying &#8216;no&#8217;<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79074 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shallow-focus-of-thoughtful-woman-sitting-next-to-man-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"enfoque poco profundo de una mujer pensativa sentada junto a un hombre en su casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shallow-focus-of-thoughtful-woman-sitting-next-to-man-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shallow-focus-of-thoughtful-woman-sitting-next-to-man-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shallow-focus-of-thoughtful-woman-sitting-next-to-man-at-home-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>\u00bfSiente que preferir\u00eda asumir m\u00e1s tareas y <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/psychology\/asuma-la-responsabilidad-de-sus-actos\/\">responsabilidades<\/a> than say &#8216;no&#8217; to your partner or other people? Then you officially have trouble saying &#8216;no&#8217; and you&#8217;re officially going out of your way to please others at your own expense.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">You&#8217;re a people pleaser<\/h3>\n<p>You just can&#8217;t be rude to others no matter how rude they are to you because <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/8-senales-de-que-te-gusta-agradar-a-la-gente\/\">you&#8217;re a legit people pleaser<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re too sweet and nice which guys immediately recognize and then, through time, decide to &#8216;turn your sweetness against you&#8217; aka take you for granted.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Los dem\u00e1s pueden predecir tu comportamiento<\/h3>\n<p>Predictable behavior can be easily manipulated by others. If you&#8217;re predictable, it means others can know your next few moves in advance.<\/p>\n<p>Esto les facilita manipularte y conseguir que hagas lo que ellos quieren. Este tipo de manipulaciones son sutiles, por lo que es posible que ni siquiera seas consciente de ellas.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Te cuesta enfrentarte a la gente<\/h3>\n<p>You have trouble confronting issues with others (be it your partner or someone else). If you don&#8217;t tell them how their actions make you feel, you end up unhappy and they keep <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/carta-que-el-hombre-dio-por-buena\/\">d\u00e1ndote por sentado<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>They do that because they&#8217;re convinced that everything is fine and you&#8217;re okay with their behavior. Well, are you?<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">You&#8217;re not being honest with yourself<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79073 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shallow-focus-of-thoughtful-man-sitting-next-to-woman-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"enfoque poco profundo de un hombre pensativo sentado junto a una mujer en su casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shallow-focus-of-thoughtful-man-sitting-next-to-woman-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shallow-focus-of-thoughtful-man-sitting-next-to-woman-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/shallow-focus-of-thoughtful-man-sitting-next-to-woman-at-home-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>En lugar de admitirte a ti mismo la famosa frase, <i>Me da por sentado, <\/i>excusas su comportamiento.<\/p>\n<p>En lugar de preguntarse <i>Espera, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 me da por sentado en el <\/i><i>primer puesto<\/i><i>? <\/i>you turn a blind eye thinking that you&#8217;re overreacting and it&#8217;s all in your head.<\/p>\n<p>Justificar su comportamiento de mierda se ha convertido en la nueva normalidad.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Buscas constantemente la aprobaci\u00f3n de los dem\u00e1s<\/h3>\n<p>Permites que los dem\u00e1s <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/comportamiento-controlador\/\">controlarte y manipularte<\/a> because you&#8217;re determined to get their approval at any cost. You ask for their approval on almost everything you do and that&#8217;s how you lose yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando empiezan a darte por sentado, a menudo no te das cuenta porque ya has perdido el sentido com\u00fan.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Tiene pocas expectativas<\/h3>\n<p>Te has acostumbrado tanto a que los dem\u00e1s te decepcionen que tus expectativas hacia ellos se han vuelto realmente bajas.<\/p>\n<p>You give too much from yourself and receive little or nothing at all but you don&#8217;t <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/el-malvado-arte-de-echar-la-culpa-a-otros\/\">culpar a otros<\/a> por eso. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9?<\/p>\n<p>Because you have low expectations and you don&#8217;t expect others to treat you the way you treat them.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">You&#8217;re scared<\/h3>\n<p>You&#8217;re scared of people who act bossy, confrontational or are too loud. Because of that, you refuse to confront them.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;d rather do as they say and accept what they say than ever go against them. They know that, too, and that&#8217;s why they decide to take you for granted.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Das m\u00e1s de lo que recibes<\/h3>\n<p>Somehow, you&#8217;re always the one who gives too much without even realizing that you&#8217;re doing that.<\/p>\n<p>You never question the matter of reciprocity in a relationship because you&#8217;re used to being the one who gives more than they get back.<\/p>\n<p>Aunque decida <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/her-and-him\/por-que-los-chicos-se-alejan-antes-de-comprometerse\/\">alejarse<\/a>, they&#8217;d be upset, accusing you of being the one who changed for the worse.<\/p>\n<h2>He Takes Me For Granted: 7 Clear Signs He&#8217;s Taking You For Granted<\/h2>\n<p>Cuando me pregunt\u00e9 por primera vez <i>\u00bfMe est\u00e1 dando por sentado?<\/i> Estaba dispuesta a pasarme un a\u00f1o buscando se\u00f1ales de que lo hiciera. Para mi asombro, estas se\u00f1ales estaban justo delante de m\u00ed todo este tiempo, pero decid\u00ed pasarlas por alto.<\/p>\n<p>As always, it&#8217;s best to learn from other people&#8217;s mistakes, so here are the signs that will open your eyes by showing his true nature:<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Dej\u00f3 de tratarte con respeto<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79078 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/thoughtful-couple-sitting-next-to-each-other-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"pareja reflexiva sentada en casa uno al lado del otro\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/thoughtful-couple-sitting-next-to-each-other-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/thoughtful-couple-sitting-next-to-each-other-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/thoughtful-couple-sitting-next-to-each-other-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Adem\u00e1s del amor, el respeto es algo que nunca debe faltar en una relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Your partner has to acknowledge you even for the small things you\u2019ve done. It\u2019s important that you know he appreciates you and your effort.<\/p>\n<p>Once he stops doing all that, consider it as not a good sign. It\u2019s the beginning of \u2018\u2019<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/deje-de-ser-demasiado-amable-porque-estaba-cansada-de-que-me-dieran-por-sentada\/\">d\u00e1ndote por sentado<\/a>\u2019\u2019 journey you don\u2019t want to be on.<\/p>\n<p>If he\u2019s making plans without you knowing, then you have a big red warning sign that something is seriously wrong.<\/p>\n<p>Hacer planes solo en lugar de involucrarte significa que ni siquiera le interesa si puedes participar o no en esos planes.<\/p>\n<p>What you want in this case is not an option. Ask any relationship expert if this behavior is worthy of putting up with, they will all give you the same answer\u2014you&#8217;re being taken for granted and something needs to be changed.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">He doesn\u2019t care what you think<\/h3>\n<p>Experimentar este sentimiento puede afectar seriamente a su autoestima. Sus reacciones indiferentes <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/el-equivocado-te-hara-sentir-inutil\/\">te hacen sentir insignificante<\/a> y sin importancia.<\/p>\n<p>Nadie deber\u00eda sentirse as\u00ed, sobre todo en una relaci\u00f3n en la que tu pareja deber\u00eda hacerte sentir especial y querido.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s not making you feel anything except shame and a sense of less worth. If your significant other is faced with difficult choices in life, it\u2019s normal and natural for them to turn to you for advice.<\/p>\n<p>Tu novio ha dejado de hacerte part\u00edcipe de los grandes momentos y decisiones de la vida.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s because you don\u2019t matter to him as much as you used to. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/tipos-de-intimidad\/\">Relaciones sanas<\/a> implican amor incondicional y, lo que es m\u00e1s importante, confianza. Has perdido la confianza y quiz\u00e1 incluso el amor.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Dej\u00f3 de intentarlo a tu alrededor<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79072 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-doesnt-want-to-talk-with-her-girlfriend-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"el hombre no quiere hablar con su novia en casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-doesnt-want-to-talk-with-her-girlfriend-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-doesnt-want-to-talk-with-her-girlfriend-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-doesnt-want-to-talk-with-her-girlfriend-at-home-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>He\u2019s not taking you to nice dates anymore. He\u2019s not even trying to do anything romantic anymore. I don&#8217;t want to scare you but these are huge red flags in a romantic relationship.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/lee-esto-si-tu-relacion-a-largo-plazo-esta-estancada\/\">Su relaci\u00f3n est\u00e1 estancada<\/a>, and he doesn\u2019t seem to be bothered by it.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s even stopped trying to look good for you. I\u2019m not saying he should groom himself all the time to look like a model when he\u2019s with you, don\u2019t get me wrong.<\/p>\n<p>He should be relaxed around you, but isn\u2019t there a line between being relaxed and not giving a damn?<\/p>\n<p>I mean if boxers are the only thing he ever wears around you and you\u2019re home all the time\u2026is that really nice of him to do?<\/p>\n<p>Or is it the result of a lack of trying? I\u2019ll let you be the judge of that.<\/p>\n<p>Pi\u00e9nsalo bien: \u00bftu relaci\u00f3n duradera ha entrado en crisis y necesitas cambiar algo cuanto antes o es que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/10-senales-de-que-ya-no-le-gustas\/\">he\u2019s just not into you anymore<\/a>, so he\u2019s taking you for granted?<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">He doesn\u2019t listen when you talk<\/h3>\n<p>When you talk, he does his own thing. He is not paying attention to anything you say, and the reason is more than simple. He doesn\u2019t care about you, things that you say, or things that you think about.<\/p>\n<p>Tu comunicaci\u00f3n va hacia el sur, lo cual es otra <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/15-red-flags-screaming-leave-relationship\/\">bandera roja en una relaci\u00f3n<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Como seres humanos, tenemos la necesidad de conectar con los dem\u00e1s a muchos niveles. Por eso, cuando la comunicaci\u00f3n deja de existir, sabes que tu relaci\u00f3n se enfrenta a serios problemas.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Sus amigos son m\u00e1s importantes que t\u00fa<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79071 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/group-of-male-friends-taking-a-selfie.jpg\" alt=\"grupo de amigos tom\u00e1ndose un selfie\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/group-of-male-friends-taking-a-selfie.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/group-of-male-friends-taking-a-selfie-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/group-of-male-friends-taking-a-selfie-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>I\u2019m not saying he should be by your side and hang out with you all the time but if there ever comes a point in your relationship where he chooses to spend time with his friends rather than you, he\u2019s most definitely taking you for granted.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t blow this out of proportion. If he rejects you once to go with his friends, it doesn\u2019t have to mean <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/carta-chico-dejo-de-importarle-chica-amada\/\">dej\u00f3 de importarle<\/a> sobre ti. Tienes que dejarle tener su vida social fuera de vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Pero si esto empieza a ocurrir con regularidad, entonces deber\u00eda empezar a preocuparse. Lo primero que nos viene a la mente es que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/7-signs-hes-losing-interest-deal\/\">est\u00e1 perdiendo lentamente el inter\u00e9s en ti<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Evita la intimidad<\/h3>\n<p>\u00bfCu\u00e1ndo fue la \u00faltima vez que intimaste? \u00bfLo recuerdas? La falta de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/cinco-datos-importantes-que-debe-conocer-sobre-la-intimidad-fisica-en-el-matrimonio\/\">intimidad f\u00edsica<\/a> es sin duda una de las se\u00f1ales alarmantes de que tu relaci\u00f3n se enfrenta a problemas.<\/p>\n<p>Passion is one of the things that should always be present in a relationship, no matter what. If you don\u2019t attract each other physically, that relationship is doomed to fail sooner or later.<\/p>\n<p>Lo mismo ocurre con la intimidad emocional. Debes poder hablar libremente de tus sentimientos con tu pareja.<\/p>\n<p>Being vulnerable is not something you should be ashamed of, especially when you\u2019re with your loved one. He has to give you emotional support and ensure you feel safe and protected when he\u2019s around.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">He hasn\u2019t introduced you to his family<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-49312\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/7-Signs-Hes-Taking-You-For-Granted-And-7-Things-You-Can-Do-About-It1.jpg\" alt=\"7 se\u00f1ales de que te da por perdida (y 7 cosas que puedes hacer al respecto)\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/7-Signs-Hes-Taking-You-For-Granted-And-7-Things-You-Can-Do-About-It1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/7-Signs-Hes-Taking-You-For-Granted-And-7-Things-You-Can-Do-About-It1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/7-Signs-Hes-Taking-You-For-Granted-And-7-Things-You-Can-Do-About-It1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>My family is everything to me, as I\u2019m sure yours to you, too. He is no exception either.<\/p>\n<p>Wouldn\u2019t it be completely normal for him to introduce you to his loved ones if he was <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/esta-jugando-conmigo\/\">serio contigo<\/a>? I would do it, and you would do the same. Why hasn\u2019t he done it yet?<\/p>\n<p>The answer is not so pleasing. It could be that he&#8217;s not interested in anything serious with you or he&#8217;s simply taking you for granted.<\/p>\n<p>Estos problemas son bastante graves, y no se me ocurre ninguna soluci\u00f3n f\u00e1cil.<\/p>\n<p>Although you can always try to talk to your boyfriend using complete honesty to try to solve what\u2019s holding him down in your relationship.<\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfQu\u00e9 hacer cuando un hombre te da por perdida?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79077 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside.jpg\" alt=\"mujer pensativa pone la cabeza en la espalda del hombre mientras est\u00e1 de pie fuera\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>When a man takes you for granted, it&#8217;s best to give him the taste of his own medicine if you want to teach him a valuable lesson.<\/p>\n<p>Siempre hay opciones que puedes considerar. Cuando te da por sentado, puedes ignorarlo y centrarte en <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/mejor-vida-disfrutar-de-las-pequenas-cosas\/\">vivir tu mejor vida<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>You can cut off contact for good. At least, you\u2019re getting the satisfaction of winning and walking away from him, instead of him from you.<\/p>\n<p>But, there are other options, too, which might intrigue him and get him hooked back\u2026<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Divi\u00e9rtete solo<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-129138\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/happy-woman-smiling-on-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"mujer feliz sonriendo en la calle\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/happy-woman-smiling-on-the-street.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/happy-woman-smiling-on-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/happy-woman-smiling-on-the-street-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/happy-woman-smiling-on-the-street-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/happy-woman-smiling-on-the-street-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/happy-woman-smiling-on-the-street-320x214.jpg 320w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/happy-woman-smiling-on-the-street-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/happy-woman-smiling-on-the-street-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/happy-woman-smiling-on-the-street-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/happy-woman-smiling-on-the-street-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/happy-woman-smiling-on-the-street-800x534.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/happy-woman-smiling-on-the-street-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/happy-woman-smiling-on-the-street-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Me da por sentado. \u00bfY qu\u00e9? Todav\u00eda puedes divertirte solo y centrarte en tu propia vida, \u00bfverdad?<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t even bother to ask him what he\u2019s doing that night if you know that he\u2019s going to have some lame excuse for not going out with you.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, go out on a date with yourself or find new hobbies. Do something that you will enjoy doing even when you know that he wouldn\u2019t enjoy it with you.<\/p>\n<p>There are so many things you stopped doing since you two started your relationship, so it&#8217;s time to do those things right now.<\/p>\n<p>Oh, and don\u2019t forget to take a picture and post it somewhere he will see it. Let him ask himself why you didn\u2019t even invite him.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t answer his messages right away<\/h3>\n<p>Women have this urge to answer messages right away. I mean it\u2019s polite, and that\u2019s how it\u2019s supposed to be done if you have your phone by your hand.<\/p>\n<p>But now that he\u2019s taking you for granted and he doesn\u2019t know how hard it is for you when you have to wait a whole day before he answers, ignore the urge to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/8-razones-legitimas-para-no-contestarle-nunca-mas\/\">env\u00edale un mensaje<\/a>. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/12-razones-por-las-que-nunca-te-manda-un-mensaje-primero-pero-siempre-responde-cuando-le-mandas-un-mensaje\/\">Don&#8217;t text him and he will text you.<\/a><\/p>\n<p><i>Recupere su <\/i><i>amor propio<\/i><i>. Make him feel your pain. Don\u2019t answer him.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>You could even leave him on \u2018read\u2019.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">V\u00edstete para impresionar<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79064 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-looking-at-glass-of-beer.jpg\" alt=\"hombre mirando un vaso de cerveza\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-looking-at-glass-of-beer.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-looking-at-glass-of-beer-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-looking-at-glass-of-beer-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>No importa la frecuencia con la que te vistas bien, \u00a1dupl\u00edcala! V\u00edstete tan bien que a \u00e9l se le caiga la baba cada vez que pases.<\/p>\n<p>Let him see what he\u2019s losing. A little red lipstick and mascara will make you feel good about yourself, too.<\/p>\n<p>Needless to say that men are visual creatures, so if he sees you that hot, he\u2019ll instantly come after you. But don\u2019t let him touch you.<\/p>\n<p>El contacto f\u00edsico est\u00e1 prohibido hasta que empiece... <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/7-signos-a-prueba-de-balas-ya-no-aprecia\/\">apreciando su presencia<\/a> en su vida de nuevo.<\/p>\n<p>I know that this sounds like manipulation but if he doesn\u2019t see what he\u2019s losing, he won\u2019t realize what\u2019s going on and he won\u2019t be able to \u2018read the signals\u2019 you\u2019re trying to send him.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Sal con tus amigos<\/h3>\n<p>\u00bfTu novio te da por sentada? No hay problema.<\/p>\n<p>Salir de fiesta, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/questions-and-games\/bff-talk\/friends-bucket-list-13-retos-que-tienes-que-hacer-con-tu-mejor-amigo\/\">divi\u00e9rtete con tus mejores amigos<\/a>compa\u00f1eros de trabajo, de todo. Hazle ver que eres capaz de tener una vida maravillosa sin \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>Plan an all-girls weekend for your birthday, and don\u2019t allow him to join the party.<\/p>\n<p>Let him know that he\u2019s not invited. He doesn\u2019t deserve to be there in the first place, right?<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Cancelar planes con \u00e9l<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79061 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-woman-listening-to-music-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"hermosa mujer escuchando m\u00fasica en casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-woman-listening-to-music-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-woman-listening-to-music-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/beautiful-woman-listening-to-music-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Believe me, I know it\u2019s hard. You want to spend more time with him because you love him, but this is the best way for you to let him know that something isn\u2019t right.<\/p>\n<p>Necesita <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/10-maneras-de-hacer-que-un-chico-se-de-cuenta-de-que-esta-perdiendo\/\">make him realize he&#8217;s losing you<\/a>!<\/p>\n<p>If he calls you to go out, politely tell him that you don\u2019t want to. If you have already made plans with him, then cancel the date night and tell him that you have something important to do for work. Either way, it will pay off.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t talk to him about your life<\/h3>\n<p><i>Me da por sentado. Quiz\u00e1 deba multiplicar mis esfuerzos y ser m\u00e1s abierta con \u00e9l.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s exactly what I was thinking a few years ago. Don&#8217;t make the same mistake. Withhold information about your life right now.<\/p>\n<p>At one point when you\u2019re talking to him and he asks you about why you haven\u2019t told him that before, choose a passive-aggressive answer like, \u201cI saw that you were too busy to actually care.\u201d These sentences hit the spot even though they may sound a bit rough.<\/p>\n<p>Despu\u00e9s de todo este tiempo <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/dio-por-sentado-que-le-importaba-mucho\/\">d\u00e1ndote por sentado<\/a>Demu\u00e9strale que no est\u00e1s de acuerdo con su comportamiento.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">H\u00e1blale de c\u00f3mo te sientes<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79063 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-holding-phone-outside.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con el tel\u00e9fono en la mano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-holding-phone-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-holding-phone-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-holding-phone-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Cuando hayas decidido que ya est\u00e1 bien de juegos, prueba la vieja pero dorada t\u00e9cnica de hablar las cosas.<\/p>\n<p>Puede que lo hayas intentado antes de todo esto, pero ahora es el momento adecuado para hablar del tema.<\/p>\n<p>Tell him how you have been feeling lately, and tell him that you aren\u2019t happy in your relationship because he doesn\u2019t appreciate you and what you\u2019re doing for him.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve said this already\u2014communication is the key to every <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/7-reglas-que-debes-seguir-si-quieres-una-vida-amorosa-feliz\/\">relaci\u00f3n feliz<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Dile que s\u00f3lo toma de la relaci\u00f3n sin dar nada a cambio, y a ver qu\u00e9 pasa. Dile que toda relaci\u00f3n es una calle de doble sentido que no funcionar\u00e1 si un miembro de la pareja se esfuerza m\u00e1s que el otro.<\/p>\n<p>Piense si se merece una segunda oportunidad.<\/p>\n<p>If he says that he is going to change his behavior, then you should give him a chance, but be careful with how many chances you\u2019re giving out and is it worth the trouble?<\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfC\u00f3mo puedo evitar que me d\u00e9 por sentada?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79062 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/An-attractive-young-woman-prepares-in-a-dressing-room.jpg\" alt=\"Una atractiva joven se prepara en un camerino\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/An-attractive-young-woman-prepares-in-a-dressing-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/An-attractive-young-woman-prepares-in-a-dressing-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/An-attractive-young-woman-prepares-in-a-dressing-room-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>You&#8217;ll stop him from taking you for granted when you stop doing those things he takes for granted and <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/establecer-limites-como-mujer-de-alto-valor\/\">establecer l\u00edmites como la mujer de alto valor<\/a> que eres.<\/p>\n<p>Let him know that you won&#8217;t tolerate him not appreciating your effort. Let him know that you&#8217;re fine without him.<\/p>\n<p>This is how you&#8217;ll stop him from taking you for granted ever again:<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Stop doing those things he&#8217;s taking for granted<\/h3>\n<p><i>Me da por sentado. <\/i>Well, then stop doing those things he&#8217;s taking for granted.<\/p>\n<p>Esto es algo que todo entrenador de relaciones te dir\u00eda: Deja de hacer cosas buenas por \u00e9l. Punto.<\/p>\n<p>The more you&#8217;re going out of your way to please him, the more he&#8217;ll take your effort for granted. You need to break this evil art of <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/le\/inside-his-mind\/7-senales-de-que-se-aprovecha-de-tu-amabilidad\/\">que se aproveche de ti<\/a> and you&#8217;ll do it by not giving him the things he used to receive from you.<\/p>\n<p>Let him know that it takes two to tango. You will not be the only one trying to make things work. It&#8217;s high time that he chooses between reciprocity or nothing.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ll\u00e1male la atenci\u00f3n por su comportamiento<\/h3>\n<p>Don\u2019t omit anything he does, and most importantly, don\u2019t make excuses for him in the process of evaluating what his deal is.<\/p>\n<p>F\u00edjate en todo, desde las cosas peque\u00f1as a las grandes, porque todas son igual de importantes.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m sure you\u2019ve realized by now that you\u2019ve missed so many sure signs telling you that he is not appreciating you as he used to.<\/p>\n<p>If you did, don\u2019t let that lower your spirits and discourage you.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not your fault that you missed out on whatever was going on right in front of your nose. You\u2019re not the one to blame that your significant other is not treating you the way you deserve.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Establecer l\u00edmites<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79065 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/group-of-friends-cheering-with-glasses-of-wine.jpg\" alt=\"grupo de amigos animando con copas de vino\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/group-of-friends-cheering-with-glasses-of-wine.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/group-of-friends-cheering-with-glasses-of-wine-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/group-of-friends-cheering-with-glasses-of-wine-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>It&#8217;s time to set yourself some boundaries. Choose the things that you&#8217;ll do because you want to do them and accentuate the things you won&#8217;t do because he&#8217;s obviously taking them for granted.<\/p>\n<p>Once he sees that you&#8217;re no longer going out of your way to please him, he&#8217;ll start to question his behavior. (Well, I hope he will.)<\/p>\n<p>Establecer l\u00edmites es de suma importancia si quieres <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/fake-love\/emotional-abuse\/7-formas-de-proteger-el-abuso-emocional\/\">prot\u00e9gete<\/a> de su comportamiento manipulador.<\/p>\n<p>It will help you realize the things you&#8217;re doing for yourself and the things you&#8217;ve been doing for him that he didn&#8217;t appreciate whatsoever.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">C\u00e9ntrate en ti mismo<\/h3>\n<p>One of the greatest relationship advice of all times: When everything else fails, focus on yourself. When you&#8217;ve done all you could and you see that he still doesn&#8217;t realize the mistake of taking you for granted, just ignore him completely.<\/p>\n<p>Do what makes YOU happy at the moment. Don&#8217;t worry about how he&#8217;ll perceive your decision to no longer settle for his selfish treatment.<\/p>\n<p>A man cannot realize what he had if you don&#8217;t let him know what he lost. In this case, I refer to what he &#8216;temporarily&#8217; lost.<\/p>\n<p>Por supuesto, si ves que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/si-no-puedes-hablar-con-el-de-estas-5-cosas-tu-relacion-no-tiene-futuro\/\">tu relaci\u00f3n no tiene futuro<\/a> and the problems are beyond fixing, you can easily replace the word &#8216;temporarily&#8217; with &#8216;permanently&#8217;.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Let him know you&#8217;re TOTALLY fine without him<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79066 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-looks-thoughtful-while-talking-on-phone-at-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"mujer mira pensativa mientras habla por tel\u00e9fono en un caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-looks-thoughtful-while-talking-on-phone-at-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-looks-thoughtful-while-talking-on-phone-at-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/woman-looks-thoughtful-while-talking-on-phone-at-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>I&#8217;ve heard many women say: <i>He took me for granted so I left him. He didn&#8217;t appreciate my gestures, so I stopped trying.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s one for you:<i> He took me for granted, so I showed him that I&#8217;m TOTALLY fine without him.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Live your best life and don&#8217;t think about him even for a second. Let him know that if you had to leave, you definitely would and that you would be fine without him.<\/p>\n<p>Esto le recordar\u00e1 el hecho de que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/10-senales-de-que-eres-una-mujer-independiente\/\">you&#8217;re an independent woman<\/a> who knows how to take care of herself. You don&#8217;t need his lame behavior in your life because you know better.<\/p>\n<p>You put up with his behavior so far because you wanted to and not because you had to. Now that you see he still hasn&#8217;t changed his game, you&#8217;ll give him a checkmate.<\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;ll either open his eyes and realize what he&#8217;ll lose or he&#8217;ll keep taking you for granted. The only difference is that this time he knows you won&#8217;t tolerate the latter.<\/p>\n<h2>Don&#8217;t Take Me For Granted Quotes<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79067 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/couple-talking-at-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"pareja hablando en un caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/couple-talking-at-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/couple-talking-at-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/couple-talking-at-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Si quieres que \u00e9l (y los dem\u00e1s) dejen de darte por sentado, tienes que recordarles que DEJEN de comportarse as\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>One of the surefire ways to do so is by posting or sending them quotes about taking you for granted. These words of wisdom have the power to change everyone&#8217;s perception and he is not an exception.<\/p>\n<p>1. \u201cLearn my VALUE or earn my ABSENCE. Don\u2019t take me for granted.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>2. \u201cWhen I give you my time, I\u2019m giving you a portion of my life that I will never get back. So please don\u2019t make me regret it.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>3. \u201cNever take a woman for granted because one day another guy will come along and appreciate what you didn\u2019t.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>4. \u201cDon\u2019t take me for granted because unlike the rest I\u2019m not afraid to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/10-buenas-razones-para-marcharse\/\">marcharse<\/a>.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>5. \u201cWomen are often overlooked, taken for granted. They can slip easily through a man\u2019s defense.\u201d \u2013 Stan Lee<\/p>\n<p>6. \u201cJust because I\u2019m here for you all the time, doesn\u2019t mean you can take me for granted.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>7. \u201cYou need to stop doing things for someone when you find out it\u2019s expected rather than appreciated.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>8. \u201cIf they don\u2019t appreciate your presence, perhaps you should try giving them <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/ausencia-que-has-ensenado-a-vivir-sin\/\">tu ausencia<\/a>.\u201d \u2013 Tinku Razoria<\/p>\n<p>9. \u201cEven the most caring people can get tired of being taken for granted.\u201d \u2013 Nishan Panwar<\/p>\n<p>10. \u201cIf they don\u2019t respect, appreciate and value you, then they don\u2019t deserve you.\u201d \u2013 Robert Tew<\/p>\n<p>11. \u201cIt is sad when you realize you are not as important to someone as they are to you!\u201d \u2013 Nikhil Andy<\/p>\n<p>12. \u201cKindness should never be taken for granted because even the nicest people have their limits.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-79060 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/upset-couple-talking-at-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"pareja disgustada hablando en un caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/upset-couple-talking-at-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/upset-couple-talking-at-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/upset-couple-talking-at-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>13. \u201cNever take someone\u2019s feelings for granted. Because you never know how much courage they took to show it to you.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>14. \u201cDon\u2019t be mad because I don\u2019t care anymore. Be mad because I once did, and you were too blind to see.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>15. \u201cEvery time you take them for granted, you\u2019re teaching them to live without you.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>16. \u201cOnce you take me for granted, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/me-echa-de-menos-mi-ex\/\">you\u2019ll miss me<\/a> when I stop doing the things I used to do for you.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>17. \u201cShe used to love his kisses, but not anymore. She had lost him, somewhere along the way, and this man was a stranger-a stranger who took her for granted.\u201d \u2013 Caroline Anderson<\/p>\n<p>18. \u201cWhen you have taken for granted the things that are important, you lose them eventually.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>19. \u201cI do not judge people at all, and I\u2019m ALWAYS here to help anyone at any time. But please don\u2019t take my help for granted.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>20. \u201cDon\u2019t take me for granted. Cause when you lose me, I won\u2019t come back.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>21. \u201cWhen you&#8217;re always there for people they stop appreciating you because your favors are now an expectation.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>22. \u201cYou don&#8217;t need to waste your time on someone who only wants you around when it fits their needs. \u201d \u2013 Rajat Dogra<\/p>\n<p>23. \u201cIf we don&#8217;t feel appreciated, we don&#8217;t feel loved.\u201d \u2013 Jonathan Lockwood Huie<\/p>\n<p>24. \u201cAs I was fighting for you, I realized I was fighting to be lied to; fighting to be taken for granted; fighting to be disappointed; and fighting to be hurt again&#8230;so I started fighting to let go.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>25. \u201cIf you take someone for granted, you don&#8217;t deserve them. Be mature enough to let them move on to someone else who knows their worth.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<h2>El veredicto<\/h2>\n<p><i>Me da por sentado. \u00bfDejar\u00e1 de hacerlo alg\u00fan d\u00eda?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Si le haces saber con tus acciones y palabras que no tolerar\u00e1s m\u00e1s que te d\u00e9 por sentada, puedes esperar uno de los siguientes resultados:<\/p>\n<p>a) He will continue doing so (because he doesn&#8217;t care).<\/p>\n<p>b) He&#8217;ll open his eyes and realize that he&#8217;s losing you (because he cares).<\/p>\n<p>Una cosa es segura: si <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/le\/inside-his-mind\/32-pequenas-cosas-que-gritan-que-te-quiere-sin-decirlo-en-voz-alta\/\">te quiere<\/a>...vendr\u00e1 a por ti y encontrar\u00e1 la manera de que la relaci\u00f3n funcione. Todo lo dem\u00e1s es s\u00f3lo una excusa.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-129136\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/He-Takes-Me-For-Granted-9-Reasons-Why-And-What-To-Do-About-It-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Me da por sentada: 9 razones (y qu\u00e9 hacer al respecto)\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/He-Takes-Me-For-Granted-9-Reasons-Why-And-What-To-Do-About-It-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/He-Takes-Me-For-Granted-9-Reasons-Why-And-What-To-Do-About-It-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/He-Takes-Me-For-Granted-9-Reasons-Why-And-What-To-Do-About-It-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/He-Takes-Me-For-Granted-9-Reasons-Why-And-What-To-Do-About-It-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/He-Takes-Me-For-Granted-9-Reasons-Why-And-What-To-Do-About-It-pinterest-320x480.jpg 320w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/He-Takes-Me-For-Granted-9-Reasons-Why-And-What-To-Do-About-It-pinterest-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/He-Takes-Me-For-Granted-9-Reasons-Why-And-What-To-Do-About-It-pinterest-360x540.jpg 360w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/He-Takes-Me-For-Granted-9-Reasons-Why-And-What-To-Do-About-It-pinterest-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/He-Takes-Me-For-Granted-9-Reasons-Why-And-What-To-Do-About-It-pinterest-800x1200.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/He-Takes-Me-For-Granted-9-Reasons-Why-And-What-To-Do-About-It-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>He takes me for granted. Undoubtedly, this is one of the most popular sentences that have been circulating for a while now. Is he seriously taking you for granted? That\u2019s a serious accusation to make, and you shouldn\u2019t make it without the solid proof he is really doing that. Sadly, putting someone in Plan B&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":79059,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19163","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/7-Signs-Hes-Taking-You-For-Granted-And-7-Things-You-Can-Do-About-It.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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