{"id":19189,"date":"2020-06-28T13:38:29","date_gmt":"2020-06-28T13:38:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19189"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:15:48","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:15:48","slug":"5-cosas-que-haces-sin-querer-porque-te-han-roto-el-corazon-demasiadas-veces","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-cosas-que-haces-sin-querer-porque-te-han-roto-el-corazon-demasiadas-veces\/","title":{"rendered":"5 cosas que haces sin querer porque te han roto el coraz\u00f3n demasiadas veces"},"content":{"rendered":"

Todos cambiamos cuando nos rompen el coraz\u00f3n, sobre todo si ocurre m\u00e1s de una vez. Y aunque t\u00fa no lo sepas, no eres una excepci\u00f3n a esta regla.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t notice these things because they\u2019ve become a part of who you are and because these changes didn\u2019t happen overnight.<\/p>\n

But it is simple\u2014some of your behavior patterns which you may not be aware of are a direct consequence of your heartbreaks and here are 5 of them.<\/p>\n

Eres negativo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Una de las cosas que quiz\u00e1 no notes que ha cambiado en ti desde que te rompieron el coraz\u00f3n<\/a> is that you\u2019ve become too negative.<\/p>\n

Antes de todas las decepciones por las que pasaste en el pasado, siempre fuiste optimista y positivo con respecto a todo. Pero ahora eso ha cambiado.<\/p>\n

Simplemente esperas el peor resultado en cada situaci\u00f3n posible y siempre supones lo peor de todos y de todo.<\/p>\n

Aunque no lo sepas, en realidad se trata de tu mecanismo de defensa.<\/p>\n

You simply had your hopes up too many times before and you always ended up disappointed so you don\u2019t allow yourself for this to happen again.<\/p>\n

You think you\u2019ll be less hurt if you expect the worst.<\/p>\n

Y si ocurre algo bueno, ser\u00e1 una sorpresa positiva para ti. Pero si tus suposiciones se hacen realidad, entonces ya lo sab\u00edas desde el principio.<\/p>\n

Eres esc\u00e9ptico<\/h2>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

Another thing that has changed about you and your world views is the fact that you\u2019ve become too skeptical and cynical, although you try to fight it.<\/p>\n

You simply don\u2019t believe in love and you secretly think that people who believe in romance and in a fairy tale kind of love are actually foolish to believe in such things.<\/p>\n

Aunque te alegras cuando las personas que te rodean est\u00e1n felizmente enamoradas, lo cierto es que siempre te asusta en secreto que acaben heridas y que tengan que experimentar lo mismo que t\u00fa.<\/p>\n

You simply can\u2019t make yourself believe in love and your behavior and comments reveal what you really think about it.<\/p>\n

Tienes problemas de confianza con personas que merecen tu confianza<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Cuando te hieren y te abandonan las personas en las que m\u00e1s confiabas, es natural que tengas confianza y problemas de abandono<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Eran las personas en las que pensabas que siempre pod\u00edas confiar y en cuyas manos estabas dispuesto a poner tu vida.<\/p>\n

Pero al final, fueron los que m\u00e1s dolor te causaron.<\/p>\n

And after this happened, you felt like you couldn\u2019t trust anyone, let alone someone who had just walked into your life.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que simplemente decidiste no dar tu confianza a nadie en tu vida, aunque lo haces inconscientemente y probablemente no eres consciente de que lo est\u00e1s haciendo.<\/p>\n

But what you don\u2019t know is that not every man is the same; there are guys who deserve your trust and you are keeping these guys out because of your fears.<\/p>\n

Te saboteas a ti mismo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Aunque los hombres de tu vida pasada te han hecho da\u00f1o en m\u00faltiples ocasiones, lo que quiz\u00e1 no sepas es que ahora eres t\u00fa la \u00fanica que te impide ser feliz.<\/p>\n

Esto significa que eres t\u00fa quien se sabotea a s\u00ed mismo al permitir que sigan teniendo efecto en tu vida.<\/p>\n

You do it every time you let your past demons get to you, every time you remind yourself of everything you\u2019ve been through and every time you give any significance to people who don\u2019t deserve it.<\/p>\n

But not only that\u2014you do it every time you assume the worst of people and every time you think a new guy you meet will be the same as a man from your past.<\/p>\n

A veces pareces maleducado<\/h2>\n

\"confiada<\/p>\n

En el fondo, eres una persona amable y cari\u00f1osa chica con un gran coraz\u00f3n<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Pero la vida te ha ense\u00f1ado a no mostrar esto al mundo porque la gente lo ver\u00e1 como tu vulnerabilidad y lo utilizar\u00e1 en tu contra.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve figured out that you have to protect yourself so you\u2019ve built walls all around you to keep toxic people out.<\/p>\n

You simply don\u2019t open up to almost anyone and you refuse to allow new people to become a part of your life.<\/p>\n

Pero, a veces, la gente que te rodea lo confunde con descortes\u00eda y falta de amabilidad. A veces te perciben como antip\u00e1tico, aunque no seas consciente de ello.<\/p>\n

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We all change when our heart gets broken, especially if it happens more than once. And although you don\u2019t know it, you are no exception to this rule. You don\u2019t notice these things because they\u2019ve become a part of who you are and because these changes didn\u2019t happen overnight. But it is simple\u2014some of your…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":110287,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19189","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse & trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/5-Things-You-Accidentally-Do-Because-You-Had-Your-Heart-Broken-Too-Many-Times-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse & trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse & trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19189","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19189"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19189\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/110287"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19189"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19189"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19189"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}