{"id":19229,"date":"2020-08-29T12:41:58","date_gmt":"2020-08-29T12:41:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19229"},"modified":"2021-12-20T18:16:50","modified_gmt":"2021-12-20T18:16:50","slug":"si-hace-estas-5-cosas-necesitas-elevar-tus-estandares","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-hace-estas-5-cosas-necesitas-elevar-tus-estandares\/","title":{"rendered":"Si hace estas 5 cosas, tienes que elevar tus est\u00e1ndares"},"content":{"rendered":"

Es bastante com\u00fan que no veamos con realismo nuestra relaci\u00f3n y a la persona que tenemos al lado cuando nos enamoramos de ella como locos.<\/p>\n

Aunque hay algunas cosas en las que tienes que ceder en tu relaci\u00f3n, tambi\u00e9n hay otras que nunca deber\u00edas permitirte aguantar, por muy profundo que sea tu amor por un chico.<\/p>\n

But sometimes, you simply forget about these things and you allow yourself to lower your standards and to settle for less for a guy who doesn\u2019t deserve it.<\/p>\n

Here are 5 of your boyfriend\u2019s behavior patterns that you shouldn\u2019t tolerate and which show you it\u2019s about time you raise your standards.<\/p>\n

Te compara con otras chicas<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Si se encuentra en una relaci\u00f3n estable<\/a> con alguien, los dos deb\u00e9is haceros sentir especiales.<\/p>\n

Eso significa que tu novio tiene que tratarte como \u00fanica y que tienes que ser la \u00fanica chica de su vida.<\/p>\n

Por otro lado, si te hace sentir que no eres suficiente para \u00e9l y si te compara con otras chicas, bueno, es obvio que tienes un problema.<\/p>\n

I am not talking about cheating here only, because that is something that shouldn\u2019t even be discussed and that should always be off limits.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not even saying that you should forbid him from talking to any other female besides you or to look at you only.<\/p>\n

Por mucho que odiemos admitirlo, un hombre puede encontrar atractiva a otra chica aunque te ame profundamente.<\/p>\n

But this doesn\u2019t mean it is OK for him to text other girls, to flirt with them or to stare at them while you are sitting next to him.<\/p>\n

Remember\u2014if he is the tipo correcto<\/a>siempre te har\u00e1 sentir como si fueras la \u00fanica chica en la habitaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t answer your texts or calls<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Incluso cuando estamos en una relaci\u00f3n, todos necesitamos algo de tiempo sin nuestra pareja y algo de tiempo a solas.<\/p>\n

Just because this guy is your boyfriend, it doesn\u2019t mean you and him should spend every moment apart texting each other or talking on the phone.<\/p>\n

Pero uno de los momentos en los que debes elevar tu nivel de exigencia es cuando le est\u00e1s aguantando ignorando tus mensajes<\/a> o llamadas la mayor parte del d\u00eda.<\/p>\n

When you call or text him, he never answers instantly and that shows the harsh truth that he doesn\u2019t think of you as often as you think of him.<\/p>\n

Besides, it makes you feel like you are the only one going after him and you feel desperate by constantly texting him and waiting anxiously for him to respond and those are the things you shouldn\u2019t feel in a healthy relationship.<\/p>\n

Siempre est\u00e1 demasiado ocupado para ti<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

When you are in a relationship, it doesn\u2019t mean that you and your boyfriend are not allowed to have a life outside of it.<\/p>\n

Los dos erais personas antes de esta relaci\u00f3n que tienen sus familias y amigos y esto debe seguir as\u00ed durante la relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

But it also doesn\u2019t mean that it is OK for your boyfriend never to dedicate any of his time to you. I<\/p>\n

i este chico est\u00e1 siempre demasiado ocupado para estar contigo o simplemente para hablar contigo, est\u00e1 claro que sus sentimientos hacia ti no son demasiado fuertes y que deber\u00edas eleva tu nivel de exigencia.<\/a><\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t respect you<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

El respeto es, sin duda, una de las bases de toda relaci\u00f3n sana y la falta de respeto deber\u00eda ser un importante factor de ruptura para todos.<\/p>\n

Lamentablemente, muchas mujeres piensan que su hombre puede amarlas sin darles todo su respeto, lo cual no est\u00e1 nada bien.<\/p>\n

Therefore, if your partner disrespects you in any way, you should definitely reconsider your relationship with him and it shows you it\u2019s time for you to raise your standards when it comes to dating.<\/p>\n

This means that you shouldn\u2019t put up with him manipulating you, abusing you in any way, belittling you or trying to put you beneath him.<\/p>\n

Los dos sois iguales y \u00e9l tiene que tratarte s\u00f3lo as\u00ed. Todo lo dem\u00e1s es inaceptable, porque t\u00fa sabes lo que vales y \u00e9l deber\u00eda saberlo tambi\u00e9n.<\/p>\n

Eres consciente de que s\u00f3lo te utiliza para el sexo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

No hay nada malo en que tu relaci\u00f3n con alguien se base \u00fanicamente en el sexo, siempre que ambos miembros de la pareja sean conscientes de ese acuerdo y siempre que sea lo que ambos desean.<\/p>\n

Pero es una situaci\u00f3n completamente diferente si eres t\u00fa el que se deja enga\u00f1ar haci\u00e9ndole creer que est\u00e1 en una relaci\u00f3n real, mientras que s\u00f3lo quiere sexo.<\/a><\/p>\n

Si esta es una situaci\u00f3n que se da en tu relaci\u00f3n y eres consciente de ello, tienes que elevar tu nivel de exigencia porque est\u00e1 claro que este chico se est\u00e1 aprovechando de ti.<\/p>\n

He is never around when you need him and he doesn\u2019t give you any real attention but he only calls you at night to hang out at your place or his.<\/p>\n

It is clear what his intentions are and it\u2019s clear that the two of you don\u2019t want the same things.<\/p>\n

Therefore, it\u2019s time to raise your standards without hoping that you\u2019ll make him reconsider his behavior toward you and to walk away from someone who clearly doesn\u2019t deserve you.<\/p>\n

\"Si<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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