{"id":19232,"date":"2018-05-29T12:45:48","date_gmt":"2018-05-29T12:45:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19232"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:21:19","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:21:19","slug":"no-salgas-con-el-si-esperas-cambiarlo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-salgas-con-el-si-esperas-cambiarlo\/","title":{"rendered":"No salgas con \u00e9l si esperas cambiarlo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Has conocido a un chico, pero no sabes qu\u00e9 pensar de \u00e9l ni de tu posible relaci\u00f3n con \u00e9l. <\/span><\/p>\n

Let\u2019s get one thing straight<\/span>\u2014<\/span>you don\u2019t have any doubts about your feelings for this man. You like him very much and you are even falling in love with him hard.<\/span><\/p>\n

This guy gives you butterflies you haven\u2019t felt in a long time and you feel like you can\u2019t keep your hands off him. But you also know that this is more than passion and <\/span>atracci\u00f3n f\u00edsica<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00ed, este hombre te atrae sexualmente, pero hay algo m\u00e1s entre vosotros dos. Tambi\u00e9n te atrae su cerebro y ha provocado diferentes emociones en tu interior.<\/span><\/p>\n

Therefore, you\u2019ve caught yourself picturing a serious relationship with this guy and planning a life with him.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pero, por otro lado, tambi\u00e9n est\u00e1s preocupada. Aunque sientes algo muy fuerte por ese chico, eres consciente de las cosas que te rodean y puedes ver tu relaci\u00f3n con \u00e9l de forma realista. <\/span><\/p>\n

You know that you and this man are quite different and you can see some of his personality traits and behavior patterns that you don\u2019t like. <\/b><\/p>\n

Although you know that you both have your flaws and you don\u2019t expect to have a perfect boyfriend because you don\u2019t think of yourself as perfect either, there are still some things about this guy that you don\u2019t know if you can accept or if you\u2019ll ever be able to accept.<\/b><\/p>\n

You are simply afraid that the two of you won\u2019t get along and that you are not compatible, as much as you don\u2019t want that to be.<\/b><\/p>\n

A veces piensas que s\u00f3lo debes escuchar a tu coraz\u00f3n y que debes ignorar estos pensamientos y simplemente dejarte llevar por la corriente. <\/span><\/p>\n

Aunque siempre estoy del lado del amor y aunque tambi\u00e9n te aconsejo que escuches a tu coraz\u00f3n, tengo que decirte que tambi\u00e9n tengas en cuenta estos pensamientos que pasan por tu cabeza y que reconsideres todo sobre este chico y tu posible relaci\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n

The truth is that, in general, people don\u2019t change. Even when they do, they do it for their own reasons and only because they think it\u2019s the right thing to do. I know many women hope to change the man by their side but the harsh truth is that they rarely succeed in doing so.<\/b><\/p>\n

So please, don\u2019t be one of those women because you\u2019ll fail and you\u2019ll only end up hurt. Don\u2019t try to change this man because that will only bring dissatisfaction to your relationship and it will make both of you feel miserable. <\/span><\/p>\n

You will be disappointed for not succeeding and because sooner or later, you\u2019ll see that you are fighting with the windmills. On the other hand, it is probable that <\/span>tiene fuertes sentimientos hacia ti<\/span><\/a> y puede que se esfuerce por adaptarse a tus normas y cambiar su forma de ser. <\/span><\/p>\n

But he will lose his true self in the process of trying to make you happy. And ironically, this won\u2019t make either of you happy. Instead, it will just ruin both of you individually and it will ruin any chance of you two having a successful relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

En lugar de intentar cambiarle, decide si puedes aceptarle tal y como es. Porque si amas de verdad a un hombre, aceptar\u00e1s todos sus defectos e imperfecciones junto con sus lados buenos. <\/span><\/p>\n

Con ello, no s\u00f3lo le est\u00e1s demostrando tu amor, sino tambi\u00e9n que respetas su integridad y le respetas como hombre y como persona. S\u00f3lo as\u00ed le dar\u00e1s la oportunidad de ser \u00e9l mismo a tu lado, y eso le har\u00e1 sentir mejor. <\/span>haz que se enamore de ti como un loco<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

I am not saying that you should put up with all the bullshit he puts you through. On the contrary, I am just telling you to make up your mind before involving yourself in anything serious. I am telling you to reach your decision without planning on changing him in the future or without realizing you can\u2019t accept him after all.  <\/span> <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

There is this guy you\u2019ve met but you don\u2019t know what to think of him and of your potential relationship with him. Let\u2019s get one thing straight\u2014you don\u2019t have any doubts about your feelings for this man. You like him very much and you are even falling in love with him hard. This guy gives…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":19233,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19232","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/freddie-marriage-151597-unsplash.jpg",800,476,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19232","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19232"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19232\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19233"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19232"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19232"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19232"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}