{"id":19238,"date":"2018-05-30T06:25:01","date_gmt":"2018-05-30T06:25:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19238"},"modified":"2022-03-01T22:42:37","modified_gmt":"2022-03-01T22:42:37","slug":"es-hora-de-que-te-pongas-las-pilas-porque-ella-no-te-va-a-esperar-mucho-mas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/es-hora-de-que-te-pongas-las-pilas-porque-ella-no-te-va-a-esperar-mucho-mas\/","title":{"rendered":"Es hora de que te pongas las pilas porque ella no te esperar\u00e1 mucho m\u00e1s"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I know you\u2019ve gotten used to this girl. And when I say you\u2019ve gotten used to her, I don\u2019t mean you just got used to her presence in your life. No\u2014you\u2019ve gotten used to everything she\u2019s been giving you and I am not referring to her body here.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve gotten used to this girl loving you, without you loving her back the way you should.<\/p>\n<p>Te acostumbraste a que siempre estuviera ah\u00ed para ti, a contar con su apoyo y lealtad, pasara lo que pasara.<\/p>\n<p>Siempre supiste que esa chica era alguien en quien pod\u00edas confiar, aunque todos los dem\u00e1s te dieran la espalda.<\/p>\n<p>Sab\u00edas que ella era la \u00fanica que te apoyaba, hicieras lo que hicieras, la \u00fanica que disfrutaba sinceramente de todos tus \u00e9xitos y la \u00fanica que compart\u00eda tu dolor.<\/p>\n<p>Este fue el \u00fanico <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/chicas-como-dont-get-happy\/\">girl who couldn\u2019t be happy<\/a> cuando estabas triste y que siempre intentaba hacerte sonre\u00edr.<\/p>\n<p>Sab\u00edas que hab\u00eda sido la \u00fanica persona en este mundo que te hab\u00eda amado incondicionalmente, incluso cuando menos lo merec\u00edas.<\/p>\n<p>El \u00fanico que crey\u00f3 en ti, cuando nadie m\u00e1s lo hac\u00eda e incluso cuando t\u00fa dejaste de creer en ti mismo.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Pero en lugar de apreciar esto, la utilizaste.<\/strong> Usaste su amor por ti y el hecho de que era ingenua y sensible.<\/p>\n<p>Sab\u00edas muy bien que ella siempre hab\u00eda tenido un punto d\u00e9bil por ti y que eras la \u00fanica persona en este mundo a la que nunca podr\u00eda rechazar y te aprovechaste muy bien de ello.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve been giving her only crumbs of your love and attention\u2014just enough to keep her around.<\/p>\n<p>Es la primera persona a la que llamas cuando tienes problemas, cuando necesitas un hombro sobre el que llorar, cuando necesitas consejo u orientaci\u00f3n o simplemente cuando necesitas hablar con alguien.<\/p>\n<p>And you\u2019ve gotten used to her always being there, so with time, <strong>you\u2019ve started taking her for granted, assuming that you didn\u2019t have to put any effort into your relationship, that you didn\u2019t have to give her any love or appreciation and that she would stay by your side, despite your treatment.<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-37146 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/adult-back-view-black-and-white-1253797.jpg\" alt=\"Es hora de que te pongas las pilas porque ella no te esperar\u00e1 mucho m\u00e1s\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/adult-back-view-black-and-white-1253797.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/adult-back-view-black-and-white-1253797-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/adult-back-view-black-and-white-1253797-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Well, guess what? She won\u2019t.<\/strong> Llegar\u00e1 un momento en que <strong>esta chica te ver\u00e1 como realmente eres<\/strong>\u2014an egocentric, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/10-senales-de-que-es-otro-gilipollas-egoista\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">gilipollas ego\u00edsta<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Llegar\u00e1 un momento en que esta chica dejar\u00e1 de verte como ese chico vulnerable y perdido que necesita su mano para ir de la mano por la vida.<\/p>\n<p>Ella ver\u00e1 tus verdaderos colores y habr\u00e1 tenido suficiente.<\/p>\n<p>Y al mismo tiempo, <strong>se ver\u00e1 a s\u00ed misma como realmente es.<\/strong> She will finally see her worth and she will realize you don\u2019t deserve her time, patience, efforts or energy.<\/p>\n<p>She will finally realize you don\u2019t deserve the love she has been giving you and that you don\u2019t deserve her.<\/p>\n<p>And that is when she\u2019ll walk away from you.<\/p>\n<p>That is when it will be too late to do anything because she\u2019ll grow tired of you and the way you\u2019ve been treating her.<\/p>\n<p>And that is when you\u2019ll realize what you have done and what you have lost. But there won\u2019t be anything you can do about it.<\/p>\n<p>Because when she finally realizes everything, she won\u2019t be able to look at you the same ever again.<br \/>\nSo please do something before it\u2019s too late.<\/p>\n<p>Because she won\u2019t wait forever for you to come to your senses. She won\u2019t wait for you to start appreciating her and all of her efforts and sacrifices.<\/p>\n<p>She won\u2019t wait much longer for you to start loving and treating her the way she deserves.<\/p>\n<p>I know you are certain that she will but trust me, this girl won\u2019t waste her entire life on a guy who never gives her anything in return.<\/p>\n<p>Please get your shit together before it\u2019s too late. Deep down, you know very well that this is the kind of woman you meet once in a lifetime.<\/p>\n<p>Sabes muy bien que nunca nadie te querr\u00e1 como ella te quiere y sabes muy bien que nunca nadie te tratar\u00e1 como ella te ha estado tratando.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Don\u2019t wait a second longer\u2014change your behavior now. Because you\u2019ll spend the rest of your life regretting your choice if you don\u2019t make the right one now.<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-37148\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/PINTEREST-2019-05-24T091620.429-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Es hora de que te pongas las pilas porque ella no te esperar\u00e1 mucho m\u00e1s\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/PINTEREST-2019-05-24T091620.429-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/PINTEREST-2019-05-24T091620.429-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/PINTEREST-2019-05-24T091620.429.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/strong> <!--codes_iframe--> <!--\/codes_iframe--><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I know you\u2019ve gotten used to this girl. And when I say you\u2019ve gotten used to her, I don\u2019t mean you just got used to her presence in your life. No\u2014you\u2019ve gotten used to everything she\u2019s been giving you and I am not referring to her body here. You\u2019ve gotten used to this girl loving&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":19239,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19238","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/hanna.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19238","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19238"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19238\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19239"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19238"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19238"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19238"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}