{"id":19241,"date":"2018-05-30T06:37:25","date_gmt":"2018-05-30T06:37:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19241"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:20:26","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:20:26","slug":"a-mi-madre-soltera-eres-mas-que-suficiente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/a-mi-madre-soltera-eres-mas-que-suficiente\/","title":{"rendered":"A mi madre soltera: \u00a1Eres m\u00e1s que suficiente!"},"content":{"rendered":"

Querida mam\u00e1,<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

This letter is just a reminder of how much I love you and how much I am grateful to have you in my life. If it wasn\u2019t for you, I would never have become the person I am today.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why I just want to say: \u201cThank you!\u201d<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Gracias por estar a mi lado cuando m\u00e1s te necesitaba, gracias por escuchar mis problemas, por ser mi llamada nocturna, por darme consejos y por estar siempre a mi lado. S\u00e9 que no hay palabras que puedan demostrar lo agradecida que estoy por tenerte aqu\u00ed, pero espero que cuando leas esta carta te des cuenta de que has hecho un trabajo incre\u00edble t\u00fa sola.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que pusiste tu vida en standby s\u00f3lo para centrarte en m\u00ed y que el \u00fanico tiempo libre que ten\u00edas entre dos trabajos y llevarme al colegio era el momento en el que ibas al ba\u00f1o y llorabas porque era muy jodidamente duro pasar por todo eso sola. Y tambi\u00e9n s\u00e9 que nunca quisiste que me enterara de tus problemas, as\u00ed que los ocultabas. Pero incluso cuando era peque\u00f1a pod\u00eda sentir la falta de paz y sab\u00eda que sufr\u00edas y que librabas tus propias batallas cada d\u00eda.<\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n s\u00e9 que en realidad nunca quisiste gritarme, pero era tan dif\u00edcil cuidar de m\u00ed y tener montones de obligaciones y seguir estando relajado. Ahora entiendo que todo tu mundo era desmoron\u00e1ndose<\/a> while I was just a small girl screaming to get that toy from the store that you couldn\u2019t buy for me.<\/p>\n

Now, I understand why we ordered food so many times. It is because you didn’t have time to cook because you had two jobs so you could provide me with everything I needed. And it wasn\u2019t important to me if you cooked something or not, it was important that we were together.<\/p>\n

I know it was hard for you to go on this trip alone but now that I am an adult you can see that you did a great job. You raised a daughter with a clean and pure heart just like you have and the one who will always stand up for herself. Your advice and love will always be a part of me, so Mom, don\u2019t ever think that you weren\u2019t enough.<\/p>\n

T\u00fa eres suficiente. <\/strong><\/em>
\nEres digno.<\/strong><\/em>
\nEres importante.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to try anymore because you already gave me all that I ever needed. Of course, I sometimes missed Dad but your love and affection always made me feel that I had more love than those kids with both parents living with them.<\/p>\n

Eres suficiente, lo que significa que me diste todo lo que una persona adulta necesita para estar contenta y feliz y por eso nunca podr\u00e9 agradec\u00e9rtelo lo suficiente.<\/p>\n

Eres m\u00e1s que suficiente porque siempre has sido un buen oyente, un amigo honesto<\/a>un buen compa\u00f1ero y mi diario humano. Pod\u00eda contarte cualquier cosa que me molestara y con una sola frase y un abrazo, todas mis pesadillas se desvanec\u00edan. Siempre fuiste mi roca, mam\u00e1, y siempre lo ser\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

So please don\u2019t think that you failed because the situation with my dad didn\u2019t happen as you planned. Don\u2019t think that you are not enough because you ended a love relationship and stayed with me only. You chose right. If there isn\u2019t love, there is nothing else to do there. So walking away was the perfect decision and I am so proud of you and your strength to do that. Just remember that your imperfections and your problems don\u2019t reflect your worth. Don\u2019t think that you are weak because you walked away because that doesn\u2019t make you weak at all. That just means that you were too strong for too long.<\/p>\n

I know that you had a crazy and challenging phase in your life and I know that it wasn’t easy for you to handle all the problems alone. But in the end, you made it and that\u2019s why you are more than enough.<\/p>\n

Eras suficiente, eres suficiente y nunca dejar\u00e1s de serlo. S\u00e9 que te sent\u00edas as\u00ed cada vez que extend\u00eda mis manos hacia ti para que me levantaras. S\u00e9 que sent\u00edas que eras suficiente cada vez que te miraba con mis grandes ojos, demostr\u00e1ndote que eras todo lo que necesitaba y que no hab\u00eda mujer m\u00e1s perfecta que t\u00fa.<\/p>\n

Siempre fuiste la perfecta para m\u00ed y siempre lo ser\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Mam\u00e1, quiero que sepas que eres m\u00e1s que suficiente.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

And I am begging you, don\u2019t you ever forget that!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Con amor,<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Tu hija.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Dear Mom, This letter is just a reminder of how much I love you and how much I am grateful to have you in my life. If it wasn\u2019t for you, I would never have become the person I am today. That\u2019s why I just want to say: \u201cThank you!\u201d Thank you for being there…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":19242,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29624],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19241","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-friends-and-family"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29624,"label":"friends&family"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/jon-flobrant-38755-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29624,"name":"friends&family","slug":"friends-and-family","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29624,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Do you want to improve your relationship with friends and family? Following these tips will help you boost your connection with your favorite people.","parent":29620,"count":317,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29624,"category_count":317,"category_description":"Do you want to improve your relationship with friends and family? Following these tips will help you boost your connection with your favorite people.","cat_name":"friends&family","category_nicename":"friends-and-family","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19241","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19241"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19241\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19242"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19241"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19241"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19241"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}