{"id":19276,"date":"2020-05-30T10:20:02","date_gmt":"2020-05-30T10:20:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19276"},"modified":"2022-02-26T11:26:20","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T11:26:20","slug":"9-senales-de-que-tienes-un-amigo-de-mierda","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/9-senales-de-que-tienes-un-amigo-de-mierda\/","title":{"rendered":"9 se\u00f1ales de que tienes un amigo de mierda"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfCu\u00e1ntas veces te has sentido bien y luego tu amigo ha hecho algo que te ha aguado la fiesta?<\/p>\n

How many times has it been when you needed someone and your friend wasn\u2019t there for you?<\/p>\n

How many times have you felt alone in the presence of your \u2018friend\u2019?<\/p>\n

If the answer to all of these questions is too many then I\u2019m afraid you\u2019ve got yourself un amigo de mierda<\/a> que no te sirve para nada.<\/p>\n

They\u2019re self-absorbed<\/h2>\n

\"dos<\/p>\n

It\u2019s like every topic you talk about seems to always end up back on them.<\/p>\n

No importa lo que pueda estar ocurriendo en tu vida o cu\u00e1nta atenci\u00f3n merezcan los acontecimientos de tu vida, t\u00fa eres el centro de atenci\u00f3n s\u00f3lo durante unos minutos y luego ellos necesitan que se les devuelva la atenci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

They talk behind their other friends\u2019 backs<\/h2>\n

\"dos<\/p>\n

Quejarse es una cosa pero empezar dramas innecesarios es otra.<\/p>\n

Sharing is something mandatory in friendships but think about it, if they talk behind their other friends\u2019 backs to you, what\u2019s there to stop them from doing the same thing to you, too?<\/p>\n

Nunca tienen la culpa de nada<\/h2>\n

\"dos<\/p>\n

I just don\u2019t understand why it\u2019s so hard to own up to a simple mistake.<\/p>\n

At some point we\u2019re all gonna grow up and start working on solutions instead of focusing on finding excuses but what do we do until then?<\/p>\n

Act\u00faan de forma diferente con otras personas<\/h2>\n

\"Dos<\/p>\n

It might just be me but I don\u2019t think bullying and friendship are words that should be used in the same sentence.<\/p>\n

La forma en que te traten nunca deber\u00eda depender de qui\u00e9n te rodea.<\/p>\n

Treating you well when it\u2019s just you and them and then constantly joking about your insecurities and whatnot when there are other people around you is just not right.<\/p>\n

Te hacen sentir ansioso<\/h2>\n

Okay, there is nothing wrong with a little bit of teasing and fooling around but when they make you feel anxious or nervous when you\u2019re around them, then it\u2019s a clear red flag that they\u2019re vampiros emocionales<\/a> y amigos de mierda.<\/p>\n

Te sientes excluido<\/h2>\n

\"dos<\/p>\n

La gente normalmente siente que importa cuando est\u00e1 con sus amigos, pero t\u00fa no.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re around them you just feel left out. In most cases you\u2019re a last-minute call or you\u2019re there in case they\u2019re bored.<\/p>\n

Todo lo que hacen es una competici\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"Una<\/p>\n

You know that thought, \u201cI’m just telling you something funny about my day, why are you trying to one-up me?\u201d\u2014whatever you did, they\u2019ve already done it twice.<\/p>\n

Whatever you do, they can do it better. Somehow they make you feel like they\u2019re the one who\u2019ll get on better in life and after a while it stops resembling a friendship and it starts looking like a goddamn competition.<\/p>\n

Se enfadan contigo cuando haces algo sin contar con ellos<\/h2>\n

When they leave you behind that\u2019s okay but once you do something fun without them, jealousy instantly kicks in and they make you feel bad for having a life and activities that don\u2019t include them.<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t make you feel better when you\u2019re down but expect differently from you<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re down all they say is I don\u2019t know, man; It\u2019s gonna be okay; Don\u2019t stress about it;<\/em> or they don\u2019t even have the decency to respond and they immediately start talking about their problems.<\/p>\n

This would be okay if they didn\u2019t expect you to listen to them for hours and solve all of their problems.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s no longer hard to tell if you have a shitty friend. Sooner or later you\u2019re gonna have to learn the art of letting go and you\u2019ll come to realize that life is better without this kind of person.<\/p>\n

There will be friends who\u2019ll stuck by your side no matter what and who merecen el mundo<\/a>. These are not the one so let them go. Trust me when I tell you, they need you, you don\u2019t need them.<\/p>\n

Antes de diagnosticarte depresi\u00f3n o baja autoestima, aseg\u00farate de que no te rodeas de gilipollas.<\/em><\/p>\n

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