{"id":19393,"date":"2020-10-01T10:17:53","date_gmt":"2020-10-01T10:17:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19393"},"modified":"2022-03-01T22:55:29","modified_gmt":"2022-03-01T22:55:29","slug":"querida-otra-mujer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/querida-otra-mujer\/","title":{"rendered":"Querida otra mujer"},"content":{"rendered":"

A pesar de mi devastaci\u00f3n y angustia, quiero gracias<\/a>.<\/strong> Quiero agradec\u00e9rselo sinceramente desde el fondo de mi alma.<\/p>\n

Ahora me hab\u00e9is liberado de todas las mentiras posteriores y de todas las noches sin descanso que he tenido que soportar. Ya no tendr\u00e9 que someterme a esas interminables noches de tortura emocional que ambos me hicieron pasar. Nunca m\u00e1s dejar\u00e9 que la tristeza que vosotros dos causasteis resuenan en mi mente.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ya no tengo que mirar mi reflejo a trav\u00e9s del charco de l\u00e1grimas y preguntarme d\u00f3nde est\u00e1. S\u00e9 exactamente d\u00f3nde est\u00e1, y es contigo.<\/p>\n

This person who you think you\u2019ll be able to trust and spend the rest of your life with will be impossible.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Impossible because the two of you built the fundamental blocks of your relationship on nothing but trickery and deception. Don\u2019t get me wrong, it takes two to tango. The amount of rage I have for you is triple for him and you both disgust me equally.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019m disgusted because sab\u00edas exactamente qui\u00e9n era.<\/strong> Me mirabas a los ojos cada martes en tu clase de spinning, anim\u00e1ndome a esforzarme m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Todo el tiempo, cuando me duchaba sola despu\u00e9s de clase, eras t\u00fa la que te duchabas sobre \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Nada me gustar\u00eda m\u00e1s que poner tu nombre a caldo y ser tan b\u00e1sico como se puede ser al decir que los dos os merec\u00e9is el uno al otro.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Esto es para una joven esposa de una amante a largo plazo.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

However, that\u2019s the thing about ego\u00edsta<\/strong> people. Selfish people don\u2019t care how they get there or who they trample on in mud\u2014as long as they get there, it doesn\u2019t matter how. Ego\u00edsta<\/strong> la gente como t\u00fa no tiene remordimientos por lo que ha hecho, y a la gente ego\u00edsta como t\u00fa no le quita el sue\u00f1o pensar en sus fechor\u00edas.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, las personas ego\u00edstas se sentir\u00e1n heridas cuando el mismo dolor que causaron a los dem\u00e1s se desv\u00ede hacia ellas. T\u00fa, querida, eres su pr\u00f3xima v\u00edctima y por eso, lo siento por ti.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You, my dear, are foolish to think he will not do the same to you. It will be the same old song for him. When he is high from the sick games he plays, it is over with you. Other women will be there to enter the scene. That\u2019s the thing with narcissistic men.<\/p>\n

Una vez que termine de despojarte de toda tu felicidad, encontrar\u00e1 a otra mujer.<\/strong> Once he can groom you into the perfect model he wants, he can equally destroy you\u2014he did with me and he will do that with you.<\/p>\n

It won\u2019t take long for you to be placed into the same category that he has placed me and all his exes. The same category in which I now lie.<\/p>\n

Your once-shared special memories of the perfect euphoria you both created will now be replaced by his new gal because \u2018her\u2014your\u2019 jealousy was too much to bear. You, my dear, will enter that \u2018crazy ex\u2019 category.<\/strong> You\u2019ll leave him but one choice and that will be to find another.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not stupid sweetheart, I know that\u2019s exactly what he told you about me. I know because he made me listen to his guilty conscience when I asked him why the rest of his perfect relationships seemed to fail and end abruptly.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, despu\u00e9s de todo el dolor que causaste, despu\u00e9s de todo el l\u00edo que creaste, no te odio.<\/strong> S\u00e9 que \u00e9l querr\u00eda que te odiara o que estuviera celoso de ti, sin embargo, lo siento por ti.<\/p>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

I feel sorry because you\u2019ll now have to endure a future with this emotional psychopath.<\/strong> Ahora tendr\u00e1s que justificarte de por qu\u00e9 ahora eres t\u00fa la loca. Me da pena que en un mundo lleno de mujeres que empoderan a otras mujeres, seas t\u00fa la que who\u2019s alone.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Lo que deseo para ti, deseo que este doloroso lecci\u00f3n aprendida<\/a> nunca se repetir\u00e1 en tu vida.<\/p>\n

Deseo que entiendas que las acciones tienen consecuencias y que, como la ley del karma, lo que va vuelve. Deseo para ti que tu angustia nunca sea tan dolorosa como la m\u00eda.<\/strong><\/p>\n

What I wish for you is that you\u2019ll learn to enjoy your libertad<\/strong> cuando todo est\u00e9 dicho y hecho. Te deseo nunca tener que morir lentamente por dentro como yo lo hice.<\/strong> What I wish for you is that you find true love, true love that isn\u2019t built on lies or deception.<\/p>\n

Atentamente,<\/p>\n

El desastre de coraz\u00f3n roto que creaste.<\/p>\n

\"Querida<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Despite my devastation and heartbreak, I want to thank you. I want to sincerely thank you from the bottom of my soul. You have now set me free from all the subsequent lies and restless nights I had to endure. No more am I having to subject myself to those endless nights of emotional torture…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":120765,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29626],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19393","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-affair"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29626,"label":"affair"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Dear-Other-Woman-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29626,"name":"affair","slug":"affair","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29626,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","parent":29620,"count":132,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29626,"category_count":132,"category_description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","cat_name":"affair","category_nicename":"affair","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19393","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19393"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19393\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/120765"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19393"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19393"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19393"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}