{"id":19408,"date":"2020-09-01T11:47:40","date_gmt":"2020-09-01T11:47:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19408"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:58:03","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:58:03","slug":"una-carta-al-hombre-que-me-trato-como-una-opcion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/una-carta-al-hombre-que-me-trato-como-una-opcion\/","title":{"rendered":"Carta al hombre que me trat\u00f3 como una opci\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"

Querida lecci\u00f3n...<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

If I had to describe whatever I had going on with you in one word, that word would most definitely be \u2018waiting\u2019. <\/span><\/p>\n

Siempre estaba esperando algo, a que estuvieras listo, a que dejaras de tener miedo al compromiso, a que respondieras a mi texto, a que me llamaras, a que me eligieras, a que estuvieras seguro de lo nuestro, y la lista contin\u00faa.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Si hubiera permitido que siguieras entrando y saliendo de mi vida a\u00fan estar\u00eda esperando. <\/span><\/p>\n

I could have given us millions of chances, or maybe I did already, I don\u2019t know anymore but the result would always be the same<\/span>\u2014<\/span>nunca funcionar\u00edamos, porque t\u00fa nunca cambiar\u00edas, nunca me amar\u00edas como yo merec\u00eda, como yo te amaba. <\/span><\/p>\n

Saying this doesn\u2019t make things any easier, it just makes me face reality for once.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Perd\u00ed demasiado tiempo, esperando que en alg\u00fan momento entraras en raz\u00f3n, que por fin me vieras y lo grandes que podr\u00edamos ser si nos dieras una oportunidad de verdad. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Pero nunca pudiste hacer eso, \u00bfverdad? Estabas tan da\u00f1ado emocionalmente, tan asustado del amor que no viste otra opci\u00f3n que mantenerme lo m\u00e1s lejos posible de tu coraz\u00f3n. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Nunca fuiste de los que hablaban mucho, al menos no de las cosas importantes. Pero esas raras ocasiones en las que te abr\u00edas y me dejabas entrar fueron las que hicieron que me enamorara de ti. <\/span><\/p>\n

Me abrazar\u00edas tan fuerte,<\/span> me besar\u00edas<\/span><\/a> so passionately, that I couldn\u2019t help but think you had genuine feelings toward me. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ser\u00edas todo lo que podr\u00eda so\u00f1ar en esas raras ocasiones y estar\u00edas tan distante la mayor parte del tiempo. <\/span><\/p>\n

I guess you had done enough to keep me close but never too close. That \u2018enough\u2019 worked for a long while.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You knew you could always come back to me no matter how long I hadn\u2019t seen you or hadn\u2019t heard from you, you knew I couldn\u2019t help myself but to let you back in again.<\/span> <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Viste lo profundo que era mi amor y utilizaste ese hecho en tu beneficio. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Nunca estuve en lo m\u00e1s alto de tu lista de prioridades y lo demostraste muchas veces tanto con tus palabras como con tus acciones. <\/span><\/p>\n

Yo era alguien que se conformaba con trozos de tu atenci\u00f3n y pedazos de tu afecto.  <\/span>Ese fue mi mayor error, porque permit\u00ed que me trataras mal.  <\/span><\/p>\n

By settling, I became nothing more than an option and that\u2019s the lowest thing you can mean to someone who is your priority. <\/span><\/p>\n

Al conformarme con menos de lo que merec\u00eda, segu\u00ed haci\u00e9ndome da\u00f1o. Por quedarme a tu lado, segu\u00ed rompiendo mi propio coraz\u00f3n.  <\/span>No parabas de contarme historias que quer\u00eda o\u00edr.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

Las que predominaban eran las de que alg\u00fan d\u00eda estaremos juntos, cuando llegue el momento, por qu\u00e9 estropear algo bueno que tenemos ahora mismo, por qu\u00e9 necesitamos etiquetas, por qu\u00e9 necesitamos que otras personas nos vean o sepan de nosotros. <\/span><\/p>\n

You kept telling them and I kept believing you and till this day I don\u2019t know why. <\/span><\/p>\n

I guess when the heart is too involved, you can\u2019t rely on common sense or your own eyes to see the reality of things. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Lo \u00fanico que pod\u00eda abrirme los ojos eran las l\u00e1grimas, y muchas. Me sent\u00eda como si chocara contra un muro cuando se trataba de ti. <\/span><\/p>\n

Te di todo de m\u00ed, amor, comprensi\u00f3n, respeto y compromiso y t\u00fa nunca intentaste hacer lo mismo. Simplemente me diste por sentado y asumiste que siempre te dejar\u00eda entrar. <\/span><\/p>\n

Yo pens\u00e9 lo mismo en alg\u00fan momento, cr\u00e9eme. Pero hubo un momento de epifan\u00eda que me hizo ver con claridad.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Me hizo ver que si segu\u00eda en esta monta\u00f1a rusa emocional contigo s\u00f3lo iba a enfermar. <\/span><\/p>\n

Cada vez que sent\u00eda que \u00edbamos a alguna parte, me decepcionabas. Cada vez que cre\u00eda en tus promesas, me decepcionabas. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Every time I felt happy because of something you did, I would pay for it with enormous pain. That\u2019s why I had to put a stop to it.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Ten\u00eda que dejar de permitir que me trataras as\u00ed. Ten\u00eda que respetarme lo suficiente como para no dejarte entrar de nuevo. Ten\u00eda que <\/span>deja de hacerme perder el tiempo<\/span><\/a> y darte cuenta de que nunca estar\u00edas preparado. <\/span><\/p>\n

I had to protect my heart because it couldn\u2019t stand you coming and going from my life. I had to look past my feelings for you and remember what I deserved. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tuve que alejarme de ti para encontrarme a m\u00ed misma, amarme y ser feliz por m\u00ed misma.<\/span> <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Ten\u00eda que convertirme en mi propia prioridad para que dejaras de tratarme como una opci\u00f3n.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"Carta<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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