{"id":19411,"date":"2020-03-01T12:14:07","date_gmt":"2020-03-01T12:14:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19411"},"modified":"2022-06-19T22:14:14","modified_gmt":"2022-06-19T22:14:14","slug":"8-senales-no-tan-evidentes-de-que-le-gustas-pero-se-hace-la-dificil","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/8-senales-no-tan-evidentes-de-que-le-gustas-pero-se-hace-la-dificil\/","title":{"rendered":"8 se\u00f1ales no tan obvias de que le gustas pero se hace la dif\u00edcil"},"content":{"rendered":"

A pesar de toda tu experiencia en citas, a veces te cruzas con una chica cuya se\u00f1ales contradictorias<\/a> you simply can\u2019t decode, as much as you try.<\/p>\n

You are very much aware that most girls like to be chased and enjoy having a man fight for their affection but sometimes all of these games confuse you and you don\u2019t know if a girl likes you but is playing hard to get or she just wants you to leave her alone.<\/p>\n

If this is the case with you, you\u2019ve come to the right place because what you are about to read is 8 signs you have a chance with this girl, if you don\u2019t mind trying a little bit harder.<\/p>\n

When you ask her out, she tells you \u201cmaybe\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Una de las se\u00f1ales de que le gustas a una chica pero se est\u00e1 haciendo la dif\u00edcil es su reacci\u00f3n cuando la invitas a salir o simplemente a pasar el rato.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t want to Di que s\u00ed<\/a> right away to everything you propose and agree every time you want to hang out because she is scared that this way she\u2019ll show her eagerness to see you and to spend time with you.<\/p>\n

Of course, she won\u2019t tell you \u201cno\u201d every time you ask her out, because that would be a clear sign that she is not interested in having anything to do with you.<\/p>\n

Instead, this girl will probably give you a vague response\u2014she will tell you that she\u2019ll call you with her answer, that she might be busy on that day and that she is not sure if she has plans.<\/p>\n

Besides, it is possible for her not to agree on going out with you on the specific date or time you proposed just to show you that things can\u2019t always go your way.<\/p>\n

Pero si le gustas<\/a>, she\u2019ll simply tell you to meet her some other day, just to show you that she has a busy schedule and that she is not ready to move anything for you.<\/p>\n

This girl won\u2019t reschedule your date because she doesn\u2019t want to see you\u2014the truth is that she\u2019ll do it to appear as more busy and popular than she actually is.<\/p>\n

Sus amigos saben todo sobre ti<\/h2>\n

\"tres
\nCuando a una chica le gusta un chico, es posible que no se lo diga o se lo demuestre, a pesar de la qu\u00edmica entre ellos<\/a>.<\/p>\n

But one thing is for sure\u2014she will tell her friends all about you and all about her feelings.<\/p>\n

Therefore, if there is a girl who tries hard to ignore you and doesn\u2019t give you the attention you want but her friends know all about you, it is clear that she is only playing hard to get.<\/p>\n

Her friends call you by your name even if they meet you for the first time and before you\u2019ve introduced yourself officially, they tell you some details about you which they couldn\u2019t know unless she had told them and they are indirectly asking you about your love life.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, se burlan de vosotros dos y act\u00faan como si fuerais una pareja feliz.<\/p>\n

Lo que tienes que entender es que esta chica se est\u00e1 haciendo la dura delante de ti pero le gustas mucho y simplemente tiene la necesidad de hablar de ti a las personas cercanas a ella.<\/p>\n

Nunca te manda un mensaje o te llama primero<\/h2>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s face it\u2014the process of modern dating is mostly based on text messages.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que este es uno de los primeros campos en los que cualquier chica que se est\u00e9 haciendo la dura querr\u00e1 demostrar su dominio en esta relaci\u00f3n y el poder que tiene sobre ti.<\/p>\n

You need to accept one thing\u2014this girl will probably never be the first one to text you or to call you.<\/p>\n

La \u00fanica vez que puede hacer esto es cuando realmente necesita preguntarte algo o decirte algo importante.<\/p>\n

It means that she will never call or text you just to see what you\u2019ve been up to or to see how your day was and she definitely won\u2019t be sending you the textos dulces y coquetos<\/a> que cabr\u00eda esperar. Adem\u00e1s, nunca responder\u00e1 a tus mensajes de inmediato.<\/p>\n

I know you think this is a clear sign she doesn\u2019t give a damn about you but there is a difference between her behavior and the behavior of a girl who wants you to leave her alone for real.<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, esta chica nunca es la que inicia ning\u00fan tipo de comunicaci\u00f3n, pero cuando eres t\u00fa el que inicia alg\u00fan tipo de comunicaci\u00f3n, ella sigue contest\u00e1ndote.<\/p>\n

When you come to think of it, this girl has never actually ignored your texts or phone calls and you see that she is not being polite only\u2014she really enjoys talking to you.<\/p>\n

She just doesn\u2019t want to seem too desperate so she is always letting you make the first move.<\/p>\n

Su comportamiento en las redes sociales<\/h2>\n

\"joven
\nIf you\u2019ve been asking yourself whether a girl really doesn\u2019t want to be with you or if she is just haci\u00e9ndose el duro,<\/a> tienes que prestar mucha atenci\u00f3n a su comportamiento en las redes sociales.<\/p>\n

En primer lugar, nunca ser\u00e1 la primera en enviarte una solicitud de amistad.<\/p>\n

E incluso cuando hagas este movimiento, probablemente te dejar\u00e1 colgado durante un par de d\u00edas.<\/p>\n

Pero al final, aceptar\u00e1 tu solicitud de amistad y te seguir\u00e1 tambi\u00e9n en las redes sociales.<\/p>\n

Aunque esta chica nunca te dir\u00e1 sus sentimientos en voz alta, puede que publique actualizaciones de estado y canciones que le recuerden a ti y que est\u00e9n claramente dedicadas a ti.<\/p>\n

Una de las razones por las que hace esto es porque quiere enviarte algunas se\u00f1ales y porque quiere que sepas que le gustas sin ser ella quien te lo diga.<\/p>\n

Also, this girl is the first one to look at your Instagram or Snapchat stories and sometimes she talks to you about some of the things you\u2019ve posted on your pages. But she will rarely like your posts and photos.<\/p>\n

This only shows you that this girl is obviously way interested in your life but she doesn\u2019t want for this to be known and displayed.<\/p>\n

Sigues encontr\u00e1ndote con ella<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

When you ask this girl out on a first date, to a concert or to any kind of event, it is possible that she will say \u201cno\u201d.<\/p>\n

Pero de alguna manera, cuando vas all\u00ed, ella es la primera persona con la que te encuentras.<\/p>\n

Y a ti te sigue pasando lo mismo. Sigues encontr\u00e1ndote con esta chica donde quiera que vayas.<\/p>\n

And you never see her looking bad\u2014you see that she is always doing her best to look great, as if she knows she will see you.<\/p>\n

Well, the truth is that she couldn\u2019t know for sure that she would run into you but she definitely hopes that this will happen.<\/p>\n

This girl doesn\u2019t want to go out with you because that would be a clear sign she likes you but at the same time, she can\u2019t resist the urge to see you and she wants to be seen by you.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que se asegura de ir a los lugares donde podr\u00eda toparse contigo accidentalmente.<\/p>\n

De este modo, pasa tiempo contigo sin tener que comprometerse a salir contigo o algo similar.<\/p>\n

Nunca te da una respuesta directa<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Aunque le digas a esta chica que te gusta y que quieres que seamos algo m\u00e1s que amigos y aunque le preguntes si siente algo por ti, nunca te da una respuesta clara.<\/p>\n

Este tipo de comportamiento es uno de los m\u00e1s claros se\u00f1ales de que le gustas a una chica<\/a> pero se est\u00e1 haciendo el duro.<\/p>\n

If this girl didn\u2019t have any feelings for you, this would be the perfect time for her to make this clear.<\/p>\n

She would tell you that she didn\u2019t like you and she would advise you to move on.<\/p>\n

Pero est\u00e1 claro que no es el caso de esta chica. Te est\u00e1 dando esas respuestas vagas porque todav\u00eda no est\u00e1 preparada para admitir sus sentimientos pero, al mismo tiempo, lo \u00faltimo que quiere es que te alejes de ella.<\/p>\n

Intencionadamente te pone celoso<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Otra se\u00f1al de que le gustas a una chica pero se est\u00e1 haciendo la dif\u00edcil es la forma en que habla con otros chicos en tu presencia.<\/p>\n

Esta chica har\u00e1 todo lo posible para ponerte celoso intencionadamente, al menos un poco.<\/p>\n

Quiere demostrarte que otros tambi\u00e9n est\u00e1n interesados en ella y que no eres la \u00fanica opci\u00f3n que tiene.<\/p>\n

Esta noci\u00f3n aumenta su confianza en s\u00ed misma y la hace parecer menos pat\u00e9tica a tus ojos.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, representa su red de seguridad, si se da el caso de que est\u00e9s saliendo con otras chicas.<\/p>\n

If she finds out that she hasn\u2019t been your priority, she will feel better about herself knowing that you thought she was interested in other guys as well.<\/p>\n

But this girl will never cross the line\u2014she won\u2019t tell you that she has a boyfriend or that she is in a committed, long-term relationship because that would probably chase you away or make her look bad.<\/p>\n

En cambio, es posible que flirtee con otros chicos cuando sepa que la est\u00e1s mirando o que te muestre accidentalmente los mensajes de texto que le ha estado enviando alg\u00fan chico que est\u00e1 loco por ella.<\/p>\n

Es posible que publique fotos en las redes sociales en las que no quede claro si est\u00e1 sentada junto a una amiga o junto a un novio.<\/p>\n

She is doing this because she simply wants you to know that she has other options and that she won\u2019t settle for you treating her badly because she has nowhere to go.<\/p>\n

En lugar de eso, te est\u00e1 demostrando que deber\u00edas tener suerte de que te dedique algo de su atenci\u00f3n o de su tiempo.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, espera que te pongas celoso y que reacciones a su comportamiento porque necesita la aprobaci\u00f3n de que te gusta lo suficiente y que la quieres s\u00f3lo para ti.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 15 se\u00f1ales de que te ama profundamente<\/a><\/p>\n

Prolonga el contacto f\u00edsico real<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Cuando una chica se hace la dif\u00edcil, nunca tendr\u00e1 un contacto f\u00edsico concreto contigo de inmediato.<\/p>\n

This means that she probably won\u2019t kiss you and she definitely won\u2019t sleep with you immediately.<\/p>\n

But this girl\u2019s lenguaje corporal<\/a> te mostrar\u00e1 su deseo de hacer todo esto.<\/p>\n

Te tocar\u00e1 accidentalmente o te abrazar\u00e1 o te coger\u00e1 de la mano un poco m\u00e1s cada vez que os ve\u00e1is.<\/p>\n

Siempre que te hable, estar\u00e1 cerca de tu cara e incluso te susurrar\u00e1 al o\u00eddo.<\/p>\n

She will use every opportunity to casually touch your hand, knee or shoulder whenever she\u2019s around you, without giving any importance to any of this, which will make you wonder if you are actually imagining everything.<\/p>\n

Well, the answer is \u201cno\u201d because these are things a girl would never do to a man she didn\u2019t like.<\/p>\n

Relacionado: 8 se\u00f1ales inequ\u00edvocas de que una mujer quiere acostarse contigo pero intenta ocultarlo<\/a><\/p>\n

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