{"id":19481,"date":"2020-06-05T08:52:39","date_gmt":"2020-06-05T08:52:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19481"},"modified":"2022-02-26T21:57:48","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T21:57:48","slug":"estar-con-un-hombre-que-no-tenga-miedo-de-mostrar-su-lado-vulnerable","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/estar-con-un-hombre-que-no-tenga-miedo-de-mostrar-su-lado-vulnerable\/","title":{"rendered":"Estar con un hombre que no tema mostrarte su lado vulnerable"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Cuando eras peque\u00f1a, ve\u00edas y le\u00edas cuentos de hadas.<\/p>\n<p>Viste c\u00f3mo una bella princesa era rescatada por un pr\u00edncipe fuerte, valiente e intr\u00e9pido. Y los dos vivieron felices para siempre.<\/p>\n<p>Y a medida que crec\u00edas, segu\u00edas viendo pel\u00edculas rom\u00e1nticas. En todas ellas, la chica era inocente y sensible, mientras que el protagonista masculino era un tipo duro que ven\u00eda a salvar el d\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p>Y ninguno de estos escenarios presentaba a un hombre como vulnerable, como si eso le hiciera d\u00e9bil.<\/p>\n<p>And with time, you\u2019ve adopted this concept of gender roles as something normal and natural, while it is actually anything but that.<\/p>\n<p>And deep down, this is exactly what you wanted for yourself. Of course, you never expected for your life to be a fairy tale\u2014you always knew you couldn\u2019t find your Mr. Perfect.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96174\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-wearing-white-dress-leaning-on-her-knee-closed-eyes-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con vestido blanco apoyada en su rodilla ojos cerrados\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-wearing-white-dress-leaning-on-her-knee-closed-eyes-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-wearing-white-dress-leaning-on-her-knee-closed-eyes-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-wearing-white-dress-leaning-on-her-knee-closed-eyes-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Pero siempre estabas buscando a tu pr\u00edncipe azul y siempre asumiste que \u00e9ste era el \u00fanico tipo de hombre que pod\u00eda darte tu <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/por-tu-culpa-ya-no-creo-en-los-finales-felices\/\">final feliz<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><b>You wanted to have this fearless, tough man by your side, who would be the savior you\u2019ve waited for all along.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>With time, you\u2019ve started adding different qualities to this imaginary guy\u2019s personality.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve imagined the way he should look and the way he should treat you but the premise has always remained the same.<\/p>\n<p>Y la sociedad moderna ha apoyado sus opiniones. Todo el mundo insinuaba c\u00f3mo deb\u00eda ser un hombre de verdad.<\/p>\n<p>Todo el mundo te dir\u00eda que tiene que hacerte sentir como una mujer y que necesitas un hombre de verdad a tu lado.<\/p>\n<p><b>Este hombre debe ser fuerte f\u00edsica y emocionalmente. Debe ser alguien en quien siempre puedas confiar y que siempre te cubra las espaldas, pase lo que pase.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96175\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-protects-hid-girlfriend-and-hugs-1.jpg\" alt=\"el hombre protege a su novia escondida y la abraza\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-protects-hid-girlfriend-and-hugs-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-protects-hid-girlfriend-and-hugs-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-protects-hid-girlfriend-and-hugs-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And all of this is true\u2014you need someone like this. <b>But this doesn\u2019t mean that this man doesn\u2019t have emotions.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>This doesn\u2019t mean this man can\u2019t be sad, hurt or disappointed. It doesn\u2019t mean he never cries and it definitely doesn\u2019t mean he doesn\u2019t fight his own insecurities.<\/b><b><br \/>\n<\/b><br \/>\n<b>It doesn\u2019t mean that a guy is less of a man if he has emotions, if he allows them to control him from time to time and if he shows and verbalizes these emotions.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>En cambio, lo convierte en un hombre digno de su tiempo y sus esfuerzos.<\/p>\n<p>If a man isn\u2019t afraid to show you his vulnerable side, <b>es una clara se\u00f1al de que cree en ti.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>This man is not afraid that you\u2019ll use his secrets against him and he doesn\u2019t fear that you\u2019ll take advantage of his weaknesses.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96176\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Couple-of-mixed-races-standing-face-to-face..jpg\" alt=\"Pareja de mestizos frente a frente.\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Couple-of-mixed-races-standing-face-to-face..jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Couple-of-mixed-races-standing-face-to-face.-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Couple-of-mixed-races-standing-face-to-face.-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Te cree hasta el punto de estar seguro de que puede mostrarte su verdadero yo, sin miedo a ser juzgado o ridiculizado.<\/p>\n<p>Est\u00e1 seguro<b> puede confiar en ti,<\/b> pase lo que pase, y te considera una persona especial en su vida y por eso quiere que conozcas la esencia de su personalidad.<\/p>\n<p>Este hombre es obviamente <b>en contacto con sus emociones<\/b> y significa que entender\u00e1 mejor a los tuyos. Significa que tendr\u00e1 menos posibilidades de ser ego\u00edsta y egoc\u00e9ntrico porque probablemente sea emp\u00e1tico.<\/p>\n<p>Significa que es honesto y que nunca huye de sus sentimientos. Significa que te respeta lo suficiente como para no fingir que es alguien que no es.<\/p>\n<p>It means he is confident enough to show you his true colors and that he doesn\u2019t need you or anyone else around him assuring him he is a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/45-cosas-que-los-hombres-de-verdad\/\">hombre de verdad<\/a>...porque sabe qui\u00e9n es.<\/p>\n<p>Although you may think of this man as being too weak, trust me, you couldn\u2019t be more wrong. His strength can be best seen in his vulnerability.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo te demuestra que es lo bastante fuerte como para reconocer sus emociones m\u00e1s profundas, afrontarlas por s\u00ed mismo y compartirlas contigo.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96178\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Handsome-guy-looking-at-distance.jpg\" alt=\"Chico guapo mirando a lo lejos\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Handsome-guy-looking-at-distance.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Handsome-guy-looking-at-distance-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Handsome-guy-looking-at-distance-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Y este es exactamente el tipo de hombre que necesitas en tu vida y el tipo de hombre que te har\u00e1 sentir la mujer m\u00e1s feliz del mundo.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Although it doesn\u2019t seem this way, this guy will be your rock for the rest of your life. He will be your biggest support, no matter what you are going through in life.<\/p>\n<p>Este ser\u00e1 el hombre en el que siempre confiar\u00e1s y el hombre en el que siempre podr\u00e1s confiar. El hombre que ser\u00e1 tu puerto de paz y tu ancla.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que, por favor, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/dejo-de-elegir-a-los-tipos-equivocados\/\">deja de perseguir a los tipos equivocados<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><b>Deja de ir detr\u00e1s de chicos malos que te dan emoci\u00f3n y deja de enga\u00f1arte pensando que uno de esos chicos es tu pr\u00edncipe azul. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Deja de perseguir a tipos duros que no te muestran emociones s\u00f3lo porque alguien te dijo que eso los hace hombres m\u00e1s grandes.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Because trust me\u2014it doesn\u2019t and it never will.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-96181 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Be-With-A-Man-Who-Won\u2019t-Be-Afraid-To-Show-You-His-Vulnerable-Side-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Estar con un hombre que no tema mostrarte su lado vulnerable\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Be-With-A-Man-Who-Won\u2019t-Be-Afraid-To-Show-You-His-Vulnerable-Side-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Be-With-A-Man-Who-Won\u2019t-Be-Afraid-To-Show-You-His-Vulnerable-Side-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Be-With-A-Man-Who-Won\u2019t-Be-Afraid-To-Show-You-His-Vulnerable-Side-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Be-With-A-Man-Who-Won\u2019t-Be-Afraid-To-Show-You-His-Vulnerable-Side-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Be-With-A-Man-Who-Won\u2019t-Be-Afraid-To-Show-You-His-Vulnerable-Side-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Be-With-A-Man-Who-Won\u2019t-Be-Afraid-To-Show-You-His-Vulnerable-Side-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you were a little girl, you watched and read fairy tales. You watched a beautiful princess being rescued by a strong, brave and fearless prince. And the two of them lived happily ever after. And as you grew older, you continued watching romantic movies. In all of these movies, the girl was innocent and&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":96179,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19481","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Be-With-A-Man-Who-Won\u2019t-Be-Afraid-To-Show-You-His-Vulnerable-Side.jpg",800,537,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19481","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19481"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19481\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/96179"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19481"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19481"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19481"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}