{"id":19499,"date":"2018-06-05T10:16:33","date_gmt":"2018-06-05T10:16:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19499"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:04:38","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:04:38","slug":"caiste-y-ahora-es-el-momento-de-levantarse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/caiste-y-ahora-es-el-momento-de-levantarse\/","title":{"rendered":"Ca\u00edste y ahora es el momento de levantarse"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It started like a bright, warm, summer\u2019s day. He was charming and he made you feel like no other man ever had. Together, you shared important personal experiences and he seemed to be everything you had ever wanted. In the beginning, he was always there for you. He was always making you laugh and complimenting you on your beauty. He told you that he had never met a girl like you before and that he could see himself marrying you one day. Piece by piece, you became a part of his world\u2014the world of a narcissist.<\/p>\n<p>And without realizing it, the dark clouds began to roll in and slowly he became the drug that you couldn&#8217;t live without.<\/p>\n<p>When he wanted you, you had to be there. And when he needed you, you had to be there. But, more importantly, you wanted to be there because you cared for him and wanted to be there to look after him. However, if you couldn&#8217;t be there for him exactly when he called, he became angry. He would threaten you and others he knew were important to you and he would enjoy making you cry by calling you names, telling you that you were worthless, and that nobody else would ever want you.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s when the small patters of rain began to fall.<\/p>\n<p>He would discard you for days at a time and then make you sit and listen to every detail of his latest intimate conquests. He explained to you that these relations with other girls were necessary due to you being unable to satisfy his needs, even though he was the one who had chosen to cut you off. You later found out that these &#8216;other girls&#8217; were more than just flings, that he was also in &#8216;committed&#8217; relationships with them. He twisted their minds too and in order to save him from the erupting explosion of emotion, you lied for him because you loved him that much.<\/p>\n<p>Entonces las nubes de lluvia se convirtieron en tormenta. Empezaron los rel\u00e1mpagos y t\u00fa entraste en p\u00e1nico y buscaste refugio, pero de repente te diste cuenta de que estabas a la intemperie sin ning\u00fan sitio donde esconderte.<\/p>\n<p>Se aseguraba de que siempre estuvieras equivocado y de que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/odio-hacer-sentir-culpa\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">todo fue siempre culpa tuya<\/a>. Te aplast\u00f3 de todas las maneras posibles y trat\u00f3 de hacerte tropezar en cada oportunidad posible hasta que, finalmente, ca\u00edste. Ca\u00edste en el diluvio de la tormenta que \u00e9l hab\u00eda creado.<\/p>\n<p>Pero recuerda esto: no ca\u00edste porque fueras d\u00e9bil, sino porque \u00e9l utiliz\u00f3 tu amor por \u00e9l como un arma contra ti para derribarte.<\/p>\n<p>Y cuando las aguas de la inundaci\u00f3n empezaron a retroceder, te diste cuenta de que estabas arrodillada sola, porque \u00e9l nunca tuvo intenci\u00f3n de estar ah\u00ed para mantenerte a salvo ni para amarte. Te dijo que lo eras todo para \u00e9l, pero te minti\u00f3.<\/p>\n<p>Y ahora, en el presente, est\u00e1s en tu punto m\u00e1s bajo. S\u00e9 que sientes que nunca vas a encontrar a nadie tan perfecto para ti como lo era \u00e9l. Cualquier otra persona que pueda ser tan buen amigo para ti. Nadie m\u00e1s que te comprenda como \u00e9l lo hac\u00eda. Nadie m\u00e1s que te haga re\u00edr y sonre\u00edr como \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>Pero lo har\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p>Y hasta que lo encuentras, te tienes a ti mismo. Empiezas a darte cuenta de que eres perfecto y de que te comprendes. La luz de tu nueva vida empezar\u00e1 a irradiar desde tu interior, debido a las sonrisas que creas. Te ayudar\u00e1s a ti mismo a levantarte del suelo en el que actualmente est\u00e1s arrodillado y con el tiempo aprender\u00e1s lentamente a amar la vida de nuevo. Ser\u00e1 duro y puede parecer que el viaje nunca terminar\u00e1, pero un d\u00eda, algo cambiar\u00e1 y acabar\u00e1s ese d\u00eda sintiendo el primer alivio de tu pesadilla. Y a partir de ese momento, todo ser\u00e1 m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil.<\/p>\n<p>Y entonces, un d\u00eda, lo encontrar\u00e1s. El amor te buscar\u00e1, y te encontrar\u00e1, y despu\u00e9s de todo lo que has pasado, la vida te dar\u00e1 por fin tu mayor premio. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/8-things-happen-meet-nice-guy-narcissistic-relationship\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Ser\u00e1 perfecto para ti<\/a>. Ser\u00e1 tu mejor amigo, te entender\u00e1 m\u00e1s que nadie y se asegurar\u00e1 de que nunca dejes de sonre\u00edr. Para \u00e9l, si dejas de sonre\u00edr todo su mundo se detendr\u00e1. \u00c9l ser\u00e1 la \u00faltima pieza de tu puzzle y ser\u00e1 quien finalmente te ayude a levantarte.<\/p>\n<p>En el pasado ca\u00edste, y ahora es el momento de empezar a levantarte hacia tu futuro.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><strong>by\u00a0Amy Frankland<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It started like a bright, warm, summer\u2019s day. He was charming and he made you feel like no other man ever had. 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