{"id":19519,"date":"2018-06-06T09:39:53","date_gmt":"2018-06-06T09:39:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19519"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:02:56","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:02:56","slug":"5-senales-de-que-merece-la-pena-luchar-por-tu-relacion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-senales-de-que-merece-la-pena-luchar-por-tu-relacion\/","title":{"rendered":"5 se\u00f1ales de que vale la pena luchar por tu relaci\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I think we can all agree that beginnings of relationship are almost magical. We are craving each other and looking forward to spending every single minute together\u2014the beauty of the honeymoon phase.<\/p>\n<p><strong>But what happens once it\u2019s over?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00bfC\u00f3mo saber si su relaci\u00f3n sigue siendo <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/7-senales-de-que-ya-no-merece-la-pena-luchar-por-una-relacion\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">por la que merece la pena luchar<\/a>? \u00bfC\u00f3mo sabe que lo que tiene es aut\u00e9ntico y no una simple comodidad que amenaza con desvanecerse en la nada?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Well, first of all you need to stand aside and look at yourself, look at him and look at you two as a couple. Are you looking miserable or you\u2019re genuinely happy? And I don\u2019t mean every-single-moment-of-a-day happy. I\u2019m thinking about that overall happiness. The one that finds a way to come back after the rough times, the one that\u2019s always kind of there as long as you two are together.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If you have that kind of happiness, you\u2019re already halfway there. The rest of the road is these five signs:<\/strong><\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>1. When you see yourself being happy in the future, he\u2019s next to you<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>As much as this sounds like a clich\u00e9, this is the most adorable and surefire sign that your relationship is worth fighting for. If you can\u2019t see him by your side when you\u2019re thinking about the future, he\u2019s not the one.<\/p>\n<p>As someone who is almost annoyingly independent, I know how hard it is to see yourself next to someone and trust them that they\u2019ll actually be there. But this is one rule I always follow, because in the end, it turns out that they weren\u2019t the one after all. I do believe in love, but not when you\u2019re surrounded with wrong people who don\u2019t make you happy.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>2. Todav\u00eda sientes mariposas cuando hace algo bonito<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>No matter how much time has passed, there are still chills and butterflies. You know, when he remembers something you said a long time ago and you can literally feel the warmth washing you over and threatening to burn you inside out. When he takes a stand for you and you can feel tears forming in corners of your eyes and you know those are happy tears. When he hugs you and you feel like you can drown in his embrace for all eternity. That\u2019s worth fighting for. That\u2019s love right there.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>3. Los compromisos son f\u00e1ciles para ambos<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>La mejor se\u00f1al de que una relaci\u00f3n es sana es la forma en que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/9-compromisos-nunca-hacen-relacion\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">compromiso<\/a>. If there\u2019s no holding grudges when you do it, it means that you truly care about each other and your relationship. It means that you two have something extraordinary, something definitely worth fighting for. And the most important thing here is that both of you compromise, both of you make sacrifices for your relationship. If you\u2019re the only one who\u2019s doing it, that\u2019s nothing more than a one-sided relationship which is definitely NOT worth the fight.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>4. You don\u2019t always agree, but you find a way<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>The beauty of relationships and love is in all those little differences that define who we are. Of course, you need to be compatible in order to work it out, but more than once, you found yourself at complete opposite points of view. But you don\u2019t call it quits. You don\u2019t just give up on your relationship when you hit a bump on the road. You find a way to overcome it, whether it\u2019s finding one solution, compromising or agreeing that you disagree, but you care more about each other than you care about the fight. Finding a way rather than giving up is a clear sign that you already know you have something worth fighting for.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>5. You feel like yourself when you\u2019re with him<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>You have no problem in wearing pajamas all day or rocking that red dress you know will make his jaw drop. You have no problem wearing sweats or suits because no matter how you look, no matter what you wear, you always feel like yourself. You always feel accepted and loved, no matter what. And even when you two are in fight, you know he will go out of his way to make sure you\u2019re okay. Just because he is angry doesn\u2019t mean <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/12-sure-fire-signs-he-doesnt-care-about-you-move-on\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">he doesn\u2019t care<\/a>. And that\u2019s what true love is all about. Being yourself with someone who is not afraid to be himself with you.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I think we can all agree that beginnings of relationship are almost magical. We are craving each other and looking forward to spending every single minute together\u2014the beauty of the honeymoon phase. But what happens once it\u2019s over? How do you know if your relationship is still worth fighting for? How do you know that&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":19520,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19519","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/tiko-giorgadze-400759-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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