Por supuesto que no. Pero lo hacen de todos modos, y hay un mont\u00f3n de hombres t\u00f3xicos por ah\u00ed que utilizan doble rasero<\/span><\/a> en las relaciones a su favor.<\/p>\n Uno supondr\u00eda que en este siglo las cosas cambiar\u00edan y el doble rasero ser\u00eda cosa del pasado.<\/p>\n Pero, por desgracia, hay se\u00f1ales de alarma de este tipo de comportamiento en todo el mundo.<\/p>\n As\u00ed que ten cuidado e investiga los signos t\u00f3xicos de la doble moral en las relaciones que nunca deber\u00edas tolerar.<\/p>\n Lista de dobles raseros en las relaciones rom\u00e1nticas:<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n Cuando conf\u00edas en tu relaci\u00f3n<\/span><\/a>, other male or female friendships of your significant other won\u2019t be an issue.<\/p>\n La mayor diferencia entre hombres y mujeres aqu\u00ed es que a las mujeres se las tacha de celosas y locas por siquiera pensar que all\u00ed pueda estar pasando algo que supere la amistad.<\/p>\n Por otro lado, los hombres buscan comprensi\u00f3n porque se sienten amenazados por toda la situaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n Your partner shouldn\u2019t ask you to ditch your guy friends just because the two of you are exclusive now.<\/strong><\/p>\n He should understand that your male friends were in your life long before him and if you wanted to have something more than friendship, you already would\u2019ve.<\/em><\/p>\n It\u2019s not okay for him to ask you to tolerate something he is unable to. Protect your friendships and don\u2019t risk losing a good friend for someone who clearly doesn\u2019t trust you.<\/p>\n A good partner understands that you’ve had a long life before him and during that time you’ve cultivated many friendships.<\/p>\n Some of them are with men who ended up being among your closest friends. If he trusts you, he knows you’d never do anything to endanger your relationship.<\/p>\n If he doesn’t, he’ll pressure you to stop seeing your guy friends.<\/p>\n It’s up to you to decide who gets to control your life and your friend group. And that person should be you and you only, so make it known.<\/p>\n It\u2019s funny how in this day and age, women are looked at differently and called bitches just because they dare to stand for what they believe in.<\/p>\n El hombre que te llama bocazas y quiere coartar tu libertad de expresi\u00f3n definitivamente no es el hombre para ti.<\/strong><\/p>\n La \u00fanica opini\u00f3n que le interesa es la suya y no tiene ning\u00fan inter\u00e9s en escuchar lo que tienes que decir.<\/p>\n Tambi\u00e9n hay hombres que se dejan intimidar por los fuertes, mujeres inteligentes<\/b><\/a> y hombres as\u00ed no son con los que deber\u00edas salir.<\/strong><\/p>\n And you need to realize that those men aren’t macho and confident; they’re weak and they’re cowards.<\/p>\n They feel threatened by a woman who’s powerful and opinionated, and they make her feel bad about it to boost their own fragile ego.<\/p>\n Recognize a weak man when he tries to diminish a strong woman’s flame. A real man builds his woman up and pushes her to be her best self.<\/strong><\/p>\n Un hombre d\u00e9bil la menosprecia, la hace sentir mal por ser fuerte y la llama zorra.<\/p>\n I think it’s time this charade stops and the only way that’s ever going to happen is when each woman speaks up.<\/p>\n But if a woman had to admit it openly, she\u2019d be slut-shamed. She would be labeled as \u201ceasy\u201d or called all sorts of names.<\/p>\n Yes, this still happens. It doesn\u2019t seem quite fair, does it? It\u2019s because it isn\u2019t and women should be able to decide who they sleep with and when, just like men do.<\/strong><\/p>\n If you\u2019re dating someone who\u2019s putting you down because your number of past intimate partners is high (and\/or current for non-exclusive, open relationships), you\u2019re dealing with the wrong man.<\/p>\n Esto nunca deber\u00eda ser un problema. Tu vida de alcoba o tu pasado nunca deber\u00edan ir en tu contra.<\/strong><\/p>\n Some find love with their high school sweetheart and some find it later on. Your number will probably depend on that and that\u2019s not something you should be ashamed of.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t tolerate that kind of behavior.Don’t ever let a man tell you you’re a slut for having had the exact same number of intimate partners as him. Be proud of your choices and stand behind them no matter what. If he has a problem with that, he’s a prick with no respect and no morals. You need un hombre de verdad<\/span><\/a>, and that’s not him.<\/p>\n It\u2019s more than obvious that men and women look at things differently, but nobody should be judged for what they do in their spare time.<\/p>\n If a man you\u2019re dating expects you to understand him being a gamer, he should understand your urge to go shopping, on a girl\u2019s night out, mountain climbing, or whatever your favorite pastime is.<\/strong><\/p>\n Remind him that you don\u2019t get his urge to play games, but you respect it. In the same way, he should respect your interests, too, and let you enjoy your life on your own terms.<\/p>\n They\u2019ll celebrate each other\u2019s victories and never feel intimidated by the other\u2019s success.<\/p>\n That is, providing that you\u2019re never too busy to sustain a relationship and find time for each other, because what\u2019s the point of being in a relationship if you never see your partner?<\/p>\n Sin embargo, si la relaci\u00f3n no es sana y te encuentras con alguien t\u00f3xico<\/b><\/a>el doble rasero ser\u00e1 bastante obvio.<\/strong><\/p>\n Your partner won\u2019t be the wind beneath your wings that helps you fly. He\u2019ll be the one pinning you to the ground.<\/p>\n Te har\u00e1 sentir que no eres lo suficientemente competente o bueno para tener \u00e9xito.<\/p>\n That\u2019s exactly the thing you shouldn\u2019t tolerate. Be with someone who always pushes you to do more and be more because he sees all the potential and all the greatness within you.<\/p>\n Be with someone who doesn\u2019t see your success as his failure.<\/p>\n Defenderte a ti misma y tu derecho a trabajar tan duro como los hombres, y a ser igualmente respetada, allana el camino para que las mujeres j\u00f3venes del mundo encuentren su camino y no tengan que soportar las tonter\u00edas que t\u00fa y el resto de nosotras soportamos.<\/p>\n Cosas como cocinar y limpiar deben implicar a ambos miembros de la pareja.<\/p>\n Lo mismo debe hacerse con los d\u00edas de pereza, a los que ambos miembros de la pareja tienen el mismo derecho.<\/p>\n Nadie est\u00e1 por encima de nadie y ya han pasado los tiempos en que las mujeres atend\u00edan todas las necesidades de los hombres. Mala suerte, chicos.<\/strong><\/p>\n Dos personas en una relaci\u00f3n son socios y ambos tienen que invertir en su relaci\u00f3n y hacer el esfuerzo necesario.<\/p>\n So, take turns in doing everything, be both hardworking and lazy together. If he doesn\u2019t agree with that, teach him how to take care of himself by leaving him all on his own<\/p>\n Una vez que un hombre se queda solo, teniendo que cocinar, limpiar y ocuparse \u00e9l solo de las tareas cotidianas, s\u00f3lo entonces se da cuenta del esfuerzo que ponen las mujeres en todo lo que hacen.<\/strong><\/p>\n Damn straight we deserve to have our lazy days where we don’t have to dress up for anyone, impress anyone’s friends, and act in a way that pleases those around.<\/p>\n Nosotras merecemos nuestros d\u00edas libres m\u00e1s que los hombres por la cantidad de esfuerzo que ponemos en todo s\u00f3lo para ser tratadas con la mitad de respeto.<\/p>\n On the other hand, he is unable to understand your need to do the same with your female friends. It\u2019s hypocritical, to say the least.<\/p>\n If he expects you to trust him when he\u2019s out salir con los amigos<\/a>Si se va de fiesta con todas esas mujeres que le rodean, tambi\u00e9n deber\u00eda confiar en ti con respecto a los hombres.<\/p>\n It\u2019s not okay to have different sets of standards for you and for him. Once again, let me stress the importance of the word equality in a relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n If he gets to go out and let loose, so do you. If he gets to party until the wee hours of the night, so do you! No apologies. No pressure to be ”better” and no nothing.<\/p>\n S\u00f3lo dos compa\u00f1eros disfrutando de su vida de forma igualitaria y justa. Al primer atisbo de \u00e9l sugiriendo lo contrario, tienes que mostrarle la puerta y <\/span>nunca mires atr\u00e1s<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n They\u2019ll even follow up that long stare with random comments about how her butt looks nice or how beautiful she is.<\/p>\n On the other hand, if an attractive man passes by and you give him nothing more than a gaze, most men won\u2019t even think twice about calling you out on it.<\/p>\n They\u2019ll be unable to understand why you have the necessity to check out some random guy.<\/p>\n Hello? He\u2019s done the same exact thing just the other day to a woman he barely knows in your presence. Don\u2019t tolerate his double standards.<\/strong><\/p>\n Expl\u00edcale que \u00e9l ha hecho lo mismo y que t\u00fa lo superaste, y que si \u00e9l puede controlar sus ojos desviados, t\u00fa tambi\u00e9n lo har\u00e1s.<\/p>\n The other solution might be accepting that checking somebody out doesn\u2019t have any connection with your relationship or mutual feelings.<\/p>\n Fijarse en otra persona es algo natural.<\/p>\n Chasing after somebody else while in a relationship is completely different, more serious, and unforgivable, and it shouldn\u2019t be confused with something as simple as a ojo errante<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n However, some people are able to stay in good relationships with their exes, but that relationship should never be more important than the one you\u2019re in now.<\/strong><\/p>\n Your new partner shouldn\u2019t feel like they come last and your ex first. There\u2019s a reason they\u2019re an ex.<\/p>\n But if your partner\u2019s using double standards here, he\u2019ll excuse his contact with his ex but harshly judge yours.<\/p>\n He\u2019ll blame you, and you\u2019re probably going to have a lot of fights that include the ex-factor.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t let him get away with it. What goes for you, goes for him too.<\/strong><\/p>\n Talk openly. Don\u2019t let your exes dictate your current relationship. You both should put your current relationship first.<\/p>\n Have you had enough of being treated differently simply because you’re a woman?<\/strong><\/p>\n If so, it’s time to recognize that, speak up, and start making a change.<\/p>\n It\u2019s time to stop putting up with that guy friend who’ll ”jokingly” say something that is totally sexist, long-term relationships where every single guy thinks he has the right to give input on your clothing choices and pressure you to be a stay-at-home woman.<\/em><\/p>\n It’s a very bad thing when your man makes you feel like the less capable partner and imposes those toxic double standards on you.<\/p>\n Las relaciones rom\u00e1nticas consisten en empujaros mutuamente a ser la mejor versi\u00f3n de vosotros mismos y levantaros el uno al otro.<\/p>\n Who made him the boss of you in the first place? Am I right? You’re the one who needs to show him what goes and what won’t fly.<\/p>\n1. When men have female friends, they expect you to look at it as something quite normal and acceptable, but you having male friends doesn\u2019t go so well with him.<\/h2>\n
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\nNo se trata s\u00f3lo de una cuesti\u00f3n de doble rasero en las relaciones, sino que tambi\u00e9n tiene todo que ver con la confianza.<\/p>\n2. When men are strongly opinionated, they\u2019re called driven, macho and confident. When women are strongly opinionated, they\u2019re called bitches.<\/h2>\n
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\nGran diferencia. Como si volviera la Edad Media y hubiera que impedir a las mujeres decir lo que piensan sin rodeos y directamente.<\/p>\n3. Cuando los hombres tienen un mayor n\u00famero de parejas \u00edntimas se les aplaude, pero a las mujeres con un n\u00famero similar se las averg\u00fcenza.<\/h2>\n
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\nWhen a man has seen more naked female bodies than he can count, he is a hero among his friends. He is a hot-shot and that\u2019s perfectly normal.<\/p>\n
\nEse tipo de comportamiento es atroz y s\u00f3lo nos hace retroceder en el tiempo.<\/p>\n4. When a man spends his entire day playing video games, that\u2019s totally okay, but when a woman spends her entire day shopping, she\u2019s superficial.<\/h2>\n
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\nThe thing is shopping, just as video games, are good pastime activities \u2013 something you do to relax and have some fun after all those hectic days.<\/p>\n5. When a woman works long hours she\u2019s scorned for being a careerist, and when a man does the same he\u2019s hardworking and praiseworthy.<\/h2>\n
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\nThere\u2019s nothing wrong with working hard and being ambitious. In a healthy relationship, partners will support and back each other up.<\/p>\n6. When a man spends his entire day doing nothing wearing his boxers shorts, it\u2019s cute. When a woman does the same wearing her PJs, she\u2019s lazy, sloppy, and entirely neglecting herself and her man.<\/h2>\n
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\nEsto tambi\u00e9n es algo que deber\u00eda quedar en el pasado. En esta \u00e9poca moderna, hombres y mujeres deber\u00edan ser iguales en todo, incluidas las tareas cotidianas.<\/p>\n7. Cuando pasa una noche de juerga con chicos, debes mostrarte comprensiva, pero cuando sales con chicas, muestra celos, enfado y frustraci\u00f3n.<\/h2>\n
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\nTalk about double standards in relationships. He\u2019s looking for understanding every time he\u2019s out with his male friends.<\/p>\n8. When it\u2019s okay for a guy to have a wandering eye, but not for a woman to have one too.<\/h2>\n
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\nCuando pasa una mujer atractiva, nueve de cada diez hombres la miran de arriba abajo, y no ven ning\u00fan problema en ello.<\/p>\n9. When he stays in contact with his ex, that\u2019s okay, but when you do the same, it\u2019s a lack of loyalty.<\/h2>\n
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\nIntroducir a tu ex en tu nueva relaci\u00f3n es algo complicado. No mucha gente puede manejarlo y causa confusi\u00f3n desde el principio.<\/p>\nReflexiones finales<\/h2>\n
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\nNow that you\u2019ve red this article ask yourself a few questions: \u00bfEst\u00e1s soportando la doble moral habitual en tu relaci\u00f3n?<\/strong><\/p>\n
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