{"id":19731,"date":"2018-06-12T08:23:03","date_gmt":"2018-06-12T08:23:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19731"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:59:57","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:59:57","slug":"no-quiero-un-cuento-de-hadas-quiero-algo-real","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-quiero-un-cuento-de-hadas-quiero-algo-real\/","title":{"rendered":"No quiero un cuento de hadas, quiero la realidad"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cuando era peque\u00f1a, imaginaba c\u00f3mo ser\u00eda mi vida y nunca pensaba en ella sin amor.<\/p>\n

Siempre consider\u00e9 que el amor era esa fuerza que lo mueve todo y a todos y, para m\u00ed, la vida sin amor no ten\u00eda ning\u00fan sentido.<\/p>\n

Pero nunca quise un amor normal y corriente. No, esto era demasiado aburrido para m\u00ed y estaba convencida de que quer\u00eda algo m\u00e1s.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Estaba convencida de que hab\u00eda nacido y estaba destinada a tener m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Y yo cre\u00eda que estaba destinada a vivir un romance de cuento de hadas, a experimentar un amor y una pasi\u00f3n sobrenaturales y a encontrar a mi pr\u00edncipe azul y a mi Sr. Perfecto.<\/p>\n

Para m\u00ed, todo lo dem\u00e1s era conformarse con menos.<\/strong> Representaba mezclarme con la masa y condenarme a tener una vida aburrida, regular y normal.<\/p>\n

Y eso era lo \u00faltimo que quer\u00eda para m\u00ed.<\/p>\n

No, I didn\u2019t want to live a calm and peaceful life. Instead, I wanted a storm.<\/p>\n

Quer\u00eda una monta\u00f1a rusa de emociones. Quer\u00eda sentir mariposas y quer\u00eda un hombre que me diera todo eso.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Y este hombre, obviamente, ten\u00eda que ser perfecto. Ten\u00eda que ajustarse a mis est\u00e1ndares imaginarios, tanto en su aspecto como en su personalidad.<\/p>\n

Ten\u00eda que ser guapo y educado, y ten\u00eda que tener las mismas actitudes ante la vida que yo. Tendr\u00eda que ser el perfecto mezcla entre un chico malo y un chico bueno<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Este tipo tendr\u00eda que ser divertido e intr\u00e9pido, pero emocional y vulnerable al mismo tiempo.<\/p>\n

Este tipo ten\u00eda que estar dispuesto a luchar contra el mundo s\u00f3lo para permanecer a mi lado. Por supuesto, encontrar\u00eda numerosos obst\u00e1culos en su camino hacia m\u00ed, pero todo ser\u00eda pan comido en contraste con el amor que sentir\u00eda por m\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Y sobre todo, me amar\u00eda incondicionalmente.<\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de luchar contra todos los obst\u00e1culos, vivir\u00edamos felices para siempre<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Y nuestra relaci\u00f3n ser\u00eda un cuento de hadas en la vida real. Nos amar\u00edamos hasta el fin de los tiempos y, por supuesto, nunca nos pelear\u00edamos ni estar\u00edamos en desacuerdo. En una palabra, todo ser\u00eda perfecto.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Y entonces crec\u00ed.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Y me di cuenta de que todo eso era pura mierda y que no ten\u00eda nada que ver con la vida real.<\/p>\n

This doesn\u2019t mean I lowered my expectations. It just means I adapted them.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I realized that love is not perfect and that it\u2019s not all flowers.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I realized that a perfect, fairytale relationship doesn\u2019t exist. I realized that there will be cloudy periods and tough phases in every relationship.<\/p>\n

I realized I can\u2019t find my perfect guy. And even if I could, this is not the man I want for myself.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want a puppet or a doll. I want a real man made of flesh. A man who will have his imperfections, which will make him so special. A man whose flaws I will love and who will love mine.<\/p>\n

So no, I don\u2019t want a fairytale romance. Instead, I want the real deal.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I want someone who won\u2019t love me any less when we disagree on something.<\/p>\n

I want someone who will perceive me as the human being I am. Someone who won\u2019t expect me to be perfect at all times and someone who won\u2019t judge every mistake I make.<\/p>\n

I want a man who will accept me for who I am. A man who will love me the same at my best and at my worst. A man who will love me the same in a fancy dress and with a ton of makeup on and in my pajamas with the flu. Someone who won\u2019t expect me to pretend I am something I am not just to impress him.<\/p>\n

Quiero a alguien que cuide de m\u00ed cuando est\u00e9 deprimida, que me cuide cuando est\u00e9 enferma y que me aguante cuando est\u00e9 nerviosa.<\/p>\n

And no, I don\u2019t want butterflies.<\/p>\n

Quiero un hombre que me tranquilice.<\/p>\n

Quiero a alguien que haga que la vida parezca menos dif\u00edcil y desafiante, y alguien cuya mano en mi mano haga que todo sea m\u00e1s soportable.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Porque al fin y al cabo, tener a alguien as\u00ed es lo \u00fanico que importa. Y es lo \u00fanico real.<\/strong> <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When I was a little girl, I imagined how my life would look and I never thought about it without love. I always considered love to be this force which moves everything and everyone and for me, life without love in it made no sense whatsoever. But I never wanted a regular, ordinary type of…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":19732,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19731","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/seth.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19731","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19731"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19731\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19732"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19731"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19731"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19731"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}