{"id":19754,"date":"2019-06-12T10:16:37","date_gmt":"2019-06-12T10:16:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19754"},"modified":"2022-01-14T01:05:08","modified_gmt":"2022-01-14T01:05:08","slug":"vuelve-a-verme-cuando-seas-la-antigua-version-de-ti-mismo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/vuelve-a-verme-cuando-seas-la-antigua-version-de-ti-mismo\/","title":{"rendered":"Encu\u00e9ntrame de nuevo cuando seas la versi\u00f3n antigua de ti mismo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>No hay nada peor ni m\u00e1s doloroso que la persona que conoc\u00edas mejor se convierta poco a poco en alguien que sol\u00edas conocer. No hay nada peor que mirar a alguien con quien conectaste en tantos niveles y no reconocerlo m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p><strong>There isn\u2019t anything worse than loving someone but having to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/head-says-let-go-heart-isnt-listening\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">d\u00e9jalo ir<\/a>. Y esto es lo que siento por ti y por nosotros ahora.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I honestly don\u2019t know what happened to us. We were soulmates, we used to understand each other with one simple look, you had my back and I had yours always.<\/p>\n<p>I didn\u2019t even need to think twice about what I meant to you, I knew I was your world, as I knew you were mine.<\/p>\n<p>Antes me respetabas mucho m\u00e1s. Yo era tu prioridad y pasara lo que pasara, siempre te pon\u00edas de mi lado.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca permitiste que nadie hablara mal a mis espaldas. Confiabas mucho m\u00e1s en m\u00ed, me quer\u00edas mucho m\u00e1s y me apreciabas mucho m\u00e1s que ahora.<\/p>\n<p><strong>We were partners. We shared everything and there wasn\u2019t a single struggle we didn\u2019t overcome together.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I used to lie awake at night and thank God for sending you my way. You were every woman\u2019s dream.<\/p>\n<p>And I hoped we\u2019d stay the way we were till the end of our lives. Only you could make me feel like I was the only woman in this world and honestly, nobody else made me feel the way you did, not now, not ever.<\/p>\n<p>Pero, poco a poco, nuestro cuento de hadas empez\u00f3 a desvanecerse. Nos parec\u00edamos m\u00e1s a esas parejas desdichadas que ya llevaban toda la vida juntas y que simplemente estaban hartas la una de la otra.<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s exactly what happened. We got fed up with each other. We started taking each other for granted.<\/p>\n<p>You no longer cared to impress me. You no longer cared whether I was happy or miserable. You\u2019d rather spend your time with someone else, while on the other side I\u2019d give anything just to have you next to me, as happy and as committed to me as you used to be.<\/p>\n<p>You no longer laugh at my jokes. Nothing I do is enough for you. The things that amused you before about me no longer awake any kind of emotions in you. No matter what I do, I can\u2019t bring the old you back.<\/p>\n<p>And frankly speaking, living with this new you is like living with a roommate who you don\u2019t like. You do all the chores together but you just avoid each other and hate each other\u2019s presence.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Me pregunto, \u00bfd\u00f3nde qued\u00f3 ese deseo ardiente que sent\u00edamos el uno por el otro?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong, I still love you. When you\u2019re near me I just want to run my hand through your hair. I just want you to pull me into your arms and to hug me.<\/p>\n<p>I still yearn for your lips pressed to mine. I\u2019d still give my life for you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>El \u00fanico futuro que veo es contigo. Y quiero estar a tu lado sin importar lo miserable que me sienta. Pero creo que ambos merecemos m\u00e1s que esto.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>See, I still love you but I no longer like you. I don\u2019t like this person you\u2019ve become. I don\u2019t like this man who doesn\u2019t see me.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t like this man who\u2019s taking me for granted. I don\u2019t like this man who chooses everyone else over me. I don\u2019t like this man who\u2019s making me feel like I\u2019m no longer loved or wanted.<\/p>\n<p><strong>We\u2019re both miserable in this relationship and that\u2019s why I need to let you go.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I need to let you go for the sake of our past. For the sake of all those beautiful moments, for the sake of our love. I don\u2019t want to stay long enough to wait until each and every nice moment we had is replaced by those ugly ones.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to forget what we had. But you can\u2019t expect me to let you live on the glory of past days. I know how capable of loving you are and that\u2019s why I\u2019m not settling for this, what you\u2019re giving me now.<\/p>\n<p>Holding on brings us no good. Someone needs to be brave enough to say goodbye and to pull us out of this vortex of toxicity we\u2019ve fallen into. It might as well be me.<\/p>\n<p><strong>When you find you again, I\u2019ll be waiting.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This is not a goodbye so please don\u2019t look it like that. It\u2019s just a small let\u2019s catch up later. Find your way back to me when you\u2019re a better version of yourself and I\u2019ll be waiting for you to come back to me when I\u2019m a better version of myself.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/7-cosas-que-puedes-hacer-cuando-empieza-a-darte-por-sentada\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Cuando empiezas a dar por sentada a tu pareja<\/a> and there is nothing else you haven\u2019t already done then there is one last thing to try. Show him what your lives would look like without each other. And that\u2019s exactly what I\u2019m doing now.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m walking away and I\u2019m letting you go. I\u2019m distancing myself from you as I have no other options left.<\/p>\n<p>If you care, you\u2019ll wake up just like I did. If you still love me, you\u2019ll reach back out for me. And I promise I\u2019ll be there to take your hand.<\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/me-pregunto-si-las-cosas-serian-diferentes\/\">Encu\u00e9ntrame de nuevo<\/a> when you\u2019re the same man I fell for. Because you who you are now is neither someone I recognize nor someone I want to spend my life with.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-53486 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/MEET-ME-AGAIN-WHEN-YOU\u2019RE-THE-OLD-VERSION-OF-YOURSELF-PINTEREST-GRAPHIC.jpg\" alt=\"RE\u00daNETE CONMIGO DE NUEVO CUANDO SEAS LA VIEJA VERSI\u00d3N DE TI MISMO\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/MEET-ME-AGAIN-WHEN-YOU\u2019RE-THE-OLD-VERSION-OF-YOURSELF-PINTEREST-GRAPHIC.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/MEET-ME-AGAIN-WHEN-YOU\u2019RE-THE-OLD-VERSION-OF-YOURSELF-PINTEREST-GRAPHIC-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/MEET-ME-AGAIN-WHEN-YOU\u2019RE-THE-OLD-VERSION-OF-YOURSELF-PINTEREST-GRAPHIC-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/MEET-ME-AGAIN-WHEN-YOU\u2019RE-THE-OLD-VERSION-OF-YOURSELF-PINTEREST-GRAPHIC-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There is nothing worse or more painful than having the person you knew the best slowly turn into someone you used to know. There is nothing worse than looking at someone you connected with on so many levels and not recognizing him anymore. There isn\u2019t anything worse than loving someone but having to let him&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":19756,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19754","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/justin-groep-662995-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19754","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19754"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19754\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19756"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19754"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19754"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19754"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}