{"id":19767,"date":"2020-06-12T11:16:58","date_gmt":"2020-06-12T11:16:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19767"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:51:13","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:51:13","slug":"por-tu-culpa-shell-siempre-se-pregunta-por-que-no-pudo-ser-suficiente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/por-tu-culpa-shell-siempre-se-pregunta-por-que-no-pudo-ser-suficiente\/","title":{"rendered":"Por tu culpa, ella siempre se preguntar\u00e1 por qu\u00e9 no pudo ser suficiente"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>S\u00ed, puedes herir a la gente hasta el punto de que nunca olviden las cosas que les dijiste o hiciste. Las cosas que dices y haces afectan a otras personas de maneras que ni siquiera puedes imaginar. <\/p>\n<p>Puedes herir a alguien a prop\u00f3sito, pero tambi\u00e9n puedes decir cosas con rabia o con dolor que quiz\u00e1 no quer\u00edas decir, y sea como sea, esas cosas siempre se quedan en alg\u00fan lugar de tu mente y vienen a atormentarte cuando menos lo necesitas. <\/p>\n<p>Someone once said that only those who we love the most have the power to hurt us the most. And when someone you love gives you pain in return, the scars of that love remain for far too long. Sometimes, you might even think you\u2019ve healed and then the past comes and pays you a visit to simply remind you that you should always be on guard. <\/p>\n<p>The things you did to her, the things you said to her and the way you treated the girl who just wanted to love you will always make her question her worth, will forever make her wonder why she couldn\u2019t be enough for you.<\/p>\n<p><b>Siempre la comparabas con los dem\u00e1s.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Te enamoraste de ella tal y como era, pero al cabo de un tiempo empezaste a querer m\u00e1s, a querer algo diferente. As\u00ed que en lugar de dejarla en paz y encontrar a alguien que satisficiera tus criterios, seguiste pidi\u00e9ndole que cambiara. <\/p>\n<p>You kept comparing this already amazing girl and asking her why she couldn\u2019t wear her hair like this girl, or why she couldn\u2019t dress more like that girl, why she couldn\u2019t laugh differently\u2026 You kept saying how everyone else was doing great without ever bothering to give her credit for all the shit she put up with because of you.<\/p>\n<p><b>Segu\u00edas eligi\u00e9ndola a ella antes que a otros. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>The moment you two decided to enter into a relationship, she should\u2019ve been put first, always first before anyone else. But instead of making her your priority, you started brushing her off. <\/p>\n<p>Siempre hab\u00eda alguien m\u00e1s importante que ella, siempre hab\u00eda alguna otra cosa que atender. Siempre la dejabas esperando o incluso la dejabas de lado en el \u00faltimo momento. La chica que te dedicaba todo su tiempo se merec\u00eda algo m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p><b>Seguiste magnificando sus defectos. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>No, ella no era perfecta, pero t\u00fa tampoco. Lo que la hac\u00eda tan incre\u00edble era el hecho de que realmente intentaba ser la mejor versi\u00f3n de s\u00ed misma, que quer\u00eda ser perfecta s\u00f3lo para ti. Pero en el momento en que te hartaste de ella, empezaste a sacar a relucir todos sus defectos y a despreciar todos los lados buenos que esta chica ten\u00eda. <\/p>\n<p><b>Todo lo que ella hizo fue cuidar de ti, sin embargo, todo lo que hiciste fue alimentar sus inseguridades.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Fue tuya desde el principio. Lo dijo alto y claro, te demostr\u00f3 con sus acciones que s\u00f3lo ten\u00eda ojos para ti. Se comprometi\u00f3 plenamente contigo. Nunca tuviste que preocuparte por sentirte solo, porque incluso cuando todos te abandonaban, ella se quedaba a tu lado. <\/p>\n<p>Por otro lado, la chica que te lo dio todo <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/lo-dio-todo-y-no-obtuvo-nada-a-cambio\/\">no obtuvo nada a cambio<\/a>. Bueno, en realidad, es mentira. Ella recib\u00eda constantes recordatorios de que no era lo suficientemente buena, recib\u00eda todas tus palizas emocionales cuando no ten\u00edas a nadie m\u00e1s con quien aliviar tu ira. <\/p>\n<p><b>Dejaste tu firma en ella. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>You didn\u2019t just sign your name on her skin, you carved it really deep. You constantly reminded her of what was wrong with her until she believed you. Now, even if someone would like to convince her of how pretty she is or how much of an amazing human being she is, she wouldn\u2019t believe it. <\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s gonna recover from the aftermath of your toxic love. She\u2019s gonna move on, that\u2019s for sure. Because you can\u2019t be the best she gets. She deserves more. But there will always be that part of her that will wonder why she couldn\u2019t be enough. <\/p>\n<p>Regardless of the amount of love she receives in life from now on, she\u2019ll always be afraid that at some point she won\u2019t be enough. Scars like this don\u2019t ever fade.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Yes, you can hurt people to the point where they\u2019ll never forget the things you said or did to them. The things you say and do affect other people in ways you can\u2019t even imagine. You might hurt someone on purpose but you may also say things in anger or in pain that you might&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":19768,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19767","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse &amp; trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/dmitry-zelinskiy-30959-unsplash-1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse &amp; trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse &amp; trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19767","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19767"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19767\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19768"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19767"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19767"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19767"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}