{"id":19833,"date":"2021-09-14T07:39:49","date_gmt":"2021-09-14T07:39:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19833"},"modified":"2021-11-03T23:13:29","modified_gmt":"2021-11-03T23:13:29","slug":"como-superar-a-un-chico","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-superar-a-un-chico\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo superar a un ex para siempre y seguir adelante (16 pasos poderosos)"},"content":{"rendered":"

He wasn’t only your partner… He was your <\/i>mejor amigo<\/i>, your other half, your ride or die, your partner in crime… The person you devoted yourself to completely and considered<\/i> tu alma gemela<\/i><\/a>.<\/i><\/p>\n

Now, when you go through that awful reality check, you realize that he wasn’t any of these things. You understand that you were living an illusion all this time.<\/p>\n

Quieres liberarte de esa ilusi\u00f3n, pero el amor que a\u00fan sientes por \u00e9l se interpone en tu camino.<\/b><\/p>\n

Emotions can definitely make moving on a lot more difficult, but it doesn’t mean that it’s impossible. Stay with me, and I’ll teach you c\u00f3mo superar a un ex<\/a> you still love. I’ll show you how to leave him in the past and block any chances of him ever returning.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3mo superar a un ex al que todav\u00eda quieres<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

I know you’re having a hard time getting over a man you still love. You want to hate him as much as you love him, but it seems like those desires can’t get through to your heart, right?<\/p>\n

Te entiendo. It’s not like you can order your heart to fall in love or <\/b>dejar de querer a alguien<\/b><\/a>. <\/b>However, you can help it understand that it needs to let go of wrong love, and I’m here to help you talk some sense into your heart.<\/i><\/p>\n

So, let’s go through these inevitable steps you need to take if you want to supera a tu ex<\/a> y dejarlo ir para siempre.<\/p>\n

1. Deja de perseguir falsas esperanzas<\/h3>\n

Estabas segura de que era la persona adecuada para ti y, de alg\u00fan modo, sigues pensando que lo es. You still consider him your soulmate. And you\u2019ve let the saying ‘what was meant to be, will happen’ trick you into dreaming or hoping that one day you’ll reconcile and stay together forever.<\/i><\/p>\n

He is gone, and he’ll never come back to you. This is the only truth, and the sooner you accept it, the sooner you’ll be able to recover.<\/p>\n

Ser esclavo de esas falsas esperanzas s\u00f3lo prolongar\u00e1 tu proceso de recuperaci\u00f3n.<\/b> Esperar un mensaje que nunca llegar\u00e1 s\u00f3lo seguir\u00e1 desgarrando tu coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

No recibir un mensaje o no obtener respuesta tambi\u00e9n es una respuesta<\/a> and a very powerful one too. It says that the person you’re trying to reach is busy enjoying their life and that they couldn\u2019t care less about you.<\/p>\n

Esta nueva realidad que te golpe\u00f3 tan de repente es dura, lo s\u00e9. Sin embargo, si realmente quieres curarte y dejar todo en el pasado, tienes que dejar de so\u00f1ar y enfrentarte a tu realidad tal y como es ahora mismo, no como deseas que sea.<\/i><\/p>\n

2. Acepta y abraza tu estado emocional<\/h3>\n

Ser traicionado por un ser querido es m\u00e1s que doloroso. Dejar ir a alguien a quien todav\u00eda quieres<\/a> es desgarrador.<\/p>\n

Don’t pretend you’re strong, and stop trying to block the pain that is ripping through your heart. It’s not healthy, and it definitely won’t help you heal faster.<\/p>\n

Whatever it is that you’re feeling right now… Anger, sadness, frustration, fear, loneliness, resentment… It’s normal, and you need to embrace it.<\/b><\/p>\n

Todas estas son emociones que un coraz\u00f3n roto<\/a> deja atr\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Validate your emotions, but don’t allow them to control you. Allow yourself to feel your emotions, but don’t act on them. This will help you gain inner peace, which is of huge importance for your healing process.<\/p>\n

3. Lava tu coraz\u00f3n con un buen llanto<\/h3>\n

I know that you will hate yourself for being so blind and not seeing him leading you on all this time. But, the truth is, you can’t hate yourself for not being able to tell the future.<\/i><\/p>\n

At some point, you won’t even know what exactly you are feeling. Is it hate, love, happiness, or bitterness? All those emotions will be mixed deep down in your heart.<\/b><\/p>\n

That’s completely normal. Rompecorazones<\/b> son confusas, abrumadoras, complicadas y, sobre todo, dolorosas.<\/b><\/p>\n

However, the most important thing is to let it out. No matter what you feel, you need to push those emotions aside. And don’t ever be ashamed to cry.<\/p>\n

If that’s what you need, cry. Cry your heart out. Cry because it will let all the toxins out of your body, and you will feel much better.<\/b><\/p>\n

It is not shameful to admit to yourself that you are broken now. After all, it wasn’t your fault. You’re broken because you gave all your love to someone who only used it to destroy you.<\/i> I know that’s exactly what hurts you the most.<\/p>\n

4. Desintox\u00edcate de todas las emociones negativas<\/h3>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

I said that you need to face and accept all of your emotions. However, that doesn’t mean you need to stick with them forever and keep allowing them to poison your heart.<\/p>\n

Quedarse atascado en esos <\/b>emociones negativas<\/b> es perjudicial para su <\/b>salud mental<\/b> y su <\/b>bienestar<\/b> en general.<\/b> S\u00f3lo te hace m\u00e1s vulnerable a la ansiedad y el estr\u00e9s.<\/p>\n

Una vez que aceptas esas malas emociones, necesitas encontrar la manera de dejarlas ir. Tienes que liberarlas antes de que te consuman.<\/p>\n

Compartirlas con un amigo \u00edntimo o un familiar le ayudar\u00e1. El ejercicio y la meditaci\u00f3n tambi\u00e9n pueden ser \u00fatiles. Haz lo que creas que te ayudar\u00e1 desintoxicarse de esa negatividad<\/a>, just don’t keep those kinds of feelings inside.<\/p>\n

5. Intenta distraer tu mente<\/h3>\n

I don’t want to comfort you with a bunch of lies. Cuando un <\/i>fin de la relaci\u00f3n<\/i>especialmente una relaci\u00f3n duradera, deja un gran vac\u00edo en nuestras vidas.<\/i><\/p>\n

Te resultar\u00e1 dif\u00edcil, sobre todo al principio, porque te echa de menos a tu ex<\/a> like crazy, and you’ll only think about them. You won’t be able to find a way to fill that sudden void that is breaking your heart… Piece by piece, every single day.<\/b><\/p>\n

You will think about the things that went wrong. You’ll ask yourself if he left you because you weren\u2019t good enough, or maybe because you didn’t love him strong enough…<\/p>\n

Todos esos pensamientos da\u00f1inos s\u00f3lo arruinar\u00e1n tu autoestima. Don’t let them! Be stronger than that, and always remember that you have control over your thoughts and emotions, not the other way around.<\/b><\/p>\n

You need to retrain your brain and redirect your thoughts. Distract yourself by doing things you like or by indulging in things you\u2019ve never tried before.<\/p>\n

Enroll in a dance class, party with your friends, or go camping. At least you won\u2019t be alone, and your friends will make you think less about your past relationship.<\/p>\n

6. Encontrar un hombro sobre el que llorar<\/h3>\n

You don’t need to go through this painful experience alone. There are so many people who are genuinely worried about your well-being and who would want to be there for you more than anything else.<\/p>\n

Y deber\u00edas permit\u00edrselo. You’ll feel instantly relieved when you share your sorrows and everything that has been in your heart for too long with a <\/i>amado<\/i>.<\/i><\/p>\n

It really helps when you see that you have someone who understands and supports you no matter what. Knowing that you aren’t alone will push you to work on moving on even harder.<\/p>\n

7. O, estar solo si eso es lo que necesitas\/quieres<\/h3>\n

Por otro lado, si quieres estar solo, tambi\u00e9n te entiendo. A veces, quieres estar solo porque no tienes palabras para describir lo que est\u00e1 pasando en tu mente o en tu coraz\u00f3n.<\/b><\/p>\n

Esta es tu batalla, y solo t\u00fa tienes derecho a elegir c\u00f3mo vas a librarla. <\/i><\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Esa necesidad de tiempo a solas est\u00e1 completamente justificada. There are many overwhelming emotions and confusing thoughts you need to sort out right now, and that’s something you need to do in peace.<\/b><\/p>\n

However, don’t ever allow yourself to feel lonely. Being alone is good and may actually be productive, while feeling lonely will only lead you to make some (very) wrong decisions and moves.<\/p>\n

8. Cree en el poder de la regla del no contacto.<\/h3>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Si quieres superar a un chico y <\/b>deja de preocuparte por \u00e9l<\/b><\/a>, you shouldn’t contact him. Period.<\/b><\/p>\n

Si le sigues mandando mensajes o contestando<\/i> sus llamadas borracho<\/i><\/a>, you won’t ever be able to get over him.<\/i> Adem\u00e1s, podr\u00eda usar esa debilidad a su favor y enga\u00f1arte para que le des otra oportunidad.<\/p>\n

And I’m sure that it is the last thing you want after you’ve realized what kind of person he is. What kind of jerk he is, to be more precise.<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t call him, don\u2019t answer his calls or texts, and stop stalking him on <\/b>redes sociales<\/b> s\u00f3lo para saber c\u00f3mo est\u00e1 llevando la ruptura.<\/b> Adem\u00e1s, intenta evitar ir a lugares donde \u00e9l suele ir.<\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de la regla del no contacto<\/a> es una de las formas de superarlo antes de lo que crees.<\/p>\n

9. Deshazte de cosas que te recuerden a \u00e9l<\/h3>\n

Desgraciadamente, alejarse de un ser querido<\/a> y superarlos no es tan f\u00e1cil como bloquearlos en las redes sociales. Puede <\/b>eliminar de la lista de amigos<\/b> o bloquearlos en <\/b>redes sociales<\/b>, but that doesn’t mean you can end things with them so easily in <\/b>la vida real<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

In the beginning, wherever you look, everything reminds you of him, right? You can’t look anywhere because everything you see reminds you of your previous relationship and ex-partner.<\/p>\n

That phase won’t last for too long, but you’ll definitely encounter many things that will remind you of him daily. And you need to get rid of them, one by one.<\/i><\/p>\n

10. Now, it’s time to love yourself the most<\/h3>\n

Las partes m\u00e1s significativas del proceso de superaci\u00f3n y curaci\u00f3n tras el fin de una relaci\u00f3n son las siguientes amor propio<\/a> y autocuidado emocional<\/a>. If you don’t prioritize these two steps, you’ll never be able to recover completely and successfully.<\/p>\n

Throughout your relationship, your main focus was on your partner and improving your relationship. Now, it’s time to shift it all back onto yourself.<\/i><\/p>\n

O, como dice la coach de relaciones, Erika Ettin, “Rather than pining over someone who wasn’t right for you,<\/b> c\u00e9ntrate en ti mismo.<\/b><\/a>“<\/b><\/p>\n

Even when you move on and find a new partner, you shouldn’t change that primary focus. Siempre<\/b> qui\u00e9rete a ti mismo<\/b><\/a> first and most because you’re the only constant in your life.<\/b><\/p>\n

Everyone else can come and go, but you’re the only person you know for sure you’ll spend the rest of your life with.<\/i><\/p>\n

11. Vivir el momento presente<\/h3>\n

\u00bfSabes qu\u00e9 te llev\u00f3 a esta situaci\u00f3n en primer lugar? Tus sue\u00f1os y vivir una ilusi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

La mentira en la que has estado viviendo te ha llevado a que te rompan el coraz\u00f3n.<\/b> Ahora, tienes que aceptar que todo eso estaba lejos de la verdad y despertar a la realidad.<\/p>\n

I hope you\u2019ve realized that you need to break free from all that and return to the present moment.<\/i><\/p>\n

Life is harsh; your new reality sucks… But, it’s yours, and you need to live with it. And, of course, that doesn’t mean that things won’t get better one day.<\/p>\n

12. Pero, fija tu atenci\u00f3n en el futuro<\/h3>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

Hay que vivir el presente, pero tambi\u00e9n hay que mirar al futuro. Reconsidera tu perspectiva y tu visi\u00f3n de la vida y f\u00edjate nuevos objetivos.<\/p>\n

Don’t ever allow your <\/b>desamor<\/b> dictar <\/b>tu futuro<\/b>. <\/b>Your current situation, your present pain, isn’t going to last forever.<\/p>\n

Al fin y al cabo, nunca podr\u00e1s cambiar tu pasado, pero puedes labrarte un futuro mejor.<\/i><\/p>\n

Utilice todos sus <\/b>tiempo libre<\/b> para trabajar en ti mismo y convertirte en la mejor versi\u00f3n de ti mismo. <\/b>The day will come when you’ll feel ready para seguir adelante<\/a>Y cuando llegue ese d\u00eda, tienes que estar preparado para aceptarlo por completo.<\/p>\n

13. You’re allowed to take as much time as you need to heal<\/h3>\n

Poner fin a una relaci\u00f3n sentimental desgarra el alma. Superar a alguien<\/a> que a\u00fan amas nunca es algo f\u00e1cil de hacer, aunque te hayan hecho mucho da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n

En <\/b>proceso de curaci\u00f3n<\/b> isn’t and can never be done in a jiff. So, make sure that you give yourself enough time to recover.<\/b><\/p>\n

You are allowed to cry and eat a ton of ice cream. You’re allowed to lie in bed and comfort yourself with Netflix and your favorite takeout for as long as you need.<\/p>\n

Se te permite bailar toda la noche y divertirte como nunca, y se te permite volver a sentirte feliz.<\/i><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que haz lo que te haga feliz porque es lo que te mereces. Vive el d\u00eda a d\u00eda, <\/b>cu\u00eddate,<\/b> y por favor, c\u00ed\u00f1ete a <\/b>el <\/b>norma de no contacto<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

Be ready to experience occasional crises because that’s a normal part of the healing process too.<\/p>\n

Con el tiempo, todo caer\u00e1 en su sitio. Aguanta. Ten fe. Y dale tiempo al tiempo.<\/b><\/p>\n

14. Perd\u00f3nate por amar al hombre equivocado<\/h3>\n

You will probably blame yourself because you didn\u2019t see all those red flags that he’d eventually end up breaking your heart. You’ll be mad at yourself because you still love him and can’t stop even after everything he has done to you.<\/b><\/p>\n

You will ask yourself how you couldn\u2019t see that he was fooling you all the time, and you’ll live with those thoughts every day.<\/p>\n

One day, you\u2019ll gather the strength and put an end to it all.<\/p>\n

One day, you\u2019ll just get up from your bed and say that you\u2019ve decided to love yourself more. <\/i>Amor propio<\/b> is the most important step in this ‘how to get over an ex’ process.<\/b><\/p>\n

Perd\u00f3nate a ti mismo para que puedas empezar a centrarte en tu propio bienestar y en tu futuro.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t deserve to spend your whole life blaming yourself for one wrong choice when there are a thousand right ones in front of you.<\/i><\/p>\n

15. Tienes que dejar ir si quieres seguir adelante<\/h3>\n

It’s so easy to tell someone para seguir adelante<\/a>, but I know how unbearably difficult it actually is to do it. It’s not easy, it will never be easy, not even once you go through all of these steps, but it’ll get easier with time; I can honestly promise you this.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que <\/b>dejarse llevar<\/b> y seguir adelante te parece imposible ahora mismo. Te entiendo perfectamente. <\/b>You’re aware of your situation, and you’re aware that you owe it to yourself to move on, but you just feel that, as much as you try, you’ll never be ready to let go.<\/p>\n

You don’t feel strong enough to confront that ending. And that’s actually the main reason you can’t get over it…<\/p>\n

Your perception. Don’t look at it as an ending; see it as a beginning. The beginning of <\/i>tu futuro<\/i>una nueva era de tu vida que estar\u00e1 llena de amor y nada m\u00e1s que pura felicidad.<\/i><\/p>\n

Olvida que cometiste un error al elegirle. Perd\u00f3nate por amar al hombre equivocado y su\u00e9ltalo<\/a> de una vez por todas.<\/p>\n

Tienes que saber que es mejor seguir adelante que aferrarse a algo que nunca fue real.<\/b><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t deserve to lose sleep over a guy who is sleeping with other women. Te mereces experimentar el amor que se siente como en casa, el amor que le estuviste dando todo este tiempo.<\/i><\/p>\n

16. Date cuenta de que perderle fue tu mayor victoria<\/h3>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

Has perdido a la persona que amas, pero tambi\u00e9n has ganado algo m\u00e1s. Algo m\u00e1s grande e importante: conociste a tu verdadero yo.<\/p>\n

Descubriste una nueva versi\u00f3n de ti mismo. Te diste cuenta de lo fuerte y valiente que eres. Conociste tu lado m\u00e1s oscuro, lo aceptaste y te enamoraste de \u00e9l.<\/i><\/p>\n

Perdiste a alguien que obviamente nunca te quiso. Lo perdiste para volver a encontrarte a ti misma.<\/b><\/p>\n

Perderlo le dio a tu vida una nueva perspectiva. <\/b>Now you know who is and should always be the main character in your life… You, of course.<\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1nto se tarda en superar a un ex?<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Do you really expect me to give you some numbers here? I’m sorry, but it doesn’t work that way. Nadie puede predecir cu\u00e1nto tiempo durar\u00e1 su <\/i>despu\u00e9s de la ruptura<\/i> el luto durar\u00e1.<\/i><\/p>\n

Podemos hablar de estad\u00edsticas y cifras medias, pero lo cierto es que todos pasamos por estas cosas de forma diferente, y nunca nos afectan igual. M\u00e1s <\/b>expertos en relaciones<\/b> Tambi\u00e9n estoy de acuerdo en que no hay una cantidad fija de tiempo cuando se trata de superar el <\/b>fin de una relaci\u00f3n<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

However, a poll conducted on Yelp\u2019s website showed that most people need about 3.5 months to pull through a breakup. Again, it doesn’t matter if it’s three months or three years; the important thing is that you heal properly.<\/b><\/p>\n

Deja que tu coraz\u00f3n tome esa decisi\u00f3n<\/h3>\n

Tienes el coraz\u00f3n roto, y creo que deber\u00edas entregarle esa decisi\u00f3n.<\/i><\/p>\n

Forget about time because it’s the least important thing here. Intenta centrarte en curar tu coraz\u00f3n.<\/b><\/p>\n

Only when you’re completely sure that there is no longer a single trace of him in your heart, that’s cuando por fin sigues adelante<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo superar a tu ex r\u00e1pidamente?<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Unfortunately, I’ll have to disappoint you, but there is no way to do it fast. You can’t get over your ex fast if you want to do it right, especially if we’re talking about an <\/b>ex usted<\/b> todav\u00eda tienen sentimientos intensos.<\/b><\/p>\n

Even if he has done something really bad to you and hurt you deeply, that still doesn’t mean you can delete him from your heart and forget all about him overnight.<\/i><\/p>\n

Todav\u00eda hay muchas cosas que os unen, por ejemplo, vuestros amigos comunes y los recuerdos frescos, y todas esas cosas ser\u00e1n recordatorios constantes para ti al principio. \u00bfComprendes ahora que no hay una forma r\u00e1pida de olvidar y superar a tu ex?<\/p>\n

Don’t believe that jumping into the next relationship will help you heal and forget your ex at record speed or some similar nonsense. Trust me, that’s the worst relationship advice a person in this situation can receive.<\/p>\n

La verdad es que se puede seguir adelante y superar a alguien a quien se ama(ba). Sin embargo, nunca podr\u00e1s olvidar del todo a alguien que te haya llegado al coraz\u00f3n. Siempre habr\u00e1 una parte de ti, de tu coraz\u00f3n y de tu alma, que se acordar\u00e1 de ellos y del amor que una vez sentiste por ellos.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo puedo olvidar a mi ex?<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Quitarse a alguien de la cabeza<\/a> is actually not that hard. You simply occupy yourself with things and people you like and keep yourself busy so you don’t think about them.<\/p>\n

However, it’s not that easy dejar de querer a alguien<\/a>. When someone puts down roots deep in your heart, it’s so hard to get rid of those tiny vessels because they branch out everywhere.<\/b><\/p>\n

Lo m\u00e1s importante que hay que recordar es que nunca hay que forzar nada. S\u00f3lo tienes que dejar esas cosas en manos del destino y mantener la fe en el tiempo.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo el tiempo es lo suficientemente poderoso como para eliminar de tu mente y de tu coraz\u00f3n cualquier cosa que te recuerde a \u00e9l.<\/i><\/p>\n

Olvida lo que fue y acepta lo que es<\/h3>\n

Olv\u00eddate del pasado. Simplemente descarta todos esos conmovedores, dolorosos, PASADOS <\/i>recuerdos<\/i> de tu mente. <\/i>That shouldn’t be the place where your focus needs to be right now.<\/p>\n

Focus on where you’re going to spend the rest of your life. Focus on <\/b>tu futuro<\/b>. <\/b>Deja de so\u00f1ar con tu pasado, espabila y vuelve a la vida real.<\/p>\n

One day, you’ll outgrow that man who didn’t want to love you, who didn’t know how to keep you by his side.<\/b> You’ll heal your broken heart and move on with a powerful lesson for the future.<\/p>\n

En conjunto<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Espero que esta gu\u00eda sobre c\u00f3mo superar a un ex al que todav\u00eda quieres<\/a> will be as helpful to you as it was for me. As you see, I’m sitting here and writing all this to you even though my heart was broken into a million pieces. I didn’t allow my ex to break me, and I gathered the strength to move on.<\/p>\n

And, I’m sure you will too. I’m sure you’ll find yourself in a new relationship, una relaci\u00f3n sana<\/a> en poco tiempo y olvidar\u00e1s que esto te ha pasado.<\/p>\n

La gente dice que <\/b>el tiempo lo cura todo<\/b><\/a>. No, s\u00f3lo nosotros podemos curarnos, y el tiempo est\u00e1 ah\u00ed s\u00f3lo para apoyarnos y ayudarnos.<\/b><\/p>\n

So, stand up and fight. Keep the faith that you’ll recover. Show yourself and the rest of the world how strong you are and that no matter how much they try, they’ll never be able to break you completely.<\/p>\n

Remember, to keep yourself, you need to let him go… Abre tu coraz\u00f3n, desbloquea esa jaula y deja que salga volando de ah\u00ed.<\/i><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

He wasn’t only your partner… He was your best friend, your other half, your ride or die, your partner in crime… The person you devoted yourself to completely and considered your soulmate. Now, when you go through that awful reality check, you realize that he wasn’t any of these things. You understand that you were…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":137830,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19833","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/How-To-Get-Over-An-Ex-For-Good-And-Move-On-16-Powerful-Steps-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19833","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19833"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19833\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/137830"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19833"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19833"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19833"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}