{"id":19864,"date":"2020-04-20T08:15:44","date_gmt":"2020-04-20T08:15:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19864"},"modified":"2022-01-10T20:48:14","modified_gmt":"2022-01-10T20:48:14","slug":"8-signos-mas-comunes-de-incompatibilidad-en-las-relaciones-de-pareja","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/8-signos-mas-comunes-de-incompatibilidad-en-las-relaciones-de-pareja\/","title":{"rendered":"8 signos m\u00e1s comunes de incompatibilidad en las relaciones de pareja"},"content":{"rendered":"

1. They keep repeating the same mistake even though they promised they wouldn’t<\/h2>\n

\"Primer
\nSimplemente mantienen decepcion\u00e1ndote<\/a>. Let\u2019s say you and your partner had a problem, he did something to hurt you and he swore he would never do it again.  He said he was sorry, it was a mistake and so on.<\/p>\n

Lleva un tiempo haci\u00e9ndose el simp\u00e1tico y todo parece ir bien. Pero antes de que te des cuenta, lo ha vuelto a hacer y sientes que est\u00e1s repitiendo el mismo escenario.<\/p>\n

Ya ves, est\u00e1n acostumbrados a salirse con la suya y tu perd\u00f3n se convierte en algo que dan por sentado. <\/p>\n

No tienen intenci\u00f3n de cambiar y se limitar\u00e1n a repetir lo mismo una y otra vez hasta que por fin te canses y admitas que no est\u00e1s con la persona adecuada.<\/p>\n

2. Nunca escuchan lo que tienes que decir<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Cuando se trata de escuchar, t\u00fa eres el que mejor lo hace. Todo lo que les pasa, bueno o malo, est\u00e1s ah\u00ed para escucharlo.<\/p>\n

Lamentablemente, cuando necesitas un o\u00eddo amigo y alguien con quien hablar, probablemente elegir\u00edas a tu mejor amigo antes que a tu pareja.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that he is not the one you wouldn\u2019t want to share your thoughts with, you simply know that he won\u2019t be interested in what you have to say.<\/p>\n

He ignores your need to talk to them, it would never cross his mind to ask you how you are or how your day went, he only talks about themself, etc. Things shouldn\u2019t go that way.<\/p>\n

Tu pareja debe ser la persona con la que compartas tus buenas noticias y la persona con la que compartas tus penas.<\/p>\n

You shouldn\u2019t be in a relationship where you feel like you are not important and you are not treated as an equal.<\/p>\n

3. Tu relaci\u00f3n se parece m\u00e1s a un campo de batalla que a una relaci\u00f3n amorosa<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Parece que vuestra comunicaci\u00f3n se ha reducido a discutir y nada m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

You never see eye to eye and you often go to bed angry at each other. It\u2019s obvious that your communication skills are catastrophic.<\/p>\n

You probably already tried to work things out and be more understanding but it didn\u2019t go as planned.<\/p>\n

Segu\u00eds peleando y discutiendo sobre esto y aquello y parece que nunca acabar\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Tienes raz\u00f3n, probablemente nunca lo har\u00e1 porque sois incompatibles. Si pas\u00e1is m\u00e1s tiempo pele\u00e1ndoos que siendo felices y llev\u00e1ndoos bien, es que sois incompatibles.<\/p>\n

You have totally opposite outlooks on what\u2019s wrong and what\u2019s right.<\/p>\n

Your viewpoints on life and relationships are completely different and that\u2019s why you haven\u2019t worked things out.<\/p>\n

4. 4. Cuestiones sexuales<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Hay dos escenarios posibles. El primero ocurre cuando su vida sexual<\/a> es genial pero todo lo dem\u00e1s va cuesta abajo. Ten\u00e9is una gran comunicaci\u00f3n en la cama, pero fuera de ella, no tanto.<\/p>\n

Vuestras pasiones os mantienen unidos porque cuando detente y eval\u00faa realmente tu relaci\u00f3n<\/a>En la mayor\u00eda de los casos, se observa una falta de atenci\u00f3n, afecto y, a veces, incluso de respeto y confianza.<\/p>\n

El segundo escenario se da cuando la vida sexual es casi inexistente, muy escasa o simplemente mala, pero todos los dem\u00e1s aspectos de la relaci\u00f3n son estupendos.<\/p>\n

Sois como mejores amigos y os falta la parte amorosa y no est\u00e1is del todo satisfechos.<\/p>\n

You know what they say, a good and healthy sex life is only 20% of the relationship but if it\u2019s bad it is everything.<\/p>\n

Ambos escenarios gritan que sois incompatibles. No deber\u00eda faltar nada y deber\u00edais tener alg\u00fan tipo de equilibrio entre amistad y pasi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

You shouldn\u2019t hold on to someone who is wrong for you just because the sex is amazing.<\/p>\n

Likewise, you shouldn\u2019t settle for a passionless relationship just because you share a deep friendship with someone.<\/p>\n

5. You feel like you can\u2019t be yourself around them<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Quieres compartir con ellos las cosas que te molestan o las que te hacen feliz, pero te resistes a hacerlo porque probablemente las descartar\u00e1n por est\u00fapidas. Nunca te sientes c\u00f3modo y sientes que te est\u00e1s conteniendo.<\/p>\n

You want to do things like sing along to the radio while you are driving or pick a new movie to watch but you feel like you can\u2019t because he will tell you to shut up or that you are stupid.<\/p>\n

When you are in a healthy relationship, you feel loved and accepted and you don\u2019t feel the need to dread your every step.<\/p>\n

You feel cozy enough to be your weird self and it\u2019s the best feeling in the world. If you are not feeling it, you are incompatible.<\/p>\n

6. Sobrecarga de celos<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Jealousy doesn\u2019t have to necessarily be a bad thing when it\u2019s within reason. But sometimes it can go too far and suffocate you completely.<\/p>\n

Dos personas excesivamente celosas s\u00f3lo conseguir\u00e1n frenarse mutuamente, por no mencionar que puede convertirse f\u00e1cilmente en algo t\u00f3xico.<\/p>\n

If your relationship isn\u2019t based on trust it won\u2019t be able to survive for too long.<\/p>\n

Al final, una o las dos personas de la relaci\u00f3n acabar\u00e1n cansadas de que el tel\u00e9fono no pare de sonar, de que alguien compruebe su paradero y controle todos sus movimientos.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not just a question of incompatibility, it becomes damaging to somebody’s physical and mental health.<\/p>\n

7. La relaci\u00f3n se ha vuelto mon\u00f3tona<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1s atrapado en la rutina y parece que no hay nada que puedas hacer al respecto.<\/p>\n

Salir con tu pareja es s\u00f3lo eso, salir, quedarse viendo pel\u00edculas, abrazarse un poco y luego cada uno se va por su lado o a lados diferentes de la cama. Las citas nocturnas y las salidas parecen cosa del pasado.<\/p>\n

There are different types of people. Some don\u2019t mind a rut and the stability it provides them with.<\/p>\n

Repetir los mismos escenarios una y otra vez les parece m\u00e1s que bien, ya que les proporciona una sensaci\u00f3n de seguridad y estabilidad.<\/p>\n

El problema surge cuando se involucran con alguien que necesita m\u00e1s movimiento y diversidad en la relaci\u00f3n. Alguien a quien le gusta probar cosas nuevas, como viajar y salir.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that one person is bad and the other is good, both are completely normal; the thing is, they are completely different and therefore incompatible.<\/p>\n

Una relaci\u00f3n entre estos dos tipos de personalidad s\u00f3lo puede funcionar si ambos est\u00e1n decididos a esforzarse y a encontrarse a medio camino.<\/p>\n

Si el amor supera sus diferencias, tendr\u00e1n muchas posibilidades de que las cosas funcionen.<\/p>\n

8. Percepciones diferentes de la situaci\u00f3n actual de la relaci\u00f3n y de hacia d\u00f3nde se dirigen.<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

A veces, dos personas en una misma relaci\u00f3n no est\u00e1n de acuerdo.<\/p>\n

Su nivel de implicaci\u00f3n, inversi\u00f3n y percepci\u00f3n de hacia d\u00f3nde se dirige la relaci\u00f3n son completamente diferentes.<\/p>\n

Mientras que uno puede estar listo para llevar la relaci\u00f3n al siguiente nivel, el otro huye a la m\u00ednima se\u00f1al de compromiso.<\/p>\n

One is already imagining married life with children while the other one is not ready for that yet. Or one wants children in the future but the other one doesn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Estas son grandes se\u00f1ales de incompatibilidad. Si no avanz\u00e1is al mismo ritmo y si vuestros caminos hacia el futuro toman direcciones diferentes, nunca conseguir\u00e9is que funcione. Algunas personas son no est\u00e1 listo para comprometerse<\/a> al mismo tiempo o nunca.<\/p>\n

Algunos pueden imaginarse pasar su vida solteros y sin hijos, etc.<\/p>\n

The thing is they need someone who is there to back that up. You can\u2019t force anything.<\/p>\n

Si no se sienten c\u00f3modos con la situaci\u00f3n actual de su relaci\u00f3n, lo tendr\u00e1n a\u00fan m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil en el futuro.<\/p>\n

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