{"id":19871,"date":"2020-07-18T13:17:15","date_gmt":"2020-07-18T13:17:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=19871"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:35:14","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:35:14","slug":"puede-que-le-hayas-hecho-dano-pero-al-final-eres-tu-quien-ha-perdido","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/puede-que-le-hayas-hecho-dano-pero-al-final-eres-tu-quien-ha-perdido\/","title":{"rendered":"Puede que la hayas herido, pero al final fuiste t\u00fa quien perdi\u00f3."},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfC\u00f3mo pudiste herir a una chica que s\u00f3lo quer\u00eda amarte? \u00bfC\u00f3mo pudiste no ver que se merec\u00eda el mundo porque estaba dispuesta a hacer cualquier cosa por ti?<\/p>\n

She just wanted to be yours, that\u2019s all she ever asked for.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You promised to love her forever but you lied to her. You said there would never be another one for you but that wasn\u2019t true. You swore to appreciate her but you only ended up taking her for granted.<\/p>\n

Se merec\u00eda mucho m\u00e1s de lo que le diste. Se merec\u00eda mucho m\u00e1s que ser herida por alguien a quien quer\u00eda m\u00e1s de lo que se quer\u00eda a s\u00ed misma.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Hiciste que se enamorara de ti, le prometiste un futuro y le hiciste creer que eras su alma gemela, que eras el elegido y que estabais hechos el uno para el otro. Y lo estabais, pero entonces cambiaste.<\/p>\n

Todo lo que consigui\u00f3 al final fue dolor y una pu\u00f1alada con un cuchillo directo a su coraz\u00f3n cada vez que ten\u00edas oportunidad para ello.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t choose the tools, you did everything possible to hurt her. You started lying to her, jugar a juegos<\/a>jugando al fr\u00edo y al calor, utiliz\u00e1ndola cuando te conven\u00eda y dej\u00e1ndola plantada cuando era ella la que te necesitaba.<\/p>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

Resultaste ser uno de esos imb\u00e9ciles ego\u00edstas que utilizan a los dem\u00e1s para sus propias necesidades.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 has hecho?<\/p>\n

Esta chica merec\u00eda ser amada porque s\u00f3lo sent\u00eda amor por ti. Merec\u00eda ser apreciada porque hizo todo lo posible por ti.<\/p>\n

She should\u2019ve left you a long time ago but she chose to fight for you and she chose to fight for your love. When you had nobody, she was by your side. When everyone decided to leave you, she chose to stay.<\/p>\n

You know why she is this way? She can\u2019t help it, it\u2019s just in her nature. When she loves, she loves till the end, unlike you. When she loves, she accepts both good and bad sides.<\/p>\n

Cuando ama, hace hasta lo imposible por quienes le importan. Y nunca se rinde porque siempre encuentra una raz\u00f3n para quedarse en lugares donde a nadie m\u00e1s se le ocurrir\u00eda mirar.<\/p>\n

See, you really are something. You managed to push all her buttons to the point where she just couldn\u2019t do it anymore. <\/strong>La hiciste renunciar a alguien que amaba tanto.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Simplemente se cans\u00f3 de tus mentiras, tus juegos y tus manipulaciones. Se cans\u00f3 de escuchar las mismas promesas que nunca pensaste cumplir.<\/p>\n

Se cans\u00f3 de darlo todo y no recibir nada a cambio. Se cans\u00f3 de vivir de las migajas de tu amor.<\/p>\n

And most importantly she was exhausted from always coming last on your list when she always put you first. It wasn\u2019t fair and she should\u2019ve gotten more than this. She deserved it.<\/p>\n

She just wanted to be yours, that\u2019s all she ever asked for.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Instead of loving her, you chose to hurt her. It\u2019s a lie that you didn\u2019t mean to hurt her. Nobody hurts people accidentally.<\/p>\n

Porque cada vez que decidiste no ponerla en primer lugar, cada vez que la despreciaste, cada vez que usaste palabras mezquinas para hundirla, cada vez que le ocultaste tu amor, le estabas haciendo da\u00f1o. Ves, fue una elecci\u00f3n, as\u00ed que d\u00e9jate de tonter\u00edas.<\/p>\n

Es una buena chica<\/a> and she didn\u2019t deserve the hell you put her through. She deserved to be happy and she needed just a little but even that little was too much to ask from you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It\u2019s okay, don\u2019t worry, because it is you in the end who pulled the short straw.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

She\u2019ll get over it. It\u2019s just a matter of time. Soon, she\u2019ll come to realize you\u2019ve done her no good.<\/p>\n

She\u2019ll realize you were just a parasite who fed off of her love. And she might be hurting now but she\u2019ll heal.<\/p>\n

We all get hurt by love and we all have our cross to bear but she\u2019ll get over you, she will be fine. And you? Well, I\u2019m not sure you\u2019ll ever get over her. Because even though you hurt her, it\u2019s you who lost in the end.<\/p>\n

\u00bfEres siquiera consciente de la clase de chica que has conseguido perder?<\/p>\n

Perdiste a una chica que realmente quer\u00eda ser tuya<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nadie te amar\u00e1 como ella. Nadie se esforzar\u00e1 por ti como ella. Nadie har\u00e1 lo imposible por hacerte feliz. Nadie sacrificar\u00e1 jam\u00e1s su propia felicidad s\u00f3lo para verte sonre\u00edr.<\/p>\n

Enhorabuena, chico, la has cagado. Te las arreglaste para perder a una buena chica.<\/strong><\/p>\n

And perhaps you might not see it now but I promise you, eventually it will hit you. It will hit you and you\u2019ll realize that you\u2019ve lost a girl who just wanted to love you and make you happy.<\/p>\n

And when you finally come to your senses and you wish to get her back, don\u2019t bother. She won\u2019t be waiting for you. Because she will have moved on with someone who\u2019d rather die than hurt her.<\/p>\n

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